What Does a Big Penis Feel Like to a Woman?
My posts about penis size are always popular, but the responses I get from women are about their concerns with how big their partner is, not about how small. Some women find that a very long or thick penis can cause discomfort and even pain during sex. A long penis can hurt because it can hit the cervix during penetration, and a thick penis may feel like it’s stretching you too much. Since I’m among the one in three women who does enjoy sex with a big penis, I’ll explain why I do.
It’s been said that the brain is the body’s largest sex organ. A big penis can be both a visual and a sensational turn on. The sight of a big penis makes many women think about the potential pleasures of feeling “full, ” which can cause sexual excitement before foreplay even begins. The “vaginal ache,” a desire to be “filled up” that women get during sexual arousal, may be satisfied by having something large stretch and fill the vagina. Also the experience of accommodating a big penis can be a mentally stimulating, thus, making it easier to reach orgasm.
So, what does the vagina actually feel like when it is being entered, probed, and “filled” with a big penis? Well, it obviously feels good. That “good” feeling comes from the friction of the penis rubbing within me. If I am too dry, the friction can cause discomfort rather than pleasure. If my vagina is too well lubricated, the friction is often reduced. In those cases, the actual intercourse can be less enjoyable, but that is often overcome by my mental stimulation knowing how turned on I am because I being screwed by a big penis.
Generally, a woman can accommodate a penis that is somewhat longer than the depth of her vagina because, even when fully erect, the penis tends to be spongy and compresses somewhat against the firm back wall of the vagina. If the probing penis is not too long or too “bony,” women often enjoy the feeling of having that penis “beat” against the back walls of their vagina. However, some women don’t like their cervix bumped at all, whether head on or sliding underneath.
I find a little bit of pressure on the cervix can be VERY pleasurable, but “cervical sex” is only really phenomenal for me if I am 100% ready to go and so aroused that I am ready to just be completely devoured by the man I’m with. If I am not quite to that point, having a penis knocking on my cervix hurts like getting a tattoo, not really all that painful, but certainly annoying.
Women generally love the feeling of deep penetration into their vagina, but for most women a thick penis is much more important than a long penis. This preference of penis girth over length is because a thick penis is much more able to give women that wonderful feeling of being full in their vagina. Some women find their orgasms are more intense when their vagina is filled to capacity. In addition, since it’s able to press a woman’s vagina from all sides of the wall, a thick penis is more likely to stimulate the G-spot.
Does my preference for a big penis mean that I’ll only have sex with a well-endowed man? No, the man himself is more important than the size of his penis. Intercourse is only one aspect of sex, and oral and anal sex can provide as much erotic pleasure as I could ever desire. Besides, certain sex positions can make a smaller penis feel longer and thicker anyway. Still, a man who is both a masterful lover and well-hung… ooh la la!
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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. My sexual history and preferences are detailed in my post 
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January 12th, 2009 at 12:28 pm
Thank you. I’m now looking at my cock/”penis” in a whole new light.
This, I dare say, was the most illuminating post I’ve ever read upon the subject.
Cheers & happy Sugasm.
`x~adam (or, that long, thin, guy..who resembles, Lincoln:)
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June 6th, 2010 at 7:07 am
How about a post on what a small penis feels like? With as much detail? What it does and does not do. Is it “Different yet not equal” or is it “Similar just not as…?”
Would help a lot. Both perspectives. I have read and heard women describe what an average or large feels like… Achieves. But NEVER heard a woman describe in any where near as much detail how a small penis feels.
Your posts on “compensatory positions” and foreplay techniques leave me yet wondering if penetration should even be considered pleasure with a small penis.
I ponder… Is a small penis (>/= one standard deviation below avg) compensating for not providing pleasure during intercourse? Ergo, extended oral by a small penis man “substitutes” for absent penetration pleasure? I read 70% of men eagerly perform oral sex for their lovers.(I’d have to reference it later if you like) So… is this REALLY compensating/substituting when most men do the same or very similar?
The reverse cowgirl, her on top, the V, her legs over his shoulders, Coital alignment… Do they provide the exact same amount of pleasure for a 4 inch as a 7 inch? Does the 7 inch become God-Like during these positions that are suggested as “compensatory” for the 4 inch? I mean, if these make a 4 inch “ok” wouldn’t the same positions make a normal or large feel “Spectacular”?
And could you please describe in detail what the “ok” feeling is? Girlfriends and yourself have stated that normal/large penises (inserted with care) cause more pressure=pleasure. Small penises, under the laws of physics, can’t give that pressure=pleasure… So what do they feel like? What “pleasure” during intercourse specifically do they provide?…. under the best circumstances/techniques/emotional comfort of HIM and HER?
In as good as detail as “what does a Big penis feel like” please.
Thanks so much:)
June 6th, 2010 at 7:39 am
Thanks for the comment, Bob. I hadn’t thought of approaching the topic of penis size in that way.
June 7th, 2010 at 9:13 pm
Any Concepts you can share before you get your blog on about it?
