What Sex Taboos Should You Encourage Your Woman to Break?
What sex taboos should you encourage your woman to break? Elena Wilson discusses the pros and cons of five.
One day a few years ago I was at my boyfriend’s place, lying naked on his bed after sex. He’d gone to shower, and when he came back he found me stretching on all fours, ass in the air. “Oh, God—don’t move,” he said. As I looked over my shoulder, he aimed his iPhone at me—and all of a sudden I was in my first nude photo shoot. When we flipped through the results minutes later, I was so turned on that I climbed back on top of him.
Taking dirty pictures wasn’t something I ever thought I’d be into, but I’ve done it with both men I’ve dated since. (Happy blackmailing, guys!) For most women, in fact, a steamy first-time experience can be a revelation that leads to a whole new sexual world. Sometimes we just need a nudge in the right direction.
Of course, for every sexual initiation that’s a wild success, there’s one that goes wronger than wrong. You don’t want to be remembered as the guy who busts out the inflatable sheep on the first date. So, to find out which experiments are likeliest to bring her back for more, I had dozens of women describe their hottest—and most disastrous—first times. If your girl hasn’t checked these rites of passage off her to-do list, take the lead and become her sex guru. Read more