About Me
I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
Google Translator
    Translate from:

    Translate to:

What Does a Big Penis Feel Like to a Woman?

My posts about penis size are always popular, but the responses I get from women are about their concerns with how big their partner is, not about how small. Some women find that a very long or thick penis can cause discomfort and even pain during sex. A long penis can hurt because it can hit the cervix during penetration, and a thick penis may feel like it’s stretching you too much. Since I’m among the one in three women who does enjoy sex with a big penis, I’ll explain why I do.

It’s been said that the brain is the body’s largest sex organ. A big penis can be both a visual and a sensational turn on. The sight of a big penis makes many women think about the potential pleasures of feeling “full, ” which can cause sexual excitement before foreplay even begins. The “vaginal ache,” a desire to be “filled up” that women get during sexual arousal, may be satisfied by having something large stretch and fill the vagina. Also the experience of accommodating a big penis can be a mentally stimulating, thus, making it easier to reach orgasm.

So, what does the vagina actually feel like when it is being entered, probed, and “filled” with a big penis? Well, it obviously feels good. That “good” feeling comes from the friction of the penis rubbing within me. If I am too dry, the friction can cause discomfort rather than pleasure. If my vagina is too well lubricated, the friction is often reduced. In those cases, the actual intercourse can be less enjoyable, but that is often overcome by my mental stimulation knowing how turned on I am because I being screwed by a big penis.

Generally, a woman can accommodate a penis that is somewhat longer than the depth of her vagina because, even when fully erect, the penis tends to be spongy and compresses somewhat against the firm back wall of the vagina. If the probing penis is not too long or too “bony,” women often enjoy the feeling of having that penis “beat” against the back walls of their vagina. However, some women don’t like their cervix bumped at all, whether head on or sliding underneath.

I find a little bit of pressure on the cervix can be VERY pleasurable, but “cervical sex” is only really phenomenal for me if I am 100% ready to go and so aroused that I am ready to just be completely devoured by the man I’m with. If I am not quite to that point, having a penis knocking on my cervix hurts like getting a tattoo, not really all that painful, but certainly annoying.

Women generally love the feeling of deep penetration into their vagina, but for most women a thick penis is much more important than a long penis. This preference of penis girth over length is because a thick penis is much more able to give women that wonderful feeling of being full in their vagina.  Some women find their orgasms are more intense when their vagina is filled to capacity. In addition, since it’s able to press a woman’s vagina from all sides of the wall, a thick penis is more likely to stimulate  the G-spot.

Does my preference for a big penis mean that I’ll only have sex with a well-endowed man? No, the man himself is more important than the size of his penis. Intercourse is only one aspect of sex, and oral and anal sex can provide as much erotic pleasure as I could ever desire. Besides, certain sex positions can make a smaller penis feel longer and thicker anyway. Still, a man who is both a masterful lover and well-hung… ooh la la!

Are you really happy with your penis size? Just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.

64 Responses to What Does a Big Penis Feel Like to a Woman?

  • Jesse F. Simmons says:

    Even a small pen can move a nation, so it is not the size but rather the author that gives satisfaction in the end.

  • Shane says:

    Its one of the questions as guys we ask nobody trained us to ask it just a natural question we are curious about. I had asked girl before while growing up and finally one was very honest. She got a big smile and said yeah of course its better lol but I have to like the guy to. She gave the same descriptions I read on here the stretching and fullness. I asked how I compared she laugh saying I was fine sex is just different with a big one. I’m average 6″ long and 5″ around. It was funny when I asked what she liked better girth or length she quickly said girth. Then she laugh saying length is nice too lol I asked what’s a perfect size. She laugh saying she had figured it out via dildo a couple years before ( 8 1/2″ long and 6 1/2″ around). That was when she showed me her dildo. We would start to used it every time after I got done first so she could feel me lol. But I would always like to go after just to feel how it stretched her out. We dated for almost a year before I had to move out of the area and we ended our relationship. But when I got married years later I brought a dildo into our relationship my wife at first didnt want to use it. But once she did and OMG she orgasmed vaginally for the first time in her life. She was addicted to it

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Many women are apprehensive about a large penis or dildo, but once they try it, they do often become addicted.

