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Two Ways to Make Missionary Position More Pleasurable

Missionary PositionThe missionary position is one of the most used sex positions. It’s not only the position a most couples use when they first have sex, but it’s usually the go-to position later in their relationship. Most women like missionary position for its face-to-face intimacy even though it doesn’t usually provide much clitoral stimulation. With a few adjustments, though, missionary can be as orgasmic as any sex position. Here are some missionary position tips that will increase sexual pleasure for your female partner.

Manipulate her legs.

Manipulating her legs is one of the way that you can make missionary position more orgasmic. How wide her legs are apart determine how much friction is created, and friction is what creates sensation. Begin intercourse in a way that makes her feel close to you. Start face-to-face with your hands on her waist, upper body, face, or some combination of these. Starting at her hips, slowly move your hands down her legs until you are holding her ankles. This will allow you to move her legs into different positions.

If her legs are spread apart in a “V” position, there will be minimal friction when you thrust. To create more friction, bring her ankles together until they are touching, putting both over one shoulder or holding them out in front of you. This will create a significantly greater amount of friction for you and her. To allow the deepest penetration possible, gently move her ankles as far towards her head as is still comfortable for her. Then lean forward, thrusting into her at an almost downward angle. Going too deep for a some women might possibly more painful than enjoyable, so gauge her reaction before attempting any deep, hard thrusting.

Stimulate the clitoris.

How and when to add direct stimulation of the clitoris is often perplexing to many men, but in the missionary position, there is plenty of opportunity to explore. Every woman’s sensitivity is different. Over-stimulation will result in discomfort, while understimulation will result in frustration. You must always pay attention to how your partner reacts to your moves. The best approach is to start slow and build on her response.

Begin with gentle, circular motions, applying light pressure with at least three fingertips to broaden the coverage area. At this point, she will signal if she wants more focused attention to the area or let you know if it’s too intense. Constant attention to the clitorous may not always be warranted. Some women like firm pressure, some like minimal pressure and some prefer a combination of both. Pay attention and figure out what your particular partner needs.

Missionary does not have to be a “vanilla” sex position. With just a few adjustments, it can be made as sexually pleasurable as she wants. When you add in the face-to-face intimacy, missionary can be not only a favorite position, but a perfect one.

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
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