Particularly in light of:
Cat Says:
April 24th, 2010 at 8:48 am
I’m one of those women who doesn’t so much like a big penis as I dislike a small one. You’re right that it just doesn’t get me excited about having sex, probably because I’ve never had an orgasm with a small penis. Not that I have one every time with a big one (which to me is about 7-8 inches), but at least I have a chance.
Moira Says:
April 24th, 2010 at 4:42 pm
I vote against small penises, too, but 6-7 inches is plenty big enough for me. Over 7 inches and it starts to get uncomfortable. I’m tighter and smaller than the average woman, I think.
June 8th, 2010 at 6:51 pm
The problem with writing about what a small penis feels like is that the lack of feeling is the problem. I once went to bed with a man whom I didn’t realize was even inside me until he started thrusting. I didn’t feel a thing the whole time except his pelvis pounding against mine. A short, thick penis may provide that “stretched out” or “full” feeling that women crave, but a short, thin one… not so much. And it will definitely not stimulate the clitoris or G-spot.
June 9th, 2010 at 9:32 am
I’ve recently taken the time to read all your relevant posts about size…
A small penis that is not at either extreme width (Thick or thin) but a very functional and normal shaped/appearence 4.5X4.5 inches is what I was cursed with. None of your suggested positions & foreplay techniques are “new” to me. I smoothly work from one to the other…
Yet, never has a woman said these things actually “worked”. Described how the “lack of feeling” was turned into “sufficient feeling” (pleasure?) with a position or dedicated, passionate, prolonged foreplay.
I fear this is all placation. I fear… the worst.
I have tried to comprehend how I could be a good lover despite not providing intercourse pleasure… the dream comes crashing down when I see and hear so much more often responses like Cat’s and even small vagina Moira’s as above.
I also have doubts any self respecting woman would live without even minimum pleasure during intercourse.
So, I tried to hold out hope that I am a good lover because(along with my innate passion and desire to please) I can and do provide a ‘different” yet every bit as satisfying penetration…
A post about this and all the harsh and unfortunate truth would be… painful to read I am sure. However, if it also described what similarities… if any… pleasure… if any…
I seek to accept it. I just need to know what I’m accepting.
I’ll check back in a bit.
February 27th, 2011 at 9:14 am
@ Bob
Bob- I think you should realize that your size is not a big (no pun) problem. I myself am average in size, but sometimes I have trouble getting fully hard- but the girl I am with can still orgasm when my erection is weak and at about 4.5-5 inches long.
So if a girl can have mindblowing orgasms from a soft 4.5 incher, I know she can explode with pleasure on a rock hard 4.5 inches. Plus try using a cockring, as they tend to add firmness and some girth and size.
Cheers mate!
August 8th, 2011 at 12:00 am
I heard the same feedback from size queens during my interviews.
Nevertheless, It would have been also good if you would have mentioned real large penises are very few in number. In fact, it would have been helpful if you would have given the number of your sexual partners you considered “big” VS the number of average penis men VS the number of small penis men.
Plus, a woman need to have lots of sexual partners to be able to compare girth and length differences.
August 8th, 2011 at 5:19 am
This was a subjective description, not a study.
January 29th, 2012 at 10:23 pm
That fuller feeling what sizes do you find best suit it?
January 29th, 2012 at 11:12 pm
I’m not sure about specific dimensions. I just know it when I feel it.
January 31st, 2012 at 3:17 am
Hmm well I figured you was going to be more up front lol kinda gave me a gf answer not to hurt my feelings lol. Thats kweel but it wouldn’t hurt any feelings here just a curious person by the way your a very beutiful young lady
August 21st, 2012 at 2:45 pm
Im one of those sexually fustrated 43yr old women lol here on the internet. Im a mother to 5 kids lol my oldest is 24yrs old and the youngest 9yrs old. I wont go into the details just that they have different dads. Im not a slut or welfair trailer trash mom, I would like to think im just like any normal person. My current husband is in hiding he is a meth dealer. So my life is upside down and currently Im sexually fustrated. My oldest daughter had a birthday party just turned 24 yrs old. Her father my ex was obviously there at the party he was my first and only BIG ONE lol. So having been without sex for 8 monthes my eyes was glued to his crotch lol. reading this post brought back memories to be honest I don’t remember him because he was my first borns daddy lol. I don’t think you can ever forget someone who makes you feel the ways a thick long cock makes you feel! I have been with many guys and most I couldn’t recount the experience.
