About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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8 Sex Hacks for When You and Your Partner Are Way Different Sizes

If you and your partner are way different sizes, Hayley McMillen gives eight different sex hacks you can try.

If you and your boo are significantly different sizes, sex may present some logistical challenges — whether you’re attempting to align the body of a basketball player with that of a jockey or a linebacker’s figure with a ballerina’s. Fortunately, there are ways to deal short of finding another partner. Read on for size-difference tips, with insight from sex therapist Vanessa Marin, who happens to be five feet tall with a six-foot spouse, and sex educator Kelly Shibari, Penthouse’s first self-described plus-size model and collaborator on the instructional film Read more

Why You Should Never Chew Gum Before Sex and 5 Other Libido Torpedoes to Avoid

It turns out that chewing gum not only turns off the person watching you do it, but ruins your own libido as well. Science reveals why you should never chew gum before sex and five other libido torpedoes.

Think it’s a good idea to freshen up your breath with some gum before getting it on? Think twice. Science says that chewing gum prior to sex will affect your bedroom life in a negative way. Read more

How to Tell if a Man Is Good in Bed BEFORE You Get Between the Sheets

Here’s how to tell if a man is good in bed before you take off your clothes and get between the sheets with him.

You can’t tell how good in bed a man is by just his appearance. That would be ridiculous, right? Actually, wrong.

That shy gentleman who took you out to dinner the other night may actually be an animal in the sack. On the other hand, that boisterous dude who took you to a crazy rock concert may be a dud. While there is no way to truly tell until you both hit the sheets, there are a few signals.

Daily Mail writer Tracey Cox lists 13 ways to tell what he may be like in the bedroom.

He’s good in bed if… Read more

9 Sex Tips That Anyone With a Vagina Should Try

Casey Gueren says that anyone with a vagina should give these nine sex tips a try.

You may have heard that vaginas are confusing, mysterious genitals that require a lot of troubleshooting and magic to elicit an orgasm.

OK, that can definitely be true, but that doesn’t mean that finding out what feels good should be a complete crapshoot either. There just hasn’t been a ton of science on what increases the odds of having a vaginal or clitoral orgasm, which is a damn shame. Read more

A Definitive Ranking of Every Way to Have Sex

There’s the Mile High Club, three-way sex, make-up sex, and any other kind of sex you can think up, and for each, there’s an advantage and a drawback.

Ah, sex. It’s right there at the base of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, alongside food and air. We think about it every seven seconds, and then we go to sleep and dream about it continuously. It is, as George Michael affirms, natural and fun. (Best when it’s one on one is open to debate, as I think even George would now concede.) As Esquire‘s leading sex expert (or, for short, “fuckpert”), I have been asked to analyze and rank all the different kinds of sex you might come across in your travels through life. Read and debate with a loved one, or someone who is less than 250 feet away from you on the hookup app of your choosing. Read more

10 Ways to Give a Man the Best Porn Star Experience in Bed

The way that women act in porn is designed to turn men on. If you want to give a man the porn star experience when you’re in bed together, Sydney Arbor reveals ten ways to do it.

1) Arch your back. In doggy, when you’re on your side and he’s in mish position, whenever possible. For some reason, men find women’s arched backs sexier. I think because it accentuates your curves. Also, in doggy, look back at him and let him see your face and how good he’s making you feel. Read moreRead more

10 Secrets to Make Sex Unforgettable

Adina Rivