About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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10 Sex Positions That Will Make You Forget He Has a Small Penis

A small penis doesn’t have to mean unsatisfying intercourse. Here are ten sex positions that will make you forget that your partner is under-endowed.

Last week we told you about 15 Ways to Make the Most of Your Small Penis in Bed. We basically covered everything except plain old intercourse, because sex involves so much more than in-out penetration. In fact, for many women, the old in-out is the least likely route to their orgasm.

That all said, intercourse can be pretty fun, too! So here are 10 positions (for male-female intercourse) that are well-suited for a smaller than average penis. More than just well-suited, actually: many of these positions feel better with a smaller than average penis.

Take note, ladies! Read more

College Girls Answer the Question: “Does Size Matter?”

Watch what happens when the YouTube prankster of SimpleSexyStupid goes to San Diego State University campus to ask students the age old question, “Does size matter?”Though everyone has her own opinion, the women of SD State seem to agree size does indeed matter, but those less well-endowed are acceptable if they know how to use it.

Two Sex Tips for Men with a Small Penis

man_ashamedMany men are ashamed of having a small penis, sometimes with good reason. According to a recent survey, over 50% of women have dumped a partner or refused to have sex because of small penis size. However, an under-endowed man doesn’t have to be a bad lover. The good news is that when a small penis is used with maximum effect, it can still give a woman pleasure. Try these two proven tips to help you compensate for having a small penis.

1) Choose the right position.

The right sex position can make a small penis feel longer and thicker. Two of most men’s favorite sex positions are doggy-style (rear entry) and missionary (man on top). Fortunately, these are two of the easiest to adjust to make a small penis feel bigger. Continue reading

Small Penis, Big Problems?

Heaven gives advice to a reader with a small penis.

Have A Small Penis? 3 Tips to Make It Seem Larger

If you’ve ever felt that your penis isn’t big enough, you’re not alone.  It’s difficult to say what size is big enough and what is definitely too small. However, numerous studies have been conducted in order to get a closer look at the general attitude about penis size. Only 35% of men are happy with the size of their penis, and 85% of men seriously wish for a bigger penis. Continue reading

7 Sex Tips for Dating a Man with a Small Penis

I posted about the advice that Slate‘s Dear Prudence gave a woman who was dating a man with a small penis. Gawker noticed the same column and gave the woman much more practical advice than Dear Prudence did.  (He’ll love the fifth tip! ) I give similar tips to those men who have a small penis in my post 6 Ways to Turn a Small Penis into a Big Asset.

Slate’s prudish advice columnist Dear Prudence received a question from a woman dating a man with a tiny, tiny penis.

Prudence’s response today focuses on love and relationships, but skimps on the sex. We’ll get down to the itty-bitty nitty-gritty.

The problem, as posed to Prudence, is this: A woman meets a man who is perfect in every way. She wants to settle down and marry him, except he has a small dick. Prudence tells her—and I’m paraphrasing here—”Well, if you really love him, you can make it work, but if you really need the dick, then dump him and get the dick.”

That’s totally wrong. There is no reason you should throw a good guy to the curb just because he isn’t very blessed in the dong department. Here’s how to make it work in the sack when your man doesn’t have much of one. Read more

How to Date a Man with a Small Penis

Slate‘s Dear Prudence has gotten a letter from a woman with a real problem on her hands: the smart, funny, cute, and kind man she has been dating for three months has an extremely small penis.

Dear Prudie,
I am a 30-year-old woman who has been dating a lovely man for three months. He’s smart, funny, cute, and kind. I’ve felt so lucky to have found him. Here’s the problem: We recently became intimate for the first time, and he is, unfortunately, very poorly endowed—so small that I did some Google searching and think he might have a micropenis. I believe that sex is crucial to a relationship, and the thought of having a (potentially lifelong) relationship without an active sex life scares me. When you can’t feel anything during the act, that’s a problem. I know that there are other options in the bedroom, but I get pleasure by doing it the old-fashioned way. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.