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Twice as Many Women Orgasm from Oral Sex as from Intercourse

A new study says that a majority of women questioned said they only have an orgasm during intercourse about 35 percent of the time as opposed to having an orgasm about 70 percent of the time when their partner does oral sex to them. Here’s the problem with that though:

A disturbing trend for women is that the number of men who enjoy giving women oral sex continues to fall. Out of the men that were questioned, only about 60 percent said they like to give their partner oral pleasure, down from 64 percent from two years ago and down from about 70 percent from five years ago. About 30 percent of men said they only give their partner oral in the hopes that they do not ask for it in the future.

Men can take two lessons from this study: 1) To keep your partner sexually satisfied (and coming back for more), become one of the men who gives oral sex, and/or 2) become one of the men who CAN give his partner orgasms during intercourse. This article and this article on Sex Secrets give techniques to bring women to orgasm through intercourse. An article at Jennifer Lawless’s blog Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy tells which sex positions are best for giving a woman a G-spot orgasm. She also tells what sex positions a man with a small penis should use to achieve sexual satisfaction for both himself and his partner.

Men, if you don’t get your act together, you may be banished from the bedroom altogether.

…women also said that they not only achieve an orgasm more often than not when they are masturbating with a toy but the orgasm is usually more intense and they generally have multiple orgasms when they are alone.–MedSocial Forum

7 Responses to Twice as Many Women Orgasm from Oral Sex as from Intercourse

  • turander says:

    My wife usually requires oral sex for an earthquake type orgasm, whereas I am quite happy for vaginal, or oral, or manual interaction with my penis.

    To say that oral sex is the only way for women would not be right – sometimes, other positions may be a way to go, too. Sometimes, oral is the first, sometimes, the last thing I would give her.

    Maybe taste plays a role in what men are ready to perform on women. I mean, my wife just tastes great even without “having washed particularly well”. I’d lick her and suck her any time. She’s got a great natural body scent. Now, that’s not just “accidental” – that is something we knew before we got married, too. If men and women don’t select each other also with respect to their body scent, I can well imagine that oral sex doesn’t work out all that well.

  • Juan says:

    “A disturbing trend for women is that the number of men who enjoy giving women oral sex continues to fall…”

    Aren’t we men all so incredibly sexually aroused and satisfied by realizing that our female lover is feeling so close to sexual extasis (and expressing herself reaching orgasm) by oral-genital stimulation??? Penetration could come in second place: besides lubrication and vaginal conditionsis are perfect. Male orgasm is so short we should enjoy her orgasm… I a loner???

    I don’t think so…..

  • conceptualclarity says:

    Can you help me? I can’t find the “new study” you reference. And the links in this post don’t go anywhere now.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    That article is definitely an oldie! Jennifer Lawless’ links already worked. I updated the links to my two “articles,” but it looks as that forum may have disappeared.

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