About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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My Sex Positions Ebook Is Available!

missionary-positionEverybody says that changing sex positions is good, that knowing your different options will make your sex life exciting and so on, but why, how, and what advantages does it actually give a couple? One thing trying new sex positions is not about is sexual acrobatics, which few people are interested in  What many couples are interested in, though, is making sex more fun and pleasurable. Continue reading

Sex with Circumcised and UnCircumcised Penis: Which Is Better?

Amanda Chatel gives her perspective about the difference between sex with a circumcised and an uncircumcised penis.

The first time I came into real-life contact with an uncircumcised penis was several years ago. Up until then it was something I’d only seen online as some bizarre curiosity to me, an American woman.

A friend would ask, “Have you seen an uncircumcised penis?” Then, we’d gather around a computer as the images were brought up, and we expressed our disgust.

It’s not like penises are in the running for any sort of beauty award but the way an uncircumcised penis looked to us — early 20-something American women who very rarely come across them in our sex lives (although more parents are opting against circumcision these days) — was a horrifying specimen. Read more

Brazil Official: More Sex, Dancing for Better Health

Can you imagine the hue and cry if Secretary of Health and Human Services Kathleen Sebelius recommended that American have more sex? She’d be crucified on FOX News and pilloried on the floor of Congress.  On the other hand, if she recommended a new miracle pharmaceutical, she would be hailed for demonstrating leadership.

Brazil’s health minister has a remedy for the nation’s high-blood- pressure problem: More sex.

Minister Jose Temporao says adults should be exercising more to help keep their blood pressure down – and he says a good cardiovascular workout includes sex, “always with protection, obviously.”

Temporao also recommends dancing, a healthy diet and regular blood-pressure checks. Read more

Men Share the Sexiest Moves Women Make

So what exactly is it that men love (besides fellatio and anal sex) ? Savvy Miss shares with us a few things he’ll never forget you for doing:

… So what exactly is it that men love? While that crazy wheelbarrow-to-doggie-style-to-reverse-cowgirl combination may look great when Jenna Jameson does it, it might not make his Top 10 Sexiest Moments. Technique may get you kudos, but blowing a man’s, uh, mind may be simpler than you think. Here are a few things he’ll never forget you for doing:

Take control.
It’s a long-known strategy for guys to use reverse psychology to get a girl in the sack. The best way to guarantee a lay? Insist it’s not going to happen.

When women do it, it can be coy or coercing, playful or powerful. And sexperts insist that setting the boundaries of an intercourse-less night can be much hotter than you’d think. Remember foreplay? That thing you used to do before sex? How about an entire night of it? No running for the finish line, just enjoying the journey. Read more

Sex Improves Public Speaking

Having sex may be the best way to reduce stress levels before giving a speech, but only penetrative sex does the trick. Oral sex and masturbation have no impact at all.

Forget learning lines or polishing jokes – having sex may be the best way to prepare for giving a speech.

New Scientist magazine reports that Stuart Brody, a psychologist at the University of Paisley, found having sex can help keep stress at bay.

However, only penetrative intercourse did the trick – other forms of sex had no impact on stress levels at all. Read more

Depressed Women Have More Sex

This is depressing news: according to an Australian study, depressed women have more sex than happy women. Plus, they are more sexually liberated and have a bigger variety of sexual experiences.

Depressed women have more sex than those who are happier, regardless of whether they are in a relationship or not, a study of Australians has found.

A survey of Melbourne women presented at an international mental health conference has concluded that females who suffer from mild to moderate depression have a third more sexual activity than those who are not. Read more

How to Have More Sex, Orgasms, Fun, and Money in Your Life

Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Dr. Dain Heer, a chiropractor who travels the world teaching people how to have way more sex, fun, pleasure, money, and, yes, even orgasms in their lives.

Find out if women are really more aggressive than they often let on, given the right opportunity? What would you say to make a good opening offer for sexual fun? Learn how all of us have can be better receivers and how having more sex, orgasms, and fun will lead to having more money in our lives. Listen to the podcast

Recent Comments

  • Flinkd: Bigger penis is stretching the walls of the vagina better. (nerve endings feel more pressure, therefore...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....