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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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3 Ways to Make Your Man Ejaculate Faster

lingerieWhile most men ejaculate during sex in less than ten minutes, there are others who take more than thirty minutes to have an orgasm. Even if that’s not an issue, sometimes you want your man to ejaculate faster for rother reasons, such asyou’re tired, you need to get up early or because you’re not really up for sex but you didn’t wan to tell him no. Whatever your reasons, It’s great to know how to make a man orgasm almost at will because it gives you total power over how long sex lasts. Here are three ways to make your man ejaculate faster. Continue reading

The Right Way to Do Penetration

There’s more to penetration than just sticking it in. Michael Webb reveals the right way to do penetration.

Penetration seems simple enough, right? Wrong! If you penetrate her the wrong way, you can mess up the entire sex act. Here’s how you need to be doing it.

You’ve done the works – the whole nine yards. You’ve been thorough, gentle and moved slow as a turtle on hangover. And now you’ve decided, she’s more than ready. Besides, you can’t take the suspense any longer, your penis made that argument for you 10 minutes ago. It’s time to bring your ship to harbor. Read more

6 Moves Men Need to Be Sex Gods in the Bedroom

Has your sex life fallen into a rut, or, worse yet, almost disappeared altogether? If you want your wife or girlfriend to be eager to have sex with you, you have to give her a reason. If your old moves don’t seem to be working anymore, try these six moves that will take her from foreplay to intercourse to a toe-curling climax.

1) Use the back of your hand to massage the area between her breasts,

Massaging the area between a woman’s breasts produces the bonding hormone oxytocin. She will feel more intimate towards you and relax into orgasm. Run your hand up and down her breastbone before stroking her breasts. Using the back of your hand is best, as it forces you to go gently. Doing this while you’re performing oral sex will help her feel more connected to you and climax quicker. Continue reading

The 3 Best Sex Positions to Make a Woman Orgasm Quicker

Two widely believe sexual myths are that women always take a long time to orgasm and that most women can’t have an orgasm from vaginal penetration. In fact, many women can climax within a few minutes during masturbation. So what’s the problem during sexual intercourse? Not enough clitoral stimulation is the main culprit. Changing sex positions is one way to help with that. Lee Jenkins gives the three best sex positions to make a woman orgasm quicker. I’m not a big fan of the last position, but it does lend itself to clitoral touching.

Any woman is able to orgasm quickly when she’s being fondled during penetration. Sensations from penetration and fondling combine, leading to an intense orgasm that will leave her stunned. So where should a man touch a woman to get her off fast? Some women prefer breast stroking, while some women like torrid kissing, but the true secret to a quick orgasm is clitoral touching during sex.

However, doing this is easier said than done. The usual sex positions (like missionary) require you to use one or both hands to balance. Some men also find it difficult to do another task when foreplay is over and sex is in full swing. A remedy to this is to get into sex positions that allows touching of the clitoris without much effort on the guy’s part. You can also get into a sex position that will make it easier for the woman to reach her clitoris and stimulate herself without getting too tired.

Here are three sex positions that will do the trick. Read more

Vaginal Intercourse Still Most Popular Sex Act

With all the news about the popularity of oral and anal sex, you might think that vaginal intercourse has gone out of  style. No so, says he National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior. Vaginal intercourse is still the most popular sex act.

U.S. men and women say they rarely engage in just one sex act when they have sex, but a survey indicates vaginal intercourse is still the most common one.

However, the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, conducted by the Center for Sexual Health Promotion in Indiana University’s School of Health, Physical Education and Recreation, also found that many sexual encounters do not involve intercourse, instead culminating in mutual masturbation or oral sex. Read more

How to Have a Vaginal Orgasm

The Sexademic gives advice to a woman who wants an orgasm from penetrative sex, and suggests that pressure may be better than friction.

… If you want to experiment with vaginal stimulation, keep in mind that the vagina responds more to pressure than to friction. That whole in-n-out, pumpy pumpy penetrative sex usually provides more friction than pressure. Try having a partner take his fingers and make slow wiping and pressing motions inside of your vagina. (Remember: the outer 1/3 of the vagina tends to be the most sensitive). During penetrative sex, instead of thrusting, your partner can try moving his hips in a vertical circular motion…like he’s painting circles with his hips. Read more

I mention the above technique in my post How to Properly Screw a Woman. Another technique to try is the Friction Zone Technique, which is more of an up-and-down motion. If you’re a woman who doesn’t have orgasms from penetrative sex, have your partner try the techniques in these two posts instead of the old “in-n-out.”  You may be in for an amazing surprise!

How to Properly Screw a Woman

Does your girlfriend or wife seem less than eager to have sex with you these days? It could be because she’s just not enjoying it that much. Many women find sexual intercourse to be uncomfortable, unsatisfying, or just plain boring. While a man can put his penis in, thrust hard and fast, and have an orgasm every time, that won’t work for most women most of the time.

For a woman to have an orgasm from intercourse (or even enjoy it), you need vary the techniques that you use and vary the types, depth, speed, and angles of your thrusts as well as the positions that you are thrusting in. These eight tips for properly screwing a woman will not only make sex more exciting and enjoyable for her, but also make it more exciting and enjoyable for you! Continue reading

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.