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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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5 Good Girl Turned Bad Girl Sex Tricks

Discover the hidden vixen waiting to come out and play with these five sex tricks every bad girl uses!

Have you ever secretly wished you were a bad girl in disguise? Most guy’s secret fantasy is knowing that while their woman is respectable, they can also get down and dirty in the bedroom. Not sure how to release the vixen within? It’s not as difficult as you may think! You don’t need tons of sexual experience, leather get-ups (although they don’t hurt!) or a demanding attitude. What you do need is a willingness to explore being more confident in your sexual life. To help you out, we’ve compiled the best Bad Girl Tricks that will turn you into a bedroom vixen almost overnight. Your partner won’t know what hit him, but he sure won’t be complaining! Read more

4 Bad Boy Sex Tricks Nice Guys Can Use

Sexpert Gabrielle Moore reveals four bad boy sex tricks that nice guys can use to become the kind of lover women talk about to their friends.

Bad boys are legendary – a woman who’s been with one practically passes out from bliss when she talks about her experience. You might be thinking, “Who, me? Be bad boy?” But any man who wants to can wake up his hibernating alpha male… and have a good time doing it. See, bed-devil status is about a fearless attitude, not how much sexual experience you have or whether you wear leather. Women dig when guys are unbridled and uninhibited, push their own boundaries, break the rules, and ask for what they want. While you’re probably eager to meet the bad boy inside, you may not be exactly sure where to start. If you think you can handle the heat, try one of these no-holds-barred ways to get very dirty. Read more

7 Sex Tricks to Try Tonight

Aly Walansky shares seven tricks she collected from sexperts that you can try tonight.

Women, like men, have their favorite sex tricks. Some may prefer sex when it’s slow and romantic, others like it a little rough. And even when you get tuned into their favorite positions and how they like to go to about it, there’s still certain moves to learn. That one caress in a specific place that will drive them wild.

Discovering those details is so much of the fun. “Every woman’s specific sex preferences are different,” says relationship expert Laurel House. “Some women love doggy style while others simply can’t get off when taking it from behind. Other women prefer the pressure of a man’s body on top of her in good old-fashioned missionary,” she says.

We spoke to House and other experts to give you some of the best sex tricks you can possibly pull off. Don’t worry, this isn’t just for you; she might just enjoy these way more than you do. Read more

10 Surefire Tricks for Better Sex – According to Science

The world’s foremost doctors reveal to Esquire their surefire tricks for better sex.

You can try all the sex positions you want, or you can call up the world’s foremost doctors for sex advice on their one surefire trick in the bedroom. And then the positions get better.

Tell Her She Looks (and Tastes) Great

“It’s been proven that women who feel confident about the appearance of their genitals are more open to different kinds of sexual activity, and are more likely to orgasm because they feel relaxed… When a man goes down on his partner, he should be enthusiastic, tell her how beautiful she is and how great she tastes. Don’t treat it like a chore.” —Debra Lynne Herbenick, Ph.D., Indiana University, Kinsey Institute Read more

5 Sinful Sex Tricks

If you want to stand out from the crowd as a truly amazing lover, adult webmaster Sarah Gibson has five sinful sex tricks for you to try.

If you’ve ever wanted to stand out from the crowd and be a truly amazing lover then keep reading. This week I’ve got five sinful sex tricks that will lead to better sex… for both of you.

1. If you know that your partner is a bit of an exhibitionist; stand her in front of a full length mirror. Stand behind her and begin to seduce her. Kiss her neck, stroke her nipples… and the rest of her body and then remove all of her clothes and yours. Press and rub yourself against her as you bring her to orgasm using your hands. She’ll get to watch as you pleasure her and also see what she looks like when she is aroused. Read more

3 Tricks to Bring a Woman to Orgasm without Using Your Hands!

Vin DiCarlo, author of Pandora’s Box, gives three tricks to bring a woman to orgasm without using your hands. Note: DiCarlo  has the correct order exactly reversed, but they’re still good tips. Also, he seems to suggest that his last tip isn’t necessary. Don’t you believe it. It’s probably the most important.

Ever had sex with a woman? If so, you know how badly you want her to have an orgasm before you do. So she’s happy, she’s satisfied and she wants to have sex with you more. That’s why, in this article, you’ll discover three of the easiest way to make her have a violently powerful orgasm without ever once using your hands! Or touching her body!

The trick is, most women are controlled by their emotions, and by their minds. When you want to have sex with her, what do you do? Not grope her all over, but turn her on, starting in her MIND! You bring her roses, wine and dine her, tell her how beautiful she looks, until she’s overcome with desire, and must have you.

Here’s exactly how you can “overwhelm” her emotions while you’re in the middle of the moment – and how you can make a female orgasm with your words and your words, alone.

Here are three phrases that you can use to get your girl off during sex. Read more

7 Bad Girl Sex Tricks

7-sex-tricksAll men secretly crave boundary-pushing action in bed, so Cosmopolitan came up with seven bad girl sex tricks to heat up your sex life.

Bad girls are legendary — a guy who’s been with one practically passes out from bliss when he talks about his experience. You might be thinking, “Who, me? Be a bad girl?” But any woman who wants to can wake up her hibernating vixen…and have a damn good time doing it!

See, bed-devil status is about a fearless attitude, not how much sexual experience you have or whether you wear leather. “Guys dig when women are unbridled and uninhibited, push their own boundaries, break the rules, and ask for what they want,” says Barbara Keesling, PhD, author of The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex. So we boiled down the naughty qualities that make some women stand out, then came up with seven audacious ideas for putting them into play. These tips and tricks will forever crank up the heat in your sex life. Read more

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.