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What Does a Big Penis Feel Like to a Woman?

My posts about penis size are always popular, but the responses I get from women are about their concerns with how big their partner is, not about how small. Some women find that a very long or thick penis can cause discomfort and even pain during sex. A long penis can hurt because it can hit the cervix during penetration, and a thick penis may feel like it’s stretching you too much. Since I’m among the one in three women who does enjoy sex with a big penis, I’ll explain why I do.

It’s been said that the brain is the body’s largest sex organ. A big penis can be both a visual and a sensational turn on. The sight of a big penis makes many women think about the potential pleasures of feeling “full, ” which can cause sexual excitement before foreplay even begins. The “vaginal ache,” a desire to be “filled up” that women get during sexual arousal, may be satisfied by having something large stretch and fill the vagina. Also the experience of accommodating a big penis can be a mentally stimulating, thus, making it easier to reach orgasm.

So, what does the vagina actually feel like when it is being entered, probed, and “filled” with a big penis? Well, it obviously feels good. That “good” feeling comes from the friction of the penis rubbing within me. If I am too dry, the friction can cause discomfort rather than pleasure. If my vagina is too well lubricated, the friction is often reduced. In those cases, the actual intercourse can be less enjoyable, but that is often overcome by my mental stimulation knowing how turned on I am because I being screwed by a big penis.

Generally, a woman can accommodate a penis that is somewhat longer than the depth of her vagina because, even when fully erect, the penis tends to be spongy and compresses somewhat against the firm back wall of the vagina. If the probing penis is not too long or too “bony,” women often enjoy the feeling of having that penis “beat” against the back walls of their vagina. However, some women don’t like their cervix bumped at all, whether head on or sliding underneath.

I find a little bit of pressure on the cervix can be VERY pleasurable, but “cervical sex” is only really phenomenal for me if I am 100% ready to go and so aroused that I am ready to just be completely devoured by the man I’m with. If I am not quite to that point, having a penis knocking on my cervix hurts like getting a tattoo, not really all that painful, but certainly annoying.

Women generally love the feeling of deep penetration into their vagina, but for most women a thick penis is much more important than a long penis. This preference of penis girth over length is because a thick penis is much more able to give women that wonderful feeling of being full in their vagina.  Some women find their orgasms are more intense when their vagina is filled to capacity. In addition, since it’s able to press a woman’s vagina from all sides of the wall, a thick penis is more likely to stimulate  the G-spot.

Does my preference for a big penis mean that I’ll only have sex with a well-endowed man? No, the man himself is more important than the size of his penis. Intercourse is only one aspect of sex, and oral and anal sex can provide as much erotic pleasure as I could ever desire. Besides, certain sex positions can make a smaller penis feel longer and thicker anyway. Still, a man who is both a masterful lover and well-hung… ooh la la!

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64 Responses to What Does a Big Penis Feel Like to a Woman?

  • SinfullyAnon says:

    Thank you. I’m now looking at my cock/”penis” in a whole new light.

    This, I dare say, was the most illuminating post I’ve ever read upon the subject.

    Cheers & happy Sugasm.

    `x~adam (or, that long, thin, guy..who resembles, Lincoln:)

  • Bob says:

    How about a post on what a small penis feels like? With as much detail? What it does and does not do. Is it “Different yet not equal” or is it “Similar just not as…?”

    Would help a lot. Both perspectives. I have read and heard women describe what an average or large feels like… Achieves. But NEVER heard a woman describe in any where near as much detail how a small penis feels.

    Your posts on “compensatory positions” and foreplay techniques leave me yet wondering if penetration should even be considered pleasure with a small penis.

    I ponder… Is a small penis (>/= one standard deviation below avg) compensating for not providing pleasure during intercourse? Ergo, extended oral by a small penis man “substitutes” for absent penetration pleasure? I read 70% of men eagerly perform oral sex for their lovers.(I’d have to reference it later if you like) So… is this REALLY compensating/substituting when most men do the same or very similar?

