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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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The Deep Spot Orgasm Technique

A lot has been written about the G-spot, which is an area within a woman’s vagina that, when stimulated, can bring intense pleasure. (See my post What’s So Great about a G-Spot Orgasm?) There is another pleasure area within the vagina that is less well-known called the deep spot. The deep spot is deeper in the vagina than the G-spot and unlike the G-spot, is smooth. According to Gray’s Anatomy, this area is called the cavity of the cervix and is situated about three and a quarter inches (eight centimeters) deep.

This area of a woman’s body is located almost all the way back in the deepest part of the vagina just before the cervix, and has two distinct areas, the front and the back. The front is located along the front wall of the vagina. The back is located along the rear wall slightly deeper because this part of the vagina is tilted. Direct stimulation to the deep spot can cause very intense orgasms and to some women by stimulating the back of the of this sensitive area can feel as if she’s having anal sex.

To locate the deep spot, have your partner lie on her back and spread her legs with her knees bent. Put a lot of lubricant on your fingers and be careful not to damage the inside of her vagina with your fingernails. When locating the deep spot, use your middle finger and insert it 3.5 to 4.5 inches inside along the front wall. You are going to go past the spongy area and feel for a smooth area just before the cervix. You might feel a rim, sort of like the rim of a Frisbee. The cervix will feel like a button or the tip of a nose. If you feel this, then you know you’ve gone too far, so pull back a bit. Avoid touching the cervix because most women do not like this.

To stimulate the deep spot, curl your fingertip into the “come hither’ position and press firmly against the upper wall of the vagina. Start massaging her deep spot firmly as if you were making the “come hither” motion. Be careful that your hand is moist enough with the lubricant and that the massage is really firm. Vary it up by using both long and short strokes. You can even use two fingers if you like.

You can also approach the deep spot by sliding your middle finger into the vagina, with your palm facing downward. Slide your finger on the frontal wall of the vagina, past the rough part of the interior to the smooth part. Go as deeply as possible, but be careful not to be too forceful with your knuckles. Do the “come hither” notion with your fingertip again and push towards the lowest vertebrae of the spine. This will make her feel like she’s having anal intercourse, which really arouses some women, and many will experience a very powerful orgasm.

If your fingers are too short to reach your partner’s deep spot, a G-spot vibrator can be used instead. The shape is right because both the G-spot and the deep spot are stimulated with the “come hither”motion. Although the G-spot is located only 1-3 inches inside the vagina, every G-spot vibrator or stimulator that I’ve seen is longer than that.  The downside of using a sex toy is that you can’t feel for the right spot directly.

The tip of the penis also can be used to stimulate the deep spot during sexual intercourse by brushing the penis back and forth, trying to hit the same spot each time. The more aroused a woman is, the easier the deep spot is s to find, because the vagina  “balloons” a little inside, causing the cervix  to tilt a bit.

The deep spot orgasm is often the first time many woman have a true “internal” orgasm, as it’s usually easier for a woman to have one of these than it is for her to have one during sex. As you massage the back of the deep spot, you are simulating the “ballooning” that occurs in this area at the time of her orgasm. When you massage any area of the deep spot, you are simulating the muscle contractions that occur at the time of her orgasm to dilate the cervix. A woman can’t help but orgasm!

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3 Responses to The Deep Spot Orgasm Technique

  • WayneCider says:

    What about the area past the cervix, also known as the posterior fornix/cul de sac? They say that hard rubbing of this area is more intense as it stimulates the Pouch of Douglas area beyond the cul de sac.

    This are is roughly 6.5″ to 7″ deep (for my wife anyway).

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    The cul-de-sac is a separate vaginal hot spot.

  • rod says:

    I have written here before telling about me and my wife having 3somes with my best friend. I know my cock is of average size and hitting the cud de sac isn’t something I can physically do. We have tryed different postions and it just cant reach lol. I could cry about it and make excusses but it’s not my fault nor my wifes. It’s just a deeper spot than I have the tools to reach. My friend who joins us in 3somes hits it everytime, its because he got a huge cock. Like I said before I could use all kinds of excusses but the fact is the fact. M wife loves me and I love her. She enjoys having that area hit or fucked durring sex and I enjoy watching her go crazy till shes completely satisfied. Im one who loves to ask questions lol and my wife after time began to give details. Im 5 3/4″ long and she admitted im perry far from hitting that spot. Also my friend very thick and causes stimulation to her clit durriing pnitration. I use my fingers when ever possible durring sex to satisfy my wife. You need to do with what you have to satisfy your wife gf and fling. I have fun with sex and thats what its about not everyone will enjoy a threesome like we do. There is nothing better than watching my wife enjoy a orgasm durring sexuall penitration. I can do it myself with toys and fingers and durring sex. But its not the same my wife admitted and I love that shes so honest. It’s a different orgasm I know some guys will think they are hitting it. But it’s not always going to be the real thing if she can’t behonest with you. Most women will lie or in my wifes case un knowing what the difference is.

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