Your First Big Penis: How to Take It All and Love It
From a visual treat, to a huge pleasure between your thighs, if you know how to handle it. your first big penis might just be the hottest sexual experience you have ever had. On the other hand, if you don’t, discovering that your new man is over-endowed can be panic-inducing. Recently I’ve helped several women who were concerned about taking their first big penis, so I thought that I would share some of the advice that worked for them. Men can also use the tips if their partners are complaining about them being “too big.”
1) Add lubricant
This may solve the problem all by itself. If you don’t already use lubricant during vaginal intercourse, now is the time to start. There are dozens of different brands of lube, and they all make sex more comfortable by making it more slippery.
Some women say they don’t need additional lube because they lubricate a lot on their own. However, if you’re having intercourse with someone with a big penis, using extra lubricant is always recommended. Experiment with a few different kinds to see if a thicker or thinner lube is best for you, and if you’re prone to yeast infections, avoid lubricants with glycerin. Don’t forget that lubrication can come and go, so be sure to keep adding the slippery stuff as needed.
2) Sex positions
Sex positions are another way to deal with discomfort or pain due to a partner who has a big penis. The best sex position will be one that allows you control over the depth and angle of penetration and offers as much movement as possible. Avoid positions that allow for deep penetration (e.g., rear entry) and favor positions that give you more control.
The woman-on-top position is a good one to try because it lets you control the depth of penetration. Have him lie flat on his back and hover over him on your hands and knees while sliding him inside you. Move your hips in circular motions as you slide up and down, only going as deep as you can handle.
The missionary or man-on-top position is pleasurable for a woman if the man has a big penis, but remember that the more your pelvis is tilted, the deeper the penetration. Also, the further apart your legs are, the deeper he can thrust, so keep your thighs together. Not only will it prevent him from plunging in too far, it can also make for some amazing clitoral/penile friction.
To modify other sex positions besides these, just remember the principles: moving your legs closer together tightens the vaginal canal and only allows shallower penetration. Moving your legs further apart opens the vaginal canal and allows deeper penetration, as does tilting your pelvis.
3) Squeeze and release.
If you’re a little apprehensive of your partner’s size, you may tense your vaginal muscles unconsciously, which can make penetration difficult or painful. Remember, you’ve added lubricant, and you’re in the right position, so you’re ready to take his penis and enjoy it. Just be sure to go slowly. Tell your partner to allow you guide him, and that you’ll let him know how hard and deep to go.
Before he enters you, squeeze yor vaginal muscles and then as he pushes inside you, release them. Squeeze again as he pulls out, and then release as he pushes in and so on. Inhale on the squeeze and exhale on the release. Once your vagina has accommodated to his size, you won’t have to think about it anymore, and you can just relax and enjoy the sex.
Once you reach your first orgasm, your next one is bound to follow within a few minutes, and you’ll go from there. Enjoy your first big penis and have fun. That’s what sex is all about.
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