    The reverse cowgirl, her on top, the V, her legs over his shoulders, Coital alignment… Do they provide the exact same amount of pleasure for a 4 inch as a 7 inch? Does the 7 inch become God-Like during these positions that are suggested as “compensatory” for the 4 inch? I mean, if these make a 4 inch “ok” wouldn’t the same positions make a normal or large feel “Spectacular”?

    And could you please describe in detail what the “ok” feeling is? Girlfriends and yourself have stated that normal/large penises (inserted with care) cause more pressure=pleasure. Small penises, under the laws of physics, can’t give that pressure=pleasure… So what do they feel like? What “pleasure” during intercourse specifically do they provide?…. under the best circumstances/techniques/emotional comfort of HIM and HER?

    In as good as detail as “what does a Big penis feel like” please.

    Thanks so much:)

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Thanks for the comment, Bob. I hadn’t thought of approaching the topic of penis size in that way.

  • Bob says:

    Any Concepts you can share before you get your blog on about it?

    Particularly in light of:

    Cat Says:
    April 24th, 2010 at 8:48 am
    I’m one of those women who doesn’t so much like a big penis as I dislike a small one. You’re right that it just doesn’t get me excited about having sex, probably because I’ve never had an orgasm with a small penis. Not that I have one every time with a big one (which to me is about 7-8 inches), but at least I have a chance.

    Moira Says:
    April 24th, 2010 at 4:42 pm
    I vote against small penises, too, but 6-7 inches is plenty big enough for me. Over 7 inches and it starts to get uncomfortable. I’m tighter and smaller than the average woman, I think.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    The problem with writing about what a small penis feels like is that the lack of feeling is the problem. I once went to bed with a man whom I didn’t realize was even inside me until he started thrusting. I didn’t feel a thing the whole time except his pelvis pounding against mine. A short, thick penis may provide that “stretched out” or “full” feeling that women crave, but a short, thin one… not so much. And it will definitely not stimulate the clitoris or G-spot.

  • Bob says:

    I’ve recently taken the time to read all your relevant posts about size…

    A small penis that is not at either extreme width (Thick or thin) but a very functional and normal shaped/appearence 4.5X4.5 inches is what I was cursed with. None of your suggested positions & foreplay techniques are “new” to me. I smoothly work from one to the other…

    Yet, never has a woman said these things actually “worked”. Described how the “lack of feeling” was turned into “sufficient feeling” (pleasure?) with a position or dedicated, passionate, prolonged foreplay.

    I fear this is all placation. I fear… the worst.

    I have tried to comprehend how I could be a good lover despite not providing intercourse pleasure… the dream comes crashing down when I see and hear so much more often responses like Cat’s and even small vagina Moira’s as above.

    I also have doubts any self respecting woman would live without even minimum pleasure during intercourse.

    So, I tried to hold out hope that I am a good lover because(along with my innate passion and desire to please) I can and do provide a ‘different” yet every bit as satisfying penetration…

    A post about this and all the harsh and unfortunate truth would be… painful to read I am sure. However, if it also described what similarities… if any… pleasure… if any…

    I seek to accept it. I just need to know what I’m accepting.

    I’ll check back in a bit.

  • ryan says:

    @ Bob

    Bob- I think you should realize that your size is not a big (no pun) problem. I myself am average in size, but sometimes I have trouble getting fully hard- but the girl I am with can still orgasm when my erection is weak and at about 4.5-5 inches long.

    So if a girl can have mindblowing orgasms from a soft 4.5 incher, I know she can explode with pleasure on a rock hard 4.5 inches. Plus try using a cockring, as they tend to add firmness and some girth and size.

    Cheers mate!

  • I heard the same feedback from size queens during my interviews.

    Nevertheless, It would have been also good if you would have mentioned real large penises are very few in number. In fact, it would have been helpful if you would have given the number of your sexual partners you considered “big” VS the number of average penis men VS the number of small penis men.