September 10th, 2012 at 6:17 pm
My wife and I have always had fun with sex, are favorite thing was roleplay. My wife has a very shapely figure she petite with a very round bubble but. Her breast UMMM lets just say they aren’t big the shape UMM pointy. One night we was out eatting dinner and passed by a sex shop. We always go into the shops for lubercants and outfits for my wife. We wondered inside and passed the dildo and vibrator section. They had a HUGE lol dildo on display I picked it up and chased my wife around with it. My wife didn’t find it as funny as everyone else watching. My wife scurried off to the video section I followed her. They had a big selection and in a certain order, some not so appealing lol. One of the sections was {Chasing The Big One} lol perfect for what just happened. My wife looked at it and said ok this looks interesting. I grabbed the HUGE dildo as we walk toward the counter. I put it on the counter with the other itens we had bought. My wife looked at the girl working the cash register and said this is what I going to use on him lol. Finally everyone was lol except me, when we got in the car my wife pulled out the dildo and said REALLY ARE YOU SERIOUS. If you know how my wife is shes a very funny lady. I said YES and if your good I’ll take it out and use it on you. That night after I cam inside of her the dildo was on the night stand. with a new bottle of lube I could see my wife eyeing it lol. I had to be a pain and act like I was going to sleep. My wife cuddeled up to me and i felt the toy between my legs. I jumped up and said HELL NO. My wife this time chased me around with it, telling get over you little bitch. By this time my cock was rock hard and I turned and wrestled her. I was hold her arms and grabbed the dildo, I notice her legs wide apart. I slowly inserted it into my wife watching her facial expression. I lick my wifes clit while useing it on her till she cam several times and begged me to stop. Lets just say we had allot of fun with it and she really enjoyed it. We spent good money on an expensive one so if you want to know how your wife would enjoy a bigger size don’t be cheep.CYBER SKIN all the way, we will use it after we have sex. Its pretty pointless if I fuck her after using it on her for an hour lol. So if you want to have fun explore with your wife things she never experience I certainly suggest it.
September 10th, 2012 at 9:06 pm
Although many men refuse to believe it, and many women refuse to admit it, a large object inserted into the vagina can be extremely pleasurable.
September 11th, 2012 at 7:22 pm
LOL,,, My wife was obviously enjoying it she was breathing really hard and quivered like a leaf in a wind storm. I think its more like as for men not wanting to think their the biggest wife can handle. I think wifes don’t want the husbands to know they can handle more. I personally don’t feel like that so I Im glad it makes thing fun.
September 14th, 2012 at 2:46 am
REALLY enjoyed your article and subsequent posts. I am relieved to read that other women have had discomfort with large penises also, because I wondered if there might be something wrong with me! My boyfriend has a large penis, about 8-1/2 inches long, and very thick.(I can barely get my hand around it.) He has had to learn to slide his penis out of me somewhat because the length of it slams into my cervix in a very uncomfortable way. I have cried out in pain many times, and he always feels really badly. Likewise, when he ejaculates, he has to pull back some so his semen has somewhere to go. I would prefer a shorter penis. On the other hand, exactly as you wrote, the girth of his cock is absolutely phenomenal. It feels excellent to feel filled up. But there is definitely a hindrance in deep penetration….I find that I can take more of the length once I have had an orgasm. But taking all of the length kills me!
In answer to the bloke asking about an average penis? The best sex I have ever had was with an average Joe. He was gorgeous, with beautiful eyes and a wonderful body,and he kissed like a dream. Foreplay made me come, and when he put his penis inside of me, it felt great. I had no complaints. If I saw him NOW, I don’t know if it would be different since I have had a much larger penis lately. But a cool, smart man with a hard cock, no matter the size, is the best thing ever.
October 9th, 2012 at 12:05 am
Hi Sveetlana,
It’s been awhile since I post on here, for me size has been a blessing. My husband shared me with his best friend for the first time 13yrs ago next month. We have enjoyed threesomes ever since Jerry his friend is much bigger. I lay here in bed with my husband sleeping close. I love my husband and I also share the same love with his best friend my husband understands. You can’t enjoy great sex without have feelings. My feeling for my husband are even stronger than before. I love him with all my might and as strange as all this sounds its true. When this first started it was more of a fun sexuall adventure. Durring one of our threesomes I professed my love for Jerry. I couldn’t help it just slipped out my husband just smiled as Jerry brought me to my third climax. Jerry is the only man to ever give me a vaginal orgasm durring penitration. This isn’t something my husband doesn’t know. Ever since we started this my husband enjoyed watching this happen and was ever so present. Kissing me while it happened at time or sitting back letting me enjoy it. I should also add that Jerry is here to laying on the other side of the bed. It’s been three month since he began living with us. All I can say is I have more than enough love for both of them. Our relatonshp is one that some may look down apon thing bad things about me. Or them but its one of love yes we do have lust, but with out lust what is love. I lust for the two them more than my own life. My husband curiosity as to my reaction durring sex with a BIGGER cock was something I was caught of gaurd by. My reaction while enjoying Jerrys bgger cock was of the greatest pleasure.
November 9th, 2012 at 11:27 am
I guess women aren’t the only ones who face insecurities about their bodies. I have always wanted a larger penis, so I began an exercise program and my penus is 8″ long and over 6″ in circumference. It feels amazing as a man to have your penis quickly engourge with blood when sexually aroused. My penis almost doubles in size, so it feels amazing and is a real turn on for my wife. I still feel it would be nice to have as big a penis as possible, but I think I am probably nearing my natural limits. So my question is this, if my wife works on strengthening her vagina muscles will that increase both of our pleasure during sex? Do you have any program to recommend for that?
November 11th, 2012 at 10:13 am
Congratulations on your success with penis enlargement. One of my earliest articles Vaginal Strengthening Exercises for More Powerful Orgasms dealt with the topic of vaginal strengthening.
April 5th, 2013 at 8:23 pm
Awesome article.