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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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5 Tips for Better Fingeirng

The easiest way to bring a woman to orgasm is with your hands, but what’s the best way to do it?

Many, if not most women, have masturbated by fingering themselves. That’s probably why fingering another woman doesn’t seem as intimidating to first-time lesbian lovers as giving oral does. Been there, done that – sort of. Even so, fingering another woman is different than fingering yourself – thankfully – but it’s just as good a way to give your lover an orgasm as it is to give yourself one. These five easy fingering techniques will help you give your lover a hand when you are in bed together. Read more

Great Fingering Techniques to Blow Her Mind

Learn how to blow her mind with these great fingering techniques! This video gives you two valuable tips to get started, show you where the clitoris is ,and what techniques you can try to please her.

7 Tips to Make a Woman Orgasm with Your Hands

Sex coach Nick Hardwick has seven tricks to make a woman orgasm with your hands, although the first one isn’t really a trick – just common sense.

This is important to know guys because you just never know when some woman is going to want a good fingering to orgasm. It could be anyone, from your friend’s mom or a hospital nurse; or, perhaps, even some movie star stuck in her trailer and bored out of her mind. Whatever the unbelievable situation, you have to be ready!

So here are seven tips for how to finger a woman with those five dirty digits. Read more

Manual Sex: 12 Vaginal Fingering Techniques

Manual sex is a neglected part of many men’s sexual repertoire, yet it’s a surefire way to turn a woman on and even bring her to orgasm. After all, that’s how most women masturbate. You may never become as good at it as she is, but the following twelve vaginal fingering techniques can definitely turn her on and get her off.

Outside the Vagina

Don’t be in a hurry to shove your fingers inside a woman. Many women masturbate to orgasm without any penetration at all. Also, make sure that your fingers are well-lubricated. There is nothing more uncomfortable (and painful) than a dry finger roughly rubbed across a woman’s clitoris or pushed inside her. In most cases, sufficient foreplay  will avoid the problem of dryness, but it never hurts to keep a “tube of lube” handy even for the techniques used outside the vagina. Continue reading

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