    Plus, a woman need to have lots of sexual partners to be able to compare girth and length differences.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    This was a subjective description, not a study.

  • Rod says:

    That fuller feeling what sizes do you find best suit it?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I’m not sure about specific dimensions. I just know it when I feel it.

  • Rod & Ashley says:

    Hmm well I figured you was going to be more up front lol kinda gave me a gf answer not to hurt my feelings lol. Thats kweel but it wouldn’t hurt any feelings here just a curious person by the way your a very beutiful young lady

  • Renee says:

    Im one of those sexually fustrated 43yr old women lol here on the internet. Im a mother to 5 kids lol my oldest is 24yrs old and the youngest 9yrs old. I wont go into the details just that they have different dads. Im not a slut or welfair trailer trash mom, I would like to think im just like any normal person. My current husband is in hiding he is a meth dealer. So my life is upside down and currently Im sexually fustrated. My oldest daughter had a birthday party just turned 24 yrs old. Her father my ex was obviously there at the party he was my first and only BIG ONE lol. So having been without sex for 8 monthes my eyes was glued to his crotch lol. reading this post brought back memories to be honest I don’t remember him because he was my first borns daddy lol. I don’t think you can ever forget someone who makes you feel the ways a thick long cock makes you feel! I have been with many guys and most I couldn’t recount the experience.

  • Husband says:

    My wife and I have always had fun with sex, are favorite thing was roleplay. My wife has a very shapely figure she petite with a very round bubble but. Her breast UMMM lets just say they aren’t big the shape UMM pointy. One night we was out eatting dinner and passed by a sex shop. We always go into the shops for lubercants and outfits for my wife. We wondered inside and passed the dildo and vibrator section. They had a HUGE lol dildo on display I picked it up and chased my wife around with it. My wife didn’t find it as funny as everyone else watching. My wife scurried off to the video section I followed her. They had a big selection and in a certain order, some not so appealing lol. One of the sections was {Chasing The Big One} lol perfect for what just happened. My wife looked at it and said ok this looks interesting. I grabbed the HUGE dildo as we walk toward the counter. I put it on the counter with the other itens we had bought. My wife looked at the girl working the cash register and said this is what I going to use on him lol. Finally everyone was lol except me, when we got in the car my wife pulled out the dildo and said REALLY ARE YOU SERIOUS. If you know how my wife is shes a very funny lady. I said YES and if your good I’ll take it out and use it on you. That night after I cam inside of her the dildo was on the night stand. with a new bottle of lube I could see my wife eyeing it lol. I had to be a pain and act like I was going to sleep. My wife cuddeled up to me and i felt the toy between my legs. I jumped up and said HELL NO. My wife this time chased me around with it, telling get over you little bitch. By this time my cock was rock hard and I turned and wrestled her. I was hold her arms and grabbed the dildo, I notice her legs wide apart. I slowly inserted it into my wife watching her facial expression. I lick my wifes clit while useing it on her till she cam several times and begged me to stop. Lets just say we had allot of fun with it and she really enjoyed it. We spent good money on an expensive one so if you want to know how your wife would enjoy a bigger size don’t be cheep.CYBER SKIN all the way, we will use it after we have sex. Its pretty pointless if I fuck her after using it on her for an hour lol. So if you want to have fun explore with your wife things she never experience I certainly suggest it.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Although many men refuse to believe it, and many women refuse to admit it, a large object inserted into the vagina can be extremely pleasurable.

  • Husband says:

    LOL,,, My wife was obviously enjoying it she was breathing really hard and quivered like a leaf in a wind storm. I think its more like as for men not wanting to think their the biggest wife can handle. I think wifes don’t want the husbands to know they can handle more. I personally don’t feel like that so I Im glad it makes thing fun.