  • Shane says:

    I know with my size I’m not going to do what a big penis or dildo does inside a vagina. Its like having a way to make up for that lack of size using a dildo for me and I love seeing my wife body quiver and shake as she orgasms. Not afraid to admit I need a little help or I should say a big helped get the job done. The sex toy industry isn’t a billion dollar buisness because there isn’t a need for size that women desire so much.

  • George says:

    Svetlana, in your experience and just speaking with women in general, what’s truly is a good penis girth circumference? Also, can women truly tell if their current partner’s member is larger than a pass partner’s penis…say over 5 years ago or they really can’t? I heard one say she could tell the difference in length and girth no matter how many years it has been. She also stated her vagina knows too.

    Thank you for your candidness.

    P.S. I know foreplay is a very large plus if done right and we as men ask women what do they like and make them feel ecstasy in lieu of the erect penis.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I don’t really know girth measurements. I think you can tell differences in penis sizes if they’re significant.

    The best thing men could do to improve their foreplay is prolonged periods of just kissing and caressing. Act like “first base” is as far as you expect to get.

  • Declan says:

    Svetlana, you say ‘women often enjoy the feeling of the penis beating against the back wall’. I would really like you to describe what this sensation feels like. Here’s the reason: my long term gf had a very well hung ex (I am small) who she said ‘hit her back wall’ & that the feeling was like she had gone to heaven & it was the best thing about sex with him & that it gave her vaginal orgasms. The only thing she can describe it as is ‘tingles’. As I’m short, I have been unable to reach her there – I can’t even manage it with long dildos. It is difficult to find a woman on the net who can describe this sensation, which I find very strange. I think it might be because not many have sex with a very long penis. I would be very grateful if you could describe that sensation so I know what my gf was feeling.

  • joey says:

    women are sluts I don’t like to hear their opinions on my cock. women disgust me and I pout up with them only because I have to otherwise I have no use for them they make me sick. I am married, luckily to a girl who was a virgin otherwise I would never know if she had a man with a bigger cock than me. imagine being married to a women who had better sex with someone else? wouldn’t that be wonderful?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    This is exactly why men want virgins: so their performance can’t be judged. Sad.

  • Dorian says:

    Does a woman´s preference for larger cocks develope over time and sex experience? Do you think that a young less experienced girl preferes a small to average cock and just later would prefer a big penis?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    That’s usually what happens. Although a big penis looks impressive, many women are afraid of them until they have had one and discovered what it can do. Of course, that’s assuming the man knows how to use his equipment properly, which some don’t.

  • Pillywiggins says:

    I like a big cock and being fucked really hard and deep. I never really complain about dick size. I’m pretty small and get told a lot that I’m really tight. I haven’t been with many guys, but even smaller guys says that. I met up with a man who had a cock that was 9 1’2″ long and 7 1’2″ around. I couldn’t do anything with it. It was too big. So big is good but not too big. But maybe that’s just me. I couldn’t suck it, I couldn’t get any of in me. So that’s my 2 cents.

  • Danny says:

    I love reading your stuff, and I definitely agree that size matters big time. Even though many women would never admit it, it’s only logical that a large penis is both a major physical and mental turn on.

    As for the evolutionary purpose, I remembered reading somewhere that researchers believe women’s sexual selection played a major part in men evolving much larger penises than gorillas. Since the beginning of time, our ladies have liked them big! Lol

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Yes, the evolutionary theory is probably right. Human males don’t have bright colors or tail feathers to display to females. The penis became the substitute, so males with larger penises were selected more often.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *


Recent Comments
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.