What Does a Big Penis Feel Like to a Woman?
My posts about penis size are always popular, but the responses I get from women are about their concerns with how big their partner is, not about how small. Some women find that a very long or thick penis can cause discomfort and even pain during sex. A long penis can hurt because it can hit the cervix during penetration, and a thick penis may feel like it’s stretching you too much. Since I’m among the one in three women who does enjoy sex with a big penis, I’ll explain why I do.
It’s been said that the brain is the body’s largest sex organ. A big penis can be both a visual and a sensational turn on. The sight of a big penis makes many women think about the potential pleasures of feeling “full, ” which can cause sexual excitement before foreplay even begins. The “vaginal ache,” a desire to be “filled up” that women get during sexual arousal, may be satisfied by having something large stretch and fill the vagina. Also the experience of accommodating a big penis can be a mentally stimulating, thus, making it easier to reach orgasm.
So, what does the vagina actually feel like when it is being entered, probed, and “filled” with a big penis? Well, it obviously feels good. That “good” feeling comes from the friction of the penis rubbing within me. If I am too dry, the friction can cause discomfort rather than pleasure. If my vagina is too well lubricated, the friction is often reduced. In those cases, the actual intercourse can be less enjoyable, but that is often overcome by my mental stimulation knowing how turned on I am because I being screwed by a big penis.
Generally, a woman can accommodate a penis that is somewhat longer than the depth of her vagina because, even when fully erect, the penis tends to be spongy and compresses somewhat against the firm back wall of the vagina. If the probing penis is not too long or too “bony,” women often enjoy the feeling of having that penis “beat” against the back walls of their vagina. However, some women don’t like their cervix bumped at all, whether head on or sliding underneath.
I find a little bit of pressure on the cervix can be VERY pleasurable, but “cervical sex” is only really phenomenal for me if I am 100% ready to go and so aroused that I am ready to just be completely devoured by the man I’m with. If I am not quite to that point, having a penis knocking on my cervix hurts like getting a tattoo, not really all that painful, but certainly annoying.
Women generally love the feeling of deep penetration into their vagina, but for most women a thick penis is much more important than a long penis. This preference of penis girth over length is because a thick penis is much more able to give women that wonderful feeling of being full in their vagina. Some women find their orgasms are more intense when their vagina is filled to capacity. In addition, since it’s able to press a woman’s vagina from all sides of the wall, a thick penis is more likely to stimulate the G-spot.
Does my preference for a big penis mean that I’ll only have sex with a well-endowed man? No, the man himself is more important than the size of his penis. Intercourse is only one aspect of sex, and oral and anal sex can provide as much erotic pleasure as I could ever desire. Besides, certain sex positions can make a smaller penis feel longer and thicker anyway. Still, a man who is both a masterful lover and well-hung… ooh la la!
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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. My sexual history and preferences are detailed in my post
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Thank you. I’m now looking at my cock/”penis” in a whole new light.
This, I dare say, was the most illuminating post I’ve ever read upon the subject.
Cheers & happy Sugasm.
`x~adam (or, that long, thin, guy..who resembles, Lincoln:)
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June 6th, 2010 at 7:07 am
How about a post on what a small penis feels like? With as much detail? What it does and does not do. Is it “Different yet not equal” or is it “Similar just not as…?”
Would help a lot. Both perspectives. I have read and heard women describe what an average or large feels like… Achieves. But NEVER heard a woman describe in any where near as much detail how a small penis feels.
Your posts on “compensatory positions” and foreplay techniques leave me yet wondering if penetration should even be considered pleasure with a small penis.
I ponder… Is a small penis (>/= one standard deviation below avg) compensating for not providing pleasure during intercourse? Ergo, extended oral by a small penis man “substitutes” for absent penetration pleasure? I read 70% of men eagerly perform oral sex for their lovers.(I’d have to reference it later if you like) So… is this REALLY compensating/substituting when most men do the same or very similar?
The reverse cowgirl, her on top, the V, her legs over his shoulders, Coital alignment… Do they provide the exact same amount of pleasure for a 4 inch as a 7 inch? Does the 7 inch become God-Like during these positions that are suggested as “compensatory” for the 4 inch? I mean, if these make a 4 inch “ok” wouldn’t the same positions make a normal or large feel “Spectacular”?
And could you please describe in detail what the “ok” feeling is? Girlfriends and yourself have stated that normal/large penises (inserted with care) cause more pressure=pleasure. Small penises, under the laws of physics, can’t give that pressure=pleasure… So what do they feel like? What “pleasure” during intercourse specifically do they provide?…. under the best circumstances/techniques/emotional comfort of HIM and HER?
In as good as detail as “what does a Big penis feel like” please.
Thanks so much:)
June 6th, 2010 at 7:39 am
Thanks for the comment, Bob. I hadn’t thought of approaching the topic of penis size in that way.
June 7th, 2010 at 9:13 pm
Any Concepts you can share before you get your blog on about it?
Particularly in light of:
Cat Says:
April 24th, 2010 at 8:48 am
I’m one of those women who doesn’t so much like a big penis as I dislike a small one. You’re right that it just doesn’t get me excited about having sex, probably because I’ve never had an orgasm with a small penis. Not that I have one every time with a big one (which to me is about 7-8 inches), but at least I have a chance.
Moira Says:
April 24th, 2010 at 4:42 pm
I vote against small penises, too, but 6-7 inches is plenty big enough for me. Over 7 inches and it starts to get uncomfortable. I’m tighter and smaller than the average woman, I think.
June 8th, 2010 at 6:51 pm
The problem with writing about what a small penis feels like is that the lack of feeling is the problem. I once went to bed with a man whom I didn’t realize was even inside me until he started thrusting. I didn’t feel a thing the whole time except his pelvis pounding against mine. A short, thick penis may provide that “stretched out” or “full” feeling that women crave, but a short, thin one… not so much. And it will definitely not stimulate the clitoris or G-spot.
June 9th, 2010 at 9:32 am
I’ve recently taken the time to read all your relevant posts about size…
A small penis that is not at either extreme width (Thick or thin) but a very functional and normal shaped/appearence 4.5X4.5 inches is what I was cursed with. None of your suggested positions & foreplay techniques are “new” to me. I smoothly work from one to the other…
Yet, never has a woman said these things actually “worked”. Described how the “lack of feeling” was turned into “sufficient feeling” (pleasure?) with a position or dedicated, passionate, prolonged foreplay.
I fear this is all placation. I fear… the worst.
I have tried to comprehend how I could be a good lover despite not providing intercourse pleasure… the dream comes crashing down when I see and hear so much more often responses like Cat’s and even small vagina Moira’s as above.
I also have doubts any self respecting woman would live without even minimum pleasure during intercourse.
So, I tried to hold out hope that I am a good lover because(along with my innate passion and desire to please) I can and do provide a ‘different” yet every bit as satisfying penetration…
A post about this and all the harsh and unfortunate truth would be… painful to read I am sure. However, if it also described what similarities… if any… pleasure… if any…
I seek to accept it. I just need to know what I’m accepting.
I’ll check back in a bit.