  • Pamela MacPetty says:

    REALLY enjoyed your article and subsequent posts. I am relieved to read that other women have had discomfort with large penises also, because I wondered if there might be something wrong with me! My boyfriend has a large penis, about 8-1/2 inches long, and very thick.(I can barely get my hand around it.) He has had to learn to slide his penis out of me somewhat because the length of it slams into my cervix in a very uncomfortable way. I have cried out in pain many times, and he always feels really badly. Likewise, when he ejaculates, he has to pull back some so his semen has somewhere to go. I would prefer a shorter penis. On the other hand, exactly as you wrote, the girth of his cock is absolutely phenomenal. It feels excellent to feel filled up. But there is definitely a hindrance in deep penetration….I find that I can take more of the length once I have had an orgasm. But taking all of the length kills me!

    In answer to the bloke asking about an average penis? The best sex I have ever had was with an average Joe. He was gorgeous, with beautiful eyes and a wonderful body,and he kissed like a dream. Foreplay made me come, and when he put his penis inside of me, it felt great. I had no complaints. If I saw him NOW, I don’t know if it would be different since I have had a much larger penis lately. But a cool, smart man with a hard cock, no matter the size, is the best thing ever.

  • Ashley says:

    Hi Sveetlana,
    It’s been awhile since I post on here, for me size has been a blessing. My husband shared me with his best friend for the first time 13yrs ago next month. We have enjoyed threesomes ever since Jerry his friend is much bigger. I lay here in bed with my husband sleeping close. I love my husband and I also share the same love with his best friend my husband understands. You can’t enjoy great sex without have feelings. My feeling for my husband are even stronger than before. I love him with all my might and as strange as all this sounds its true. When this first started it was more of a fun sexuall adventure. Durring one of our threesomes I professed my love for Jerry. I couldn’t help it just slipped out my husband just smiled as Jerry brought me to my third climax. Jerry is the only man to ever give me a vaginal orgasm durring penitration. This isn’t something my husband doesn’t know. Ever since we started this my husband enjoyed watching this happen and was ever so present. Kissing me while it happened at time or sitting back letting me enjoy it. I should also add that Jerry is here to laying on the other side of the bed. It’s been three month since he began living with us. All I can say is I have more than enough love for both of them. Our relatonshp is one that some may look down apon thing bad things about me. Or them but its one of love yes we do have lust, but with out lust what is love. I lust for the two them more than my own life. My husband curiosity as to my reaction durring sex with a BIGGER cock was something I was caught of gaurd by. My reaction while enjoying Jerrys bgger cock was of the greatest pleasure.

  • George says:

    I guess women aren’t the only ones who face insecurities about their bodies. I have always wanted a larger penis, so I began an exercise program and my penus is 8″ long and over 6″ in circumference. It feels amazing as a man to have your penis quickly engourge with blood when sexually aroused. My penis almost doubles in size, so it feels amazing and is a real turn on for my wife. I still feel it would be nice to have as big a penis as possible, but I think I am probably nearing my natural limits. So my question is this, if my wife works on strengthening her vagina muscles will that increase both of our pleasure during sex? Do you have any program to recommend for that?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Congratulations on your success with penis enlargement. One of my earliest articles Vaginal Strengthening Exercises for More Powerful Orgasms dealt with the topic of vaginal strengthening.

  • Awesome article.

  • Pamala says:

    What can a wife do that’s unsatisfied and desires a bigger cock?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Some wives either have a threesome with a well-endowed man, or have an affair with one. Barring that, you can masturbate with a large dildo.

  • Pamala says:

    How would you suggest a wife asking her husband for a threesome with a well endowed stud?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    That depends so much on your relationship. Do you ever talk about sexual fantasies with each other? That would be the ideal time to bring it up = not necessarily the big penis part – but the two men fantasy.

  • Pamala says:

    We have never talked about a threesome we have been married for 16 years and we use to watch porn on weekends together. But I guess over time we stopped having fun like that, but I think also it was because we had our first child together and took custody of his daughter he had in a relationship before ours. But I will take your advice about talking about fantisys with him and see where that leads. Thanks for your advice

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    You’re welcome. Good luck!

