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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Positions

The 5 Sex Positions That Could Banish Your Stress for Good

To relieve stress, skip your workout and give these sex positions a try.

It2’s 017 and, friends, times are stressful. While stress is a natural occurrence in our daily lives, too much of it can wreak havoc, making us tense, exhausted, and, um, orgasm-less.

“Women are often guilty of saying, ‘I’m fine, everything’s fine!’ but left wondering why they can’t climax,” says sexologist Megan Stubbs, Yep, you read that right—stress will create a huge mental block between you and your grand finale. Read more

The 8 Must-Try Sex Positions, According to Real Women

Real women reveal their favorite sex positions and what makes them so hot.

If the phrase “familiarity breeds contempt” rings true, going through all the same motions in the bedroom, time and time again, doesn’t exactly help in the love department. Relationship experts recommend keeping things spontaneous (whether that means trying a different time, place, or generally being more adventurous in bed) to avoid falling into a cycle of boring “duty” sex, but also to foster healthy habits in a long-term relationship.

Below, we asked eight real women for their favorite sex moves, then consulted sex experts for their tips on how to upgrade your own go-to moves so they feel new and exciting. In short, it doesn’t take a Kama Sutra master to have better sex, it’s really about breaking from habit, exploring the unknown, and enhancing what already works. Read more

Adventurous Sex Positions That Are Actually Super-Easy to Pull Off

Spicing up your se x life is easy with these adventurous sex positions that are actually do-able.

Everywhere you look, there’s some new sex position being touted as a “must-try” move.

The problem is, the majority of those amazing, yoga-esque, Cirque Du Soleil sex positions are basically impossible to do unless you’re a gold-medal gymnast or an actual pole professional. It’s easy to fall into a routine when the alternative is a potentially mortifying trip to the ER. Read more

Steamy Sex Positions to Try Tonight

If your sex life has gotten into a bit of a sexual rut lately, getting out may be as simple as trying one of these steamy sex positions tonight.

When did you last try a new sex position? Whether or not you’re in a relationship, it’s all too easy to fall back on a handful of tried-and-tested moves and forget the delicious variety available to you and your partner.

That’s where Clare Cavanah and Rachel Venning come in. They’re not only the founders of sex toy boutique and educational hub Babeland, they’re the authors of Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex. With insight into everything from BDSM to birth control, Moregasm is an expert (yet relatable) roadmap to your best-ever sex life. Read more

10 Sex Tips for When You’re Feeling Tired and Lazy

Brittany Smith gives ten sex tips for when you’re feeling tired and lazy.

Sweaty, electrifying sex in crazy, off-the-wall places is fantastic. But let’s be real: There are times when you’re just not in the mood to put the effort into raunchy sex positions or test your strength during shower or standing against-the-wall sex. Read more

6 Sex Positions to Try When You Just HAVE to Spice Up Your Routine

When you just have to spice up your sex life, try these six creative sex positions.

If you automatically roll your eyes when you see yet another headline with the words sex positions, rest assured that there are still at least a few you definitely haven’t heard of—and that won’t make you feel like you have to be part human, part pretzel to pull them off. If you wanted to, you could truly try a new, totally doable position every day without running out of options.

So if you’re itching for some new and creative sex positions but you feel like you’ve already tried everything in the book, here are some moves even the most voracious readers of sex tips probably haven’t heard of: Read more

7 Sex Positions That Involve Minimal Eye Contact

Whether it’s a one-night stands or hooking up with an ex, here are seven sex positions that involved minimal eye contact.

There are about as many different sex positions as there are flavors of ice cream. Sometimes you’re all about the ones that make you feel closer together as a couple. Other times—like when you’ve brought home the bartender you keep flirting with, or you ran into your emotionally stunted ex who has a magical vagina—they feel too intimate. There’s nothing wrong with doing lovey-dovey sex positions, but depending on the situation, that might be the last thing you want. In those moments, try these. Read more

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
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