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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Why Are So Many Couples Having Threesomes?

If you’ve ever fantasized about having a threesome, you’re not alone. Find out why so many couples are doing more than just fantasizing.

“It’s a fantasy we’ve both had for a while.”

Harriet*, a 24-year-old actress who has been with her boyfriend for four years, recently decided to have a threesome.

While she says the two have always had a great sex life, this is the first time they’ve moved beyond just talking about bringing in a new partner. “His previous partner wasn’t into it, and both of us are still pretty daunted by the idea of actually making it happen,” she says. “But we’re committed to figuring it out.” Read more

Having a Threesome? Answer These Five Questions

Make your decision about having a threesome the smart way by answering these five questions first.

Last summer, the guy I was dating asked me to participate in a threesome. This wasn’t the first time he asked, but it was the last. Men seem to have this idea that all women – straight or not – are OK sleeping with each other just to please them.

It doesn’t help that almost every television show, music video, and film has, if not a reference to girl-on-girl action, the requisite drunk girls making out with each other in a club, while the men around them watch with glee. And although I had never given Mr. I Want it All any inclination or reasons to believe this is something I would do, he automatically assumed I would. So, I bet you’re wondering how he asked me? This is pretty much how the conversation went down: Read more

5 Tips on How to Arrange a Threesome

If a threesome is one of your sexual fantasy, these five tips explain how to arrange a threesome , the best way!

The Dos and Don’ts of Threesomes

Celebrity sexpert Emily Morris reveals the dos and don’ts of threesomes.

If you think a threesome is going to solve all your problems, you’ve probably watched one too many dirty movies.

A ménage à trois between Scarlett Johansson, Javier Bardem, and Penélope Cruz can make even the most monogamous person want to pursue a threesome. But if you’re going to dip your toes into the murky waters of a ménage à trois, you’ll need to learn the do’s and don’ts first. Then you can decide if a night of hot sex and high school fantasies come true is worth all the trouble. Read more

Threesomes: 3 Rules for Success

You might think that, if you’re lucky enough to arrange a threesome, you’ve got it made. What could go wrong? Not so fast, says Sarah Gibson. She gives three rules to follow to make sure that you don’t just have a threesome, but that you have a successful threesome.

For the majority of us, sex is a double act. But for the adventurous some, inviting another into the bedroom is both intriguing and plausible.  If you’re considering adding a third party into the mix, it’s important to first remember that threesomes are not like regular sex – they require both resourcefulness and sensitivity. There are certain rules that need to be adhered to for a functional threesome, so read them below and ensure that you’re prepared to follow them first. Read more

How to Make Threesomes Happen

Sometimes it takes three to tango. Here’s how to make a ménage à trois a reality.

Sure, sex with your partner is smokin’, but how much hotter would it be to add a third person to the mix? At Good In Bed, we know that a threesome, or menage a trois, has crossed the minds of most couples at some point or another, whether as a fantasy or the real thing. And while not everyone is comfortable even suggesting one, a little honesty can go a long way to help you make the fantasy a reality or even just incorporate the fantasy into your own sex life. Here’s how to make threesomes happen. Read more

What to Do the Morning after a Threesome

Suzy Bauer, author of Step by Step Threesome, suggests what couples can do the morning after a threesome to avoid negative feelings.

What can you do “The Morning After” a threesome to avoid negative feelings

After she’s gone, it‘s time for you and your partner to connect with each other, talk about the experience and re-live together what you’ve accomplished! This is the time to bring out your feelings and tell each other honestly how the experience was. It’s also the time to compliment each other as much as possible about what you just accomplished. From this moment the female in the seducing couple becomes the “queen of the world” and the male’s duty is to spoil her rotten for days to come. This works in his favor, because it’ll be an incentive for her to allow you to experience more threesomes!

A small tip that will simply show your thoughtfulness as a couple towards your friend is to send her a bouquet of flowers the next day with a nice but naughty card telling her how grateful you both are and how special she is. Mention that you’ll never forget that beautiful night. Read more

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