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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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5 Sex Positions That Get You Off When He Has a BIG Penis

Rebecca Janes Stokes five of the bes t sex positions to use when the man has a big penis

I may be writing a list of the best sex positions for coping with a big penis, but let’s be clear: Every sex position is the best sex position for having sex with a big penis if you take the proper steps first.

Just because a guy has a big penis that doesn’t mean he has no ability to communicate with words (I mean, sometimes it does, but let’s be kind here). The sex position you pick doesn’t mean diddly if you can’t communicate with your partner.

His big penis will be a big let down if you can’t tell him what works, what doesn’t work, and what is not possible because of physics.  Read more

11 Must-Try Positions for Super-Deep Sex

When you are in the mood for something a little more intense, try one of these eleven deep penetration positions.

In the emotional sense, staring into each other’s eyes and synchronizing your breath for deep, passionate sex can be pretty mind-blowing. But what if you’re looking to literally go deep? You know, as in explore spaces no peen has gone before? Well, that’s freaking hot too.

Here are the 11 most penetrating positions you can try when you’re in the mood for something a little more intense.  Read more

20 Women Reveal Their LEAST Favorite Sex Position

Find out if the sex positions you think she loves might be the ones she wishes you’d forget about.

We’re going to beat you to the chase: Yes, obviously some women will love the positions indicated below; these are just the opinions of 20 individuals.

Also, her favorite sex positions can very well change depending on the guy she’s with and, well, what he’s packing. There are some moves that work better for well-endowed guys since there’s a thin line between getting that feel-good deep penetration and inflicting pain just as there are moves that are perfect for shy guys and couples looking for a raunchy time in the sack. Read more

5 Sex Moves That Transition Seamlessly into New Positions

Changing sex positions without breaking the sexual tension is sometimes easier said than done, but not if you use these five sex moves.

Like having sex on the beach (hello, sand in your honeypot), switching positions is one of those ideas that often sounds way better in theory.

Finagling your bodies can totally interrupt your jam and make you feel self-conscious, says sex and relationship therapist Megan Fleming, Ph.D. Her suggestion? “Approach position transitions with an attitude of exploration—and then try, try again,” says Fleming. With practice, you’ll eventually be able to flow from one move to the next—just like the sex panther you are.

To make that process a little easier, we’re showing you sex moves that mesh together perfectly and explaining how to strategically adjust your bods from one move to the next. That way you can spend more time getting down and less time figuring out what to do with your hands. Read more

The Two Riskiest Sex Positions for Your Penis

A new study found that around half of penis fractures occur in one popular sex position, and over a quarter in another favorite.

One bedroom move could put your manhood in jeopardy: Brazilian research finds roughly half of sex-related penile fractures happen during woman-on-top sex. Read more

Women Most Likely to Reach Orgasm in This Position, Science Says

A woman’s ability to have an orgasm during intercourse is influenced by her individual anatomy. Scientists reviewed previous research and found that one sex position is the best way to hit all the right buttons.

Sure, sex is about getting close to your partner and sharing a special bond in a way only you two can. But, c’mon, we all know what we really want out of it: a nice, earth-shaking orgasm.

If you’ve been doing it on the regular and haven’t been able to O like you think you should, take heart: Scientists are on the case. In a new review of previous research published in the journal, Clinical Anatomy, researchers sought to learn why some people have more orgasms than others, and found that a lot of it has to do with your anatomy. Read more

9 Sex Positions That Help You Fall in Love

These nine sex positions help couples turn sexual intimacy into emotional intimacy.

There’s no question that certain sex positions facilitate higher levels of emotional intimacy. These positions allow a couple to go beyond their sensory experience, intensifying the intimacy of their encounters and imbuing them with emotional meaning.

Eye contact, kissing, caresses, trusting, and watching are all emotional complements to the physical experience, and these nine sex positions promote that beautiful, emotional connection that helps you fall in love like never before. Read more

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