About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Toys: How to Add Them to Partner Sex

partner-sexMany people think of sex toys as strictly for masturbation, but they don’t have to be.  If you use sex toys with your partner, they can do double duty and help turn the sex you’re already having into something even better.  However, many couples never add this extra boost to their sex life for various reasons. They may be afraid of insulting their partner, or worry that adding a sex toy will destroy the intimacy of sex in their relationship. They may be shy about revealing how they masturbate or even that they do. None of these concerns should keep you from adding sex toys to partner sex, however, as long as you do it the right way. Continue reading

My Lesbian Sex Ebook Has Been Published!

KissingDespite lesbians definitely being out of the closet, there are still not a lot of sex tip and sex advice for lesbians available. Apparently, women are supposed to automatically know how to make love to another woman, but that is just not the case. It’s true that a woman should be able to avoid some of the mistakes that men make. (You do know where the clitoris is and why it’s important.) You may have some tricks you’ve picked up from masturbation or previous lovers. That’s not enough, however, to satisfy your lover in bed night after night. Continue reading

True Companion Female Sex Robot Unveiled

The upcoming Adult Entertainment Expo is to reveal True Companion, the world’s first female sex robot. Will this make women obsolete?

True Companion is set to   unveil   the first female sex robot  at the  upcoming Adult Entertainment Expo at the Sands Convention Center Jan 7-10,2010.

This female robot  from True Companion is described as an artificial intelligence robot which was been specifically engineered to completely gratify the owner.  The  robot is said to  be fully equipped with the capabilities to carry on a conversation or to have an intimate encounter. Read more

Robot Sex Coming Soon?

John Holmes sex dollChess grandmaster and author, David Levy predicts we’ll be having sex with robots fairly soon. I predict that men will be having sex with robots soon, but not women.

People often talk to machines, including computers and robots, and a growing number of AI (artificial intelligence) researchers are working to enable them to talk back. And soon, human-computer interactions may include having sex with them. That’s the view of David Levy, who has just won the 2009 Loebner prize for the most human-like chatbot. Read more

Levy says later in the article that a male sex doll with a vibrating penis would appeal to women, but I disagree. For one thing, you can’t put a male sex doll in a drawer or purse the way you can a vibrator. How many women would want to take up valuable closet space with a male sex doll? Also, a vibrator can be designed (or attachments can be added) to specifically stimulate the clitoris or G-spot. I just don’t think a male sex doll with a vibrating penis would be practical for women.

Brits Use Sex Toys While Finns Have Group Sex

A new international sex survey found that over half of Brits use a sex toy, and Finns are most likely to have group sex.

Brits are ditching their prudish image and getting kinky in the bedroom, according to a new sex survey.

More than half of the UK population admits using a sex toy in the sack, while a quarter use a webcam.

Almost 20 per cent would even hook up with a stranger they met on the internet for casual sex. Read more

Carmen Electra's Coat Hanger Sex Fun

Carmen Electra says she enjoys experimenting with different sex toys.

Sexy Carmen Electra uses wire coat hangers to ramp up her sex life!

The actress/model refuses to go into details about how she uses her homemade sex aids, but admits she’s found a hot new use for hangers. Read more

7 Kinky Things She Loves But Won't Tell You

If you’ve sensed a recent lack of heat in the bedroom or if you just want to surprise her with a few sexy suggestions, kink might be the way to go. Try asking her if she’d like to spice things up a little.

Next time the two of you are lying in bed and you’re contemplating whether or not to fake a headache, try asking her if she might like “something different.” Here are seven kinky things your gal might be fantasizing about, but is probably too shy to tell you. Read more

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