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The Best Sex Position for Ejaculatory Control

Premature ejaculation is a condition in which a man ejaculates earlier than he or his partner would like him to. There are numerous reasons why a man ejaculates too quickly. Some are stress-related, some are mental, and some can be physical. When there is to much friction, or continual thrusting, or a great deal of mutual movement, a man’s ejaculation can be too quick, for both partners. To delay premature ejaculation, a man needs to avoid some sexual positions completely. Furthermore, there are two sex position that can be used that are guaranteed to avoid premature ejaculation.

Two Sex Positions to Avoid

The missionary sex position (man-on-top) and all its variations should be avoided. These are quite intimate positions and leave most of the work to the man. If the man has a problem in finishing too quickly, these positions will not help.

Another group to avoid are the “doggy” sex positions. Again, most of the work in done by the man and should be avoided.

Two Sex Positions to Use

There are two sex position, one being better than the other, that can delay the man’s ejaculation and prolong the pleasure to both partners. The first group of sex positions are the “sitting” positions where the woman straddles the man, who is seated. A good position from this group is for the man to sit on the edge of the bed with his legs off the bed, and his feet on the floor. The woman wraps her arms around his neck and her legs around his waist. The man then inserts his penis as they embrace. This position does not rely on thrusting. Instead, the man and woman rotate their hips in unison.

The effect of this is very pleasurable for the woman, as her G-spot is being pressed, and her clitoris being stimulated at the same time. The man, for his part, is not thrusting and is being pleasured by holding his partner, face to face, and is able to kiss her and is not concentrating on thrusting. The ejaculation in this sex position is, therefore, delayed.

The Best Position

The best sex position for ejaculatory control is for the man to lie on his back. The woman mounts him and sits astride his legs. The man does not thrust, but the woman does. She is in control. The man only has to lie back and relax and let her do all the work.

To make the position more intimate, the man can pull the woman down onto his chest so that the couple are in a close embrace; their heads touch at the forehead, and they can kiss. The result is that ejaculation is delayed. The woman is also getting G-spot and clitoral stimulation at the same time, making this a pleasurable position for her, too. The best part for the man is that he has no pressure on him to perform, and his ejaculation is delayed

Premature ejaculation is a frustrating problem that can reduce the enjoyment of sex. Premature ejaculation makes couples unhappy and frustrated, and in severe cases, can threaten or even ruin a relationship because it spoils the sex lives of both partners. By following the advice above, a man can delay his ejaculation and allow his partner time to enjoy having sexual intercourse with him.

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