Your Favorite Sex Position: Time for an Upgrade?
Women’s Health tells how to take your favorite sex position and kick it up a notch.
It’s so easy to get lazy in bed. When the mood strikes, why contort like a Cirque du Soleil acrobat when 1) the fact that you’re already having satisfying sex is more than most people accomplish and 2) a simple you’re-on-top-tonight position can get the job done fine? But like anything easy — an energy bar for lunch, the treadmill at the gym, shopping on Bluefly.com — before long, you feel like you’re missing out on the really fun stuff. So every once in a while (seriously, even just once a month) mix it up a little. For the best way to do that naked, we asked experts and real women to share their proven strategies for getting new thrills out of those same old sex positions you know and love.
Gripe #1 “I can’t move the way I need to for an orgasm.”
To get more wiggle room — for hip-grinding or to reach your clitoris with your fingers — start by having him sit back on his heels on the bed. Then lie back against a couple of pillows, place your legs on either side of his thighs, and have him grasp your hips and pull your pelvis toward his, er, crotch. You can rest the bottoms of your feet on the bed for balance and leverage or wrap them around his waist. Stack those pillows up high behind you to prevent all the blood from rushing to your head. Then again, that might just add to the excitement. Read more