About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Positions

The Most Popular Sex Positions in 9 Different Countries

Find out how  sex position preferences vary in different countries around the world

DrEd, a U.K.-based doctor-service site, asked 2,000 people in the U.S. and the U.K. about their favorite sex positions, and—for better or worse—it appears most of us aren’t terribly eager to reinvent the wheel. Doggy style was the most popular, favored by 35.1 percent of respondents, followed by missionary (22.5 percent) and cowgirl (19.4 percent). After those three, the numbers took a pretty big dip: “holding legs up” and “69” each got 4.3 percent of the vote, “spooning” sex got 4.1 percent, and 3.9 percent of people say they favor “reverse cowgirl.” Read more

The 7 Most Pleasurable Sex Positions

D.A. Barber says these are the seven most pleasurable sex positions. Have you tried them all?

If your sex life is loosing its excitement or you just want to spice things up and make her moan every night, then it’s time to start experimenting with the 7 most pleasurable sex positions. No, you don’t have to become a Kamasutra master or crawl into bed with a bunch of battery-operated toys. You’ll just need to be willing to sweat a bit (chicks like that!) while you lift, squat and bounce her panting body around. So consider this a “menu” of the 7 most pleasurable sex positions to feed your gratification and surprise the hell out of her. Read more

4 Sex Positions Women Like Better Than Missionary

A survey of 1,100 women revealed that women prefer four positions over missionary.

You want to please your partner. We want to help. (Well, not literally, but you get where this is going.)

That’s why we surveyed more than 1,100 women on which sex positions they wish you’d try more often. Read more

My Sex Positions Ebook Is Available!

missionary-positionEverybody says that changing sex positions is good, that knowing your different options will make your sex life exciting and so on, but why, how, and what advantages does it actually give a couple? One thing trying new sex positions is not about is sexual acrobatics, which few people are interested in  What many couples are interested in, though, is making sex more fun and pleasurable. Continue reading

10 Best Sex Positions for Well-Endowed Men

If you’re bigger than average, these ten sex positions will work the best, according to Vanessa Marin. (Or if you’re not, maybe you should avoid these.)

Lucky you, you’re Googling sex positions for well-endowed men! But as you probably know by now, a big penis isn’t always a blessing. At times, it can feel like you have to choose between that deep penetration you crave and not causing her pain. Plus, there are some positions that simply aren’t possible if you’re too well-endowed. But there are still plenty of ways to ensure that both of you have an amazing time. Here are 10 positions for big guys. Read more

5 Sex Positions That Get You Off When He Has a BIG Penis

Rebecca Janes Stokes five of the bes t sex positions to use when the man has a big penis

I may be writing a list of the best sex positions for coping with a big penis, but let’s be clear: Every sex position is the best sex position for having sex with a big penis if you take the proper steps first.

Just because a guy has a big penis that doesn’t mean he has no ability to communicate with words (I mean, sometimes it does, but let’s be kind here). The sex position you pick doesn’t mean diddly if you can’t communicate with your partner.

His big penis will be a big let down if you can’t tell him what works, what doesn’t work, and what is not possible because of physics.  Read more

11 Must-Try Positions for Super-Deep Sex

When you are in the mood for something a little more intense, try one of these eleven deep penetration positions.

In the emotional sense, staring into each other’s eyes and synchronizing your breath for deep, passionate sex can be pretty mind-blowing. But what if you’re looking to literally go deep? You know, as in explore spaces no peen has gone before? Well, that’s freaking hot too.

Here are the 11 most penetrating positions you can try when you’re in the mood for something a little more intense.  Read more

Recent Comments

  • Flinkd: Bigger penis is stretching the walls of the vagina better. (nerve endings feel more pressure, therefore...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....