About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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A Definitive Ranking of Every Way to Have Sex

There’s the Mile High Club, three-way sex, make-up sex, and any other kind of sex you can think up, and for each, there’s an advantage and a drawback.

Ah, sex. It’s right there at the base of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, alongside food and air. We think about it every seven seconds, and then we go to sleep and dream about it continuously. It is, as George Michael affirms, natural and fun. (Best when it’s one on one is open to debate, as I think even George would now concede.) As Esquire‘s leading sex expert (or, for short, “fuckpert”), I have been asked to analyze and rank all the different kinds of sex you might come across in your travels through life. Read and debate with a loved one, or someone who is less than 250 feet away from you on the hookup app of your choosing. Read more

10 Ways to Give a Man the Best Porn Star Experience in Bed

The way that women act in porn is designed to turn men on. If you want to give a man the porn star experience when you’re in bed together, Sydney Arbor reveals ten ways to do it.

1) Arch your back. In doggy, when you’re on your side and he’s in mish position, whenever possible. For some reason, men find women’s arched backs sexier. I think because it accentuates your curves. Also, in doggy, look back at him and let him see your face and how good he’s making you feel. Read moreRead more

10 Secrets to Make Sex Unforgettable

Adina Rivers reveals her ten personal secrets to make sex unforgettable.

5 Ways to Fix Bad Sex

Your relationship doesn’t have to suffer because of bad sex. Mikayla gives five ways to go from bad sex to better sex, and even great sex.

Ugh.  Nothing is quite as disappointing as bad sex!  You have all this anticipation looking forward to this romance-novel type experience where the orgasms flow like rivers and soft music plays in the background while you and your lover roll around pleasing each other only to have the reality fall very, very short!  This could be simply bad “first time sex” or it could be something more regular.  Whichever it is, bad sex sucks!  So, how do you go from BAD sex to better and even GREAT sex?  Here are 5 quick tips! Read more

Emily Morse’s 5 Sex Tips for Women

Sexpert Emily Morse reveals five se tips for women.

In the past 2 weeks, real-life superhero and sexologist Emily Morse has taught us how anyone can be a sexual superhero and she’s given us the best sex tips for men. This week, she shows us what women can do to be masters in the bedroom. Read more

Emily Morse’s 5 Sex Tips for Men

Sexpert Emily Morse reveals five sex tips for men.

Last week, sexologist Emily Morse revealed her tips on how anyone can become a sexual superhero. But when you’re dealing with sex, there are some tips that just don’t apply to both sexes. Up this week? Emily Morse’s Sex Tips for Men. Note: These are discussed in heterosexual terms, but can be applied to anybody. Read more

Learn 3 Sex Tips Most Men Will Never Know

In this video, the women from the podcast T and A Talk Sex share with their top three sex tips for men.

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