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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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Your First Big Penis: How to Take It All and Love It

Well-EndowedFrom a visual treat, to a huge pleasure between your thighs, if you know how to handle it. your first big penis might just be the hottest sexual experience you have ever had. On the other hand, if you don’t, discovering that your new man is over-endowed can be panic-inducing. Recently I’ve helped several women who were concerned about taking their first big penis, so I thought that I would share some of the advice that worked for them. Men can also use the tips if their partners are complaining about them being “too big.”

1) Add lubricant

This may solve the problem all by itself. If you don’t already use lubricant during vaginal intercourse, now is the time to start. There are dozens of different brands of lube, and they all make sex more comfortable by making it more slippery.

Some women say they don’t need additional lube because they lubricate a lot on their own. However, if you’re having intercourse with someone with a big penis, using extra lubricant is always recommended. Experiment with a few different kinds to see if a thicker or thinner lube is best for you, and if you’re prone to yeast infections, avoid lubricants with glycerin. Don’t forget that lubrication can come and go, so be sure to keep adding the slippery stuff as needed.

2) Sex positions

Sex positions are another way to deal with discomfort or pain due to a partner who has a big penis. The best sex position will be one that allows you control over the depth and angle of penetration and offers as much movement as possible. Avoid positions that allow for deep penetration (e.g., rear entry) and favor positions that give you more control.

The woman-on-top position is a good one to try because it lets you control the depth of penetration. Have him lie flat on his back and hover over him on your hands and knees while sliding him inside you. Move your hips in circular motions as you slide up and down, only going as deep as you can handle.

The missionary or man-on-top position is pleasurable for a woman if the man has a big penis, but remember that the more your pelvis is tilted, the deeper the penetration. Also, the further apart your legs are, the deeper he can thrust, so keep your thighs together. Not only will it prevent him from plunging in too far, it can also make for some amazing clitoral/penile friction.

To modify other sex positions besides these, just remember the principles: moving your legs closer together tightens the vaginal canal and only allows shallower penetration. Moving your legs further apart opens the vaginal canal and allows deeper penetration, as does tilting your pelvis.

3) Squeeze and release.

If you’re a little apprehensive of your partner’s size, you may tense your vaginal muscles unconsciously, which can make penetration difficult or painful. Remember, you’ve added lubricant, and you’re in the right position, so you’re ready to take his penis and enjoy it. Just be sure to go slowly. Tell your partner to allow you guide him, and that you’ll let him know how hard and deep to go.

Before he enters you, squeeze yor vaginal muscles and then as he pushes inside you, release them. Squeeze again as he pulls out, and then release as he pushes in and so on.  Inhale on the squeeze and exhale on the release. Once your vagina has accommodated to his size, you won’t have to think about it anymore, and you can just relax and enjoy the sex.

Once you reach your first orgasm, your next one is bound to follow within a few minutes, and you’ll go from there. Enjoy your first big penis and have fun. That’s what sex is all about.

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14 Responses to Your First Big Penis: How to Take It All and Love It

  • Eric says:

    what is considered big penis?

    Thanks :)

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    It depends, but seven inches or more is above average.

  • Eric says:

    According to the overall opinion of various medical articles and a few brave women who put their stats on the web, it goes approximately like this: Unaroused: 3-5 inches deep Aroused: 5-7 inches deep Stretched to the max: 8-10 inches deep.

    So women like to be stretched little bit, but still 8-10 inches is rather rare, even 7,5.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Yes, women definitely like to be stretched a little bit.

  • jarred says:

    so does that mean my 9in long and 6in around penis is considered pretty big?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:


  • jarred says:

    sweet thank you, fullness achieved.

  • Rod says:

    Ok I have a question the so called fornix culdi sac or deep G spot text say its like only 3-4″ inside a vagina. I’ve worked my wife from every angle position and have never hit it or came close. As you know me and my wife over the years have been regular posters on this site and read it all the time. We have been having threesomes with my best friend who’s over 9″ long and very thick. I’m neither thick or long I’m 5 1/4″ long and 4 3/4″ around. But I’m over the 3-4″ depth of the fornix the text claim it depth is. Since my friends hits it every time and my wife’s user to the sensation she knows where it is. She was its more like 7 1/4″ – 7 1/2″ she’s a totally Jonestown women who knows her body. So my question is why do medical text and sexpert lie about it, I also know not many women experience this sensation as well, this only long goes to prove if not many guys have big ones and not many experience them it my wife must be right.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    The G-spot is a couple of inches in on the upper wall of the vagina. What your wife is talking about towards the back is probably the A-spot. It has some similarities to the G-spot in that it causes more lubrication and intense orgasms. This is my article about how to hit it manually.

  • Tom says:

    and what is ideal for you? :)

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Long, thick, and uncut.

  • Tom says:

    Like 8+ inch long?

    Do you have reliable information about how much man (%) are ideal for you?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Probably seven plus. No idea what the percentage actually is – just that it’s far lower than the percentage of men who claim to have one that big.

  • Laura says:

    Average is about 5.6 inches, so most girls are disappointed?

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