About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Positions

4 Sex Positions Women Like Better Than Missionary

A survey of 1,100 women revealed that women prefer four positions over missionary.

You want to please your partner. We want to help. (Well, not literally, but you get where this is going.)

That’s why we surveyed more than 1,100 women on which sex positions they wish you’d try more often. Read more

My Sex Positions Ebook Is Available!

missionary-positionEverybody says that changing sex positions is good, that knowing your different options will make your sex life exciting and so on, but why, how, and what advantages does it actually give a couple? One thing trying new sex positions is not about is sexual acrobatics, which few people are interested in  What many couples are interested in, though, is making sex more fun and pleasurable. Continue reading

10 Best Sex Positions for Well-Endowed Men

If you’re bigger than average, these ten sex positions will work the best, according to Vanessa Marin. (Or if you’re not, maybe you should avoid these.)

Lucky you, you’re Googling sex positions for well-endowed men! But as you probably know by now, a big penis isn’t always a blessing. At times, it can feel like you have to choose between that deep penetration you crave and not causing her pain. Plus, there are some positions that simply aren’t possible if you’re too well-endowed. But there are still plenty of ways to ensure that both of you have an amazing time. Here are 10 positions for big guys. Read more

5 Sex Positions That Get You Off When He Has a BIG Penis

Rebecca Janes Stokes five of the bes t sex positions to use when the man has a big penis

I may be writing a list of the best sex positions for coping with a big penis, but let’s be clear: Every sex position is the best sex position for having sex with a big penis if you take the proper steps first.

Just because a guy has a big penis that doesn’t mean he has no ability to communicate with words (I mean, sometimes it does, but let’s be kind here). The sex position you pick doesn’t mean diddly if you can’t communicate with your partner.

His big penis will be a big let down if you can’t tell him what works, what doesn’t work, and what is not possible because of physics.  Read more

11 Must-Try Positions for Super-Deep Sex

When you are in the mood for something a little more intense, try one of these eleven deep penetration positions.

In the emotional sense, staring into each other’s eyes and synchronizing your breath for deep, passionate sex can be pretty mind-blowing. But what if you’re looking to literally go deep? You know, as in explore spaces no peen has gone before? Well, that’s freaking hot too.

Here are the 11 most penetrating positions you can try when you’re in the mood for something a little more intense.  Read more

20 Women Reveal Their LEAST Favorite Sex Position

Find out if the sex positions you think she loves might be the ones she wishes you’d forget about.

We’re going to beat you to the chase: Yes, obviously some women will love the positions indicated below; these are just the opinions of 20 individuals.

Also, her favorite sex positions can very well change depending on the guy she’s with and, well, what he’s packing. There are some moves that work better for well-endowed guys since there’s a thin line between getting that feel-good deep penetration and inflicting pain just as there are moves that are perfect for shy guys and couples looking for a raunchy time in the sack. Read more

5 Sex Moves That Transition Seamlessly into New Positions

Changing sex positions without breaking the sexual tension is sometimes easier said than done, but not if you use these five sex moves.

Like having sex on the beach (hello, sand in your honeypot), switching positions is one of those ideas that often sounds way better in theory.

Finagling your bodies can totally interrupt your jam and make you feel self-conscious, says sex and relationship therapist Megan Fleming, Ph.D. Her suggestion? “Approach position transitions with an attitude of exploration—and then try, try again,” says Fleming. With practice, you’ll eventually be able to flow from one move to the next—just like the sex panther you are.

To make that process a little easier, we’re showing you sex moves that mesh together perfectly and explaining how to strategically adjust your bods from one move to the next. That way you can spend more time getting down and less time figuring out what to do with your hands. Read more

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.
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