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What Is the Perfect Penis Size for Your Vagina?

I found this at Jennifer Lawless’ s blog Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy. An article by Tantra teacher Janet Kira Lessin, “expands” on my post What to Do If Your Man’s Penis Is Too Big.

What about size? Obviously, a man with a nine inch lingam will cause great problems for a woman with a shallow yoni. But that same God would be ideal for a Goddess with a nine inch yoni. If the man has a lingam shorter than his beloved’s yoni, he will not be able to penetrate all the way into her, reach her sacred sector and totally satisfy her during intercourse. That same man will completely satisfy a woman with a shallow yoni. So when we look at the issue closely, it’s not the size that matters. What is important is the compatibility of the lingam and the yoni.

Problems arise (har har) when women with shorter yoni’s make love with men with longer lingams. Men, in the heat of passion, especially when they orgasm, tend to get excited and penetrate as far as they can (ouch). If lovers are not careful, the lingam head can penetrate all the way through the tight ring of the cervical opening and enter the uterus creating disaster for the woman. While it may feel awesome for the man, it can cause infection and disease for his lady. So what to do?

She goes on to explain how to compensate for an “incompatible” penis and vagina and also discusses what I think is a neglected topic: what penis shape is best and worst? Read more

3 Responses to What Is the Perfect Penis Size for Your Vagina?

  • muttley says:

    I have 2 issues with that article:

    1) The penis cannot enter the uterus. It’s geometrically impossible. (Look at any human anatomy picture like: http://www.bartleby.com/107/illus1166.html

    2) UTI is Urinary Tract Infection, not Uterine.

    Having said that, the article is good in that what is more important is compatibility of fit as opposed to larger is better. It’s great to reach the spongy, sometimes sinewy area of the posterior fornix, bad to be careless and collide with the cervix or just go waay too deep.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I have to confess that I only skimmed the article before posting a link to it since Janet Kira Lessin is a well-known tantra teacher. I still would have linked to it even if I had noticed those errors, but I probably would have mentioned them in my lead. Have you informed the author about her errors?

  • muttley says:

    I hadn’t realized you replied to my comment, my apologies for not responding sooner. I e-mailed the author about the errors.

    I do agree, it is a good article and important in this day and age of “Bigger is always better”

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