  • Pamala says:

    I began talking to my husband this weekend about sexual fantasies asking him about his own. He was nervous I could tell and that made me nervous too. I was revved up to express about a threesome having two men. But since he wasn’t expressing much it didn’t
    take off. But the next night he brought up about having two women at once was something he had fantasied about. I smiled and we began to have sex and I told him to imagine I was someone else it was fun. Then after laying down and cuddling I suggested we have a threesome with another female. He laugh and said yeah like who do we know to ask seriously. He brought up a good point I don’t know how friends I know would react to a proposition like that. Also for me how would I know if a guy had a big one or not. So I guess it went good as we opened up but I found myself back to figuring out how to do this. I didn’t suggest doing him and another guy but I figure if I would give him two women then he would feel obligated to give me my fantasy.
    I do have a question for you when I bring up I would like to enjoy two men. Do I not ever bring up the subject of desiring a big one and just make it be one. Personally I only want to do it if its going to be big I know it sounds slutty and selfish but that’s my desire. If its a one time thing for me I want it to be my true desire.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    It isn’t silly and selfish. You’re only doing it because you want an experience that your husband can’t give you. The best way to find out if a man has a big one is from female friends. If you don’t have single female friends who can point you in the right direction, an online connection is an alternative. You would have to make it clear that a big penis is a requirement. That’s not really unusual, so don’t be worried that the man will think you’re shallow. The only problem is that men lie about their penis size, so you will have to verify his size before making arrangements to meet so that you don’t waste your time..

  • Pamala says:

    Thanks for all the advice just taking about it with him has sparked quite a fire in his sex drive and mine. I’ll try and figure out how to use the computer to find a fitting partner ;). I’m not all that savvy with the computer but I did find you. Thanks again for making it ok to seek my desires

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Good luck! Let me know if you need any more help.

  • Pamala says:

    We where searching last night on the computer for sites to find someone, I was wondering if you knew of any sites that can help meet people local we don’t want Craig’s list that just gives a bad taste in our mouths so any hints would be nice thanks again!

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Sorry, Pamela. I don’t use online dating sites myself. I actually have been told of a couple of sites where people had good success, but it’s been awhile, and I don’t remember the names. The sites are out there. You just have to search, and I wouldn’t completely dismiss Craigslist. Just insist on some verification before meeting anyone, and always do the first meeting daytime in a public place.

    I actually remembered one of them: Plenty of Fish.

  • Wezzy says:

    Interesting stuff Svetlana. As a guy it’s hard to find honest female sexual perspective as many Women are either embarassed by admitting their desires or afraid of being judged (slutty, which there is absolutely nothing wrong with). I did have a question that ive always wondered. It refers to this: The “vaginal ache,” a desire to be “filled up” that women get during sexual arousal, may be satisfied by having something large stretch and fill the vagina.

    I was wondering, when a Woman feels the desire to be penetrated. Does her vagina/body specifically ask/demand a Penis? In other words can only the Penis truly fullfil the penetrative desire in a Woman or is it more of a choice and a dildo or vibrator be just as desirable? Im talking not rlly about the friction aspect, but rather if a woman truly only desires a man/penis inside her at that moment and toys althoug feeling good, don’t fullfull the desire in the same way.

    I have tried asking women this, but one said that the women craves orgasm and the penis is just a tool to achieve it and another said that it’s a desire to be filled by something. Both these answers make it sound like the penis isn’t truly necessary to satisfy a woman’s needs.

    Also ive heard women say that the visual of a Penis does not rlly arouse her, where others have said they can get horny just by looking at an erect Penis. These contradictions are quite confusing as i would like to understand these aspects. Since the Penis spefically asks/demands a Vag and get hard just by looking at one, i wondered if it was the same way the other way around. Your blog has already given me some more understanding of Female sexuality as i never stop trying to improve in this area and love seeing a woman in sexual extacy.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Yes, a penis-shaped object can satisfy the desire to be filled quite well. The man the penis is attached to is more important than the penis itself. That’s why most women are not aroused by the sight of a random, erect penis. On the other hand, if a man they want to have sex with has an erect penis, they are usually aroused by that. It also depends on how much pleasure the women derives from sex. If she usually has unsatisfactory sexual experiences, an erect penis is not likely to arouse her very much.

  • Wezzy says:

    It makes sense reproductively that it’s mostly not the visual of the Penis that really drives Women wild, because if that were the case then Women would get randy by just the sight of it and then they would not be selective wich in turn would hurt evolution.

    A Man can try and put his manhood in other pleasurable spots (sex toys), but the design of a straight man’s sexual psyche is only truly satisfied when he is inside a Woman and especially focused on the Vagina. A man feels he is fulfilling his sexual design when his penis is inside the vagina and something else can not replace that.

    However although not assuming, i did think that when a Woman felt the physical desire to be penetrated that desire was directly linked to the Penis in the same way and that other objects like sex toys (although feeling good) could not satisfy/gratify/satiate a woman’s sexual design in the same way. That only a man inside her can truly satisfy her sexual psyche. But that is not the case then and a dildo or vibrator can also completely satisfy a woman’s sexuals psyche/design to be penetrated? That a penis inside her is just one of the possible options, but not an actual need for her?

    Thanks for the feedback Svetlana, i really appreciate your honest explanations.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Most women would prefer sex to masturbation, but not necessarily because the sensation of a penis filling the vagina is superior to that of another object. Women like to be done to more than having to do it themselves. Having a man orgasm inside the vagina is exciting. Also, the intimacy of having sex with another person is better than masturbation.

  • Pamala says:

    We have been using the site you suggested and another as well,we got almost to many replies it was a little over whelming but very fun just reading and talking.my husband made a comment maybe we should do one for you too lol. So we set up one for me as well both are very straight forward about both of us being apart of it. That helped weed out a few who wanted to only make it a single interaction I did get nervous a couple times lol. I guess I’m the jealous type my husbands very attractive and got some replays from very attractive females. I had to restrain my self he could tell I was jealous. He smiled and pointed out that one was very BI lol. I just laugh and told him choose who he wants. He hasn’t made any chooses yet just having fun with reading so far I have read a few many bragging about what thy have lol. I’m just following the lead of what I got him started with lol my mom use to tell me guys think they run the house. But it really is the women who does we jus make them think it was their idea lol. Well thanks ill keep you up dated.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    So, you’re already having fun. Just wait until you actually do something :).

  • Pamala says:

    We finally met a femal for a threesome with for my husband on Saturday I had never thought about how it would be like with another women. She was very beautiful and I could tell she sinced my insecurity as she was very sensitive to her approach. Lets just say making out with a girl is much funner than a guy lol at the same time my husband was going down on me it was very intense. It took no time before I was into the swing of things and realizing how much fun this kind of thing is. ( very addicting as I could see how someone could becomes sex addict) They would change places and umm she was very good in that position bring me to an orgasm. I was kissing my husband then pulled him in place to suck him like a lolly pop after I looked up at him as I cam. I told him to take her I rolled to the side as my husband rode her doggie style. It was a rush of emotions watching him have sex with her. She stayed the night and they fucked many times try the night I would wake up and lick her at times while my husband fucked her. They stayed till late the next day before all of us was drained and exhausted. After she left me and my husband talked about how much fun we had he knew how sensitive I had been about how beautiful she was. He was sweet reminding me he loved me then brought up about how it was my turn telling me I’ve was ok if I got a guy hotter than him. I laugh and said for me its not about being hotter just bigger he started to laugh and said what ever you want. So now we are searching so its going exactly how I wanted it to lol.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I’m glad your first time was great. Sometimes, it takes time to find the right person, but you did a great job of selection. I hope you’re just as lucky with the guy you pick :). The talk you and your husband had afterward was exactly right too. The sex may be fun, but the relationship is what’s most important.

  • Rod says:

    Having been sharing my wife for so many years with my best friend who’s fallen deeply into our relationship after 16 years we just celebrated as our three way anniversary. Since we started part of my desire was asking my wife how we compared. Its wants easy in fact it was harder than the actual act of having sex with him in front of me.
    Recently my wife bought a molding kit for my cock I wasn’t sure why she gave it to me as a gift. One night while having sex she giggled and started to talk about how much better my friends bigger cock felt. While we fucked she kept saying you really want to know don’t you I said yes. She said I mean you really want to know and rubbed the replica of my cock around my ass. Just relax my wife said as she lubed it up and then began fingering me. She then after along time worked the dildo into me I’ve had fingers that hurt lol. But this was painful lets just say I was squeezing the bed sheets in tears lol. After about 10 minutes she said less lol I really began to enjoy it allot. For some reason my own dick went limp but that didn’t take away the pleasure one bit. She was slow and really made it feel good and I had a different type of orgasm I think lol. Because I didn’t cum but I felt like I did inside, she would do this every night after sex. The talk began to be allot about imagining my friend and asking me question during this. I seriously never in the beginning wondered what he would feel like but had though a few times while watching him with my wife. My wife asked if I thought about trying him I shyly admitted I wanted to know her pleasure. She said I know I could tell just like me you really need this don’t you. I said I didn’t want to freak him out because we aren’t gay. My wife laugh its not about being gay you just love exploring sex. She said both of you do and its something we’ve been doing for years this is just something new. Remember how much fun we had and how nervous I was. I said yes I do remember very well and its something in the right mood I think I would like. The next time the three of us for together my wife knelt between us. Taking turns sucking our cocks she put his hand on my cock and mine on his. She said play with each other for me and began fingering herself watching us. Lets just say we got into it naturally and I found my way to suck his cock and found our selves in the 69 position. My wife moved behind me telling Jerry about my replica dildo that I then felt enter me. Jerry was sucking my suddenly shriveling cock and balls and they do so when it enters me. My wife was saying how she wanted me to feel the difference since I now knew how my own cock felt. Lets just say that was enough to get my best friend interested and between my legs that where now over his shoulders. I felt his cock pushing thru it fucking hurt I could feel the girth thick fat difference right away. Ok ok wait a second I said my friends a bigger stronger guy and was on a mission. Shoving a good 4″ into me I don’t know if I grunted or screamed my legs went numb. He was kind he didn’t go deeper and said just get use to it and rubbed his palm over my shriveled dick and balls. Ok I knew what the fullness felt like and it was intense more pain than pleasure. Don’t worry I’m not going to go fast I don’t want to cum to quick he said. Talking was to hard as I just tried to focus he was trying to get me hard and seemed frustrated he couldn’t. My wife could since it and said he always goes limp when I use the dildo on him. Jerry said well I’ll keep it in till he get hard lol gotta do my job he laugh. I bit my lip and said you don’t have to do that he laugh and said just get it hard lol. I began stroking it and he seemed to pull out that felt really good. Then he pushed even deeper and began fucking my ass. He kept adding more and more lube that helped make it harder to control how depth. Before long he was balls deep and fucking me like do does my wife. But it was very intense I felt the difference I think I was scared he would hurt my insides this was deep. I guess its the prostrate that gives a guy an orgasm and after 45 minutes I cam hard. He was pulling on my shriveled dick trying to wake it up lol. I guess why anal feels good is weird because especially with him it felt like taking a huge shit lol. Luckily I had cleansed my colon before this figuring it might happen. But here it was happening and it felt really good, I was sore for several days. Lets just say it was another rush for us all and an added pleasure to our kinky life style. Yes I personally know bigger is better once you use to it lol.

  • Chris says:

    Your posting and blog are refreshingly honest and informative. Many women who prefer the feeling of a big penis during penetrative vaginal intercourse are hesitant to say so. My own penis is exceptionally small, and it is a disadvantage and less than ideal for sex. I knew beginning in my teenage years and early relationships that ithe lack of physical stimulation and sensation can be disappointing and frustrating for most women, not to mention psychological factors like arousal during foeplay and visual triggers of a woman’s excitement. Learning that my one-inch soft penis grows only to three inches when erect has never been a pleasant surprise for a woman in a new intimate relationship. I learned to supplement what I lack with vibrators, dildos, and my favorite: a penis extender sleeve. That way, I can offer a small appetizer, or a larger main course, or both in any order she pleases.

  • Danielle says:

    I have a question? My man has a very long and fat penis every time we have sex it’s pounds my cervix to the point that I can’t take it I want to please him so mucho try to suck it but I always throw up on it we too a break for a half a day but it’s hurts what can I do to make the pain go away so we can have sex more. We like to have sex for to five times a day also.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    You can have sex with you on top so that you can control the depth and speed of penetration. Otherwise, your man can quit pounding you so hard and/or going so deep.

  • Danielle says:

    We try that and it’s the same I just want to make sure he is not hurt anything in there. I try the tips online about deep throat but it still make me gags?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    If he doesn’t go so deep, he can’t hit your cervix, but try using lube, such as K-Y or Astroglide, during intercourse. Maybe friction is causing some of the pain. If the pain goes away quickly, probably nothing is being hurt, but if the pain persists, something may be.

  • Karen says:

    I had divorced my husband and was at a soccer game with my daughter and one of the single dads asked me on a date. My ex was what I think is average about 6″ long and a little smaller than my finger grip in thickness. Others had been similar in size compared to him and I had been with around 13 different guys. I didn’t exspect to have sex on our first date lol but cuddling on the couch and feeling his intriguing bulge. I desired to inspect what felt much bigger than the usuall cock and unzipped his jeans and pulled out his cock. Its was obviously bigger than any other I had been with I lowered and sucked watching and feeling it grow. I could help but giggle and comment how his cock was huge he just smiled rubbing my head. I whispered I though we should make our way to the bed room, I held his cock leading him to my bed. We got naked and got into the bed in the 69 position all I could think was this things long and thick lol. I couldn’t help not gettin more excited as I worshiped his impressive size stroking and feeling every inch. I asked how big are you he laugh and said just over 8″ while living my clit. He brought me to an orgasm and I returned the favor swallowing every drop of his cum. That was something I had never done before I usually just let it squirt out and rubb it on the guys cock. But I felt like I had to impress him and it seemed to work as he pulled me up to him and we kissed making out. It didn’t take long for him to get hard again I was very wet and ready for him. When he slid in it felt amazing my stretched around his cock and felt very full and satisfied we fucked of and on the entire night. We awoke in the morning to make love again and after I told him I didn’t intend to sleep with him. I told him I had never slept with a guy on a first date but couldn’t resist him I laugh telling him it was amazing sex. I told him I was glad I did, he asked me why I did have sex with him on our first date and hadn’t before. I grabbed his cock and laugh saying really you need to ask your twice the size than any guy I’ve been with lol. He smiled telling me he was glad we had sex because he really enjoyed it, we began seeing eachother.
    We ended up getting engaged and are now married I can honestly say size matters I would have never known. I think big ones are very rare since I had been with what I think was quite a few and only encounter one.

  • jose garcia says:

    I have a few questions . I am 7″ x5″ around is that considerd a good or decent size? What if a woman went from an 8×6 down to a 7×5? Would it be difficult for her to adjust? And would sex eventually feel the same to her? Also can women eventually ‘forget’ what it feels like even if 10 or 15 years has past? Or do women always remember the guys they were with that had big penises?

  • steve2 says:

    My wife still has a thing for wanting her first. She claims both her first lover, and her ex husband were both about your size. She still wants that, but likes mine just fine 6.2 x 5 Inch. Claiming she will never need to do a kegel exercise or anything. I like it that she has had bigger dicks (also, he raves about latin men your length, the skin moreso than size).

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