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The Nice Girl’s Guide to the One-Night Stand – Part One: The Pick-up

Jenny Swwallow tells women looking for a one=night stand what they need to do while the man is doing the picking.

There’s a lot of literature out there telling guys how to pick up girls. In the first half of a two-part article, we talk about what the girl needs to do to while he’s actually doing the picking.

The Pick Up Techniques No Woman Can Resist!

A man walks up to the registers at his local bookstore, clutching a “how to” guide about picking up girls.

“Let me know how that goes for you,” says the gorgeous, buxom blonde as she swipes his credit card.

“Why, are you interested?” asks the man, beaming happily.

“No,” she replies. “But if it works for you, then it’ll work for anyone.” Read more

2 Responses to The Nice Girl’s Guide to the One-Night Stand – Part One: The Pick-up

  • Jason says:

    How to get picked up.

    Don’t try to be “the most unattainable goddess he’s ever laid eyes on.” Try to be a warm friendly human being. Make eye contact, smile, try to put him at ease. If later you want to kiss him, kiss him.

    Most men are not smooth pick up artists. Their hearts are probably racing, their palms are wet, they’re nervous as hell just approaching.

    Unfortunately the only way to get good at cold approaches is to make plenty of them, and given the kind of nuclear rejections that some women come up with many men just can’t be bothered.

    The ones that do a lot of approaches, well do you want to become another notch on the bedpost of a PUA?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Pick=up systems generally don’t work. The men who can make them work don’t need them, and the men who need them can’t make them work. Men do best by just being themselves and looking for the woman who wants what they have to offer, realizing that they may not appeal to every woman.

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