Why Do Some Women Like a Big Penis?

If you ask most women whether penis size is important to them, they will probably say it doesn’t matter and mean it. Of course, a man’s looks, personality, intelligence, and character are more important than the size of his penis, and his sexual skills have more to do with bringing a woman to orgasm than his penis size. After all, it’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion in the ocean, right?  However, what women say isn’t always how they instinctively feel. Why do some women like a big penis?

A big penis has always been seen as a symbol of manliness. (A common way to disparage a man is to insinuate that he is under-endowed.) When a man with a bigger penis is erect, he is seen as a more powerful and stronger man in the eyes of women and is, therefore, perceived in our minds as potentially a better lover. Women also tend to think that a larger penis is more attractive than a smaller one due to its being more visible in comparison to rest of the body.

The truth of the matter is that some women don’t so much like a big penis as they dislike a small one. A small penis isn’t visually stimulating and doesn’t get you excited about the lovemaking to come. Also, many women complain that a small, slender penis doesn’t “fill them up,” or, even worse, that they can’t feel anything when the man is inside them.

On the other hand, a big penis does give that “full” feeling that women desire. During foreplay, there is something exciting and fascinating about being able to wrap both hands around a throbbing, pulsating, and continually expanding piece of male flesh. Large men also have the advantage when doing it doggy style or in a scissors fashion. Length is necessary in several sexual positions where the distance between them and the depths of a woman’s vagina is expansive.

Actually, most women who desire a well-endowed lover are not looking for length as much as girth. Women tend to want a penis that is very thick (at least six inches around), heavy, and rock hard more than they are concerned with length. The ideal penis is one which is thick enough to stretch a woman’s vaginal opening and which can be felt inside her body each time she has sex. An extremely thick penis creates more friction against the vaginal walls and also can stimulate a woman’s clitoris better, which helps her to achieve orgasm.

A big penis, however, is not a panacea for sexual dissatisfaction. In fact, an ignorant, selfish man with a big penis is liable to cause a woman a lot more pain than pleasure during intercourse. On the other hand, a big penis wielded by a skillful lover can take a woman to undreamed of heights of sexual pleasure and fulfillment. That’s why some women like a big penis.

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21 Responses to “Why Do Some Women Like a Big Penis?”

  1. Cat Says:

    I’m one of those women who doesn’t so much like a big penis as I dislike a small one. You’re right that it just doesn’t get me excited about having sex, probably because I’ve never had an orgasm with a small penis. Not that I have one every time with a big one (which to me is about 7-8 inches), but at least I have a chance.

  2. Moira Says:

    I vote against small penises, too, but 6-7 inches is plenty big enough for me. Over 7 inches and it starts to get uncomfortable. I’m tighter and smaller than the average woman, I think.

  3. Bob Says:

    Kinda flies in the face of all those other posts where you “say” size doesn’t matter.

  4. Svetlana Ivanova Says:

    I don’t say that though I do suggest ways for a man to compensate for a small penis.

  5. Bob Says:

    But it seems “compensation” is not enough according to these women. And it seems the vast majority of women do hold with what Cat says.

    So… isn’t just it placation to say, “Do this or that on this occasion and she’ll be just as happy”?

    Maybe women would be happy with a guy who can’t satisfy them vaginally, but how would he ever know what is and isn’t true with all these “seemingly” contradictory statements? How could he trust her if he “knows” one “truth” yet she tells him another?

    Well, wouldn’t have to ask these and most women judging by this article and comments.

    Wow.

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  8. liza omar Says:

    If my huasband loved even his penis is 3sm i am ok

  9. cathleen Says:

    My last boyfriend was large, but I didn’t go out looking for a guy with a large penis, it was just part of him.

  10. Rod Says:

    My wife admitted to me that size “girth matters” Im 6 3/4″ long and 5 1/2″ around. We dabbled with toys after our sex talk and she reall likes the biggest of toys I got her. It’s 9 1/2″ insertable length not the 12″ posted lol but it’s the girth she really loves best 7 3/4″ around she cumms in about 2 minutes very hard. Size matter who care it just a fact so they have ways to help why not let her enjoy rather than have her sexually fustrated.

  11. Svetlana Ivanova Says:

    You’re a good husband :).

  12. Rod & Ashley Says:

    Thanks Svetlana Ivanova, I try I think thats the most important thing you can do. Keep trying new things and keeping it fun if you have any ideas please tell lol.

  13. Rod & Ashley Says:

    I let her enjoy the bigger cock because its fun watching her have an orgasm unlike anything I have ever given her. The facial expresions she makes and her bodies response. Wow is all I can say I love her and she deserves it we both have fun.

  14. john Says:

    The ladies like a large slong. Good Looks, Charming

    personality, fun to be with, good character, financially

    secure, these are all attractive attributes the ladies

    like. I will challenge anyone who says different.

  15. Mike Says:

    Picking a penis size is not a good idea when choosing a mate. Yes my penis is only six inches long but my wife didn’t fall in love with me because of my size. Seems the divorce rate these days is proof enough love does not exist in ones heart and mind but in their eyes.

  16. cathy Says:

    My present boyfriend is the largest I’ve been with and it took a while to get used to his size. After having sex with a large penis for a while I’m really beginning to like it.

  17. Svetlana Ivanova Says:

    Big penises are quite likable :).

  18. steve Says:

    A larger penis seems to have a way of stimulating more of the woman’s nerve endings in there. More than that, talk of this stimulates imagination and emotions! Once that 4 to 5 inch “tube” part of her canal has been opened like that – she is “aware” from then on. It is as if the pleasure areas in the vagina “bloom” and become easier to touch (even for “average guys” thereafter). At a minimum, women like to “confess” they have had larger, because they want normal boyfriend to regard them as more sensual and more experienced. Her new lover will then take time – licking her and screwing her brains out to act more-in-love, and prove that his is better. Just sharing talk, having her “confess” enhances sex, and motivates new motions in her sweet love ocean! -and in the new motions in the guy’s tongue and dick!

  19. Mike Says:

    Steve my wife had only one dude before me and he was big, about 8 inches, I am 6. From what she told me he sucked. My wife has a tipped uterus and every time he had sex with her he bashed her cervix. For the year he dated her she only and had sex with him a dozen times. He was not thick as me but rather long. She had a thing for me because I was so much more handsome and good looking. My wife told me I was so much better a lover and took a long time before cummming. I had lots of lover, some married and knew how to please a woman. The other guy never lasted more than 10 minutes and after he came he never wanted a second. I would screw my wife three times and spend hours in a hotel. In fact my wife would get so dry after fucking for a while I never got to do her a forth time. So as far a long cock being the biggest factor, I think not.

  20. Ashley Says:

    Mike, Thats interesting I never had of that problem with it hurting but since your wife has a tipped uterus that would make sense. Maybe thats why some dont enjoy it if its too long. I think looks are a big factor as well lol for me sparks wouldn’t start without natural attraction. I think it’s just different for everyone we all have our own Turn ons. Im turned on by my husband he’s not as big as Jerry but I still enjoy it. I think just being able to enjoy such a difference in size I do feel lucky. I thank my husband all the time our sex life is great. I just thank your wifes lucky she found you to enjoy as well.

  21. Mike Says:

    Thanks Ashley. There are times I can slightly feel her cervix. I am glad fucking my wife never made her feel any pain. Truth is my wife was supper attracted to me. I am tall and handsome and she had a huge crush on me. I am seven years younger than my wife and I guess the other guy just didn’t do it for her. All she tells me is that he was a short skinny guy with a long cock. They were both 16 when she gave her virginity to him. At that point I hardly her. She asked me out and I said yes. She dumped other other guy really bad and for him it hurt. Still after dating a few weeks it was me my wife wanted to get pregnant by and today we have beautiful yellow blond sons and daughters.

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