What Proportion of Men Are Really Good in Bed?
Whenever she is with a group of women, an editor at SheKnows asks, “What proportion of men are really good in bed?” Is it a coincidence that the 30 percent figure in her surveys matches the well-accepted average of 30 percent of women who reach orgasm through intercourse alone? If not, would men rate higher as lovers if they learned how to bring their women to orgasm with the coital alignment technique? A man who cared enough to learn how to make love to his woman certainly would.
“What proportion of men are really good in bed?” I ask this question whenever I am with a group of women. Alas, the results are not encouraging: I’ve never had a figure higher than 30 percent. There are, however, good reasons for this. The first and most pernicious is the idea that good lovemaking is instinctive, like eating. This is rubbish. Sex may be a basic instinct, but making love is an art. Both sexes have to learn it, and men more so than women, because women are more sexually complicated and more various. Read more
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Tags: bad lovers, coital alignment technique, Sex Techniques
I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. My sexual history and preferences are detailed in my post
March 15th, 2008 at 7:20 am
Your 100% right !!! Its a real shame that a whole bunch of men are missing out on the sexual mechanics of women. I myself know the right way to make love to a woman, and if when the bed finally settles, if I haven’t made the best effort I may as well have been washing the car. Come on guys break this apparent 30% and make the women moan for all the right reasons.