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The Basics of Erotic Spanking

Erotic spanking is the practice of spanking another person for the sexual gratification of either or both parties. The bottom is a prime erogenous zone, and a majority of women have fantasies about being spanked. Most men, too, find spanking a woman to be a strong sexual turn-on. If you want to give erotic spanking a try, here are some tips from Good Vibrations for making it as fun as it can be.

Lots of people enjoy spanking; giving or receiving (or both), and there are many different ways you can do it. For some, spanking can be part of a fantasy or role play, while for others, it can be purely for sensation. You can spank someone as a warm-up, during intercourse, as a way to tease your partner or as a way to engage in erotic power play. Some people like to use their hands; others prefer to use toys.

However you like to do it, here are some tips for making it as fun as it can be. As with all sexual experiences, some basic guidelines will help make the sexual expression more enjoyable and positive for all participants. Read more

5 Responses to The Basics of Erotic Spanking

  • chelsea o'bryant says:

    I honestly like being spanked but then again I have a pimp who goes by the name dirty dan he spankes me hard but it has to be a really realy big man with stong arms to get the spanking I like I like it

  • Greg says:

    Say–you’ve said that getting a hard OTK spanking is one of your biggest turn-ons–so Is spanking a regular part of your love life? Are you only into receiving, or have you spanked a guy or two?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Spanking has been a regular part of my sex life, but it isn’t currently. The only time I’ve spanked a man was during pegging.

  • Adonis says:

    I think spanking has a time and place, as with a lot of things. Depends on the mood and what your partner enjoys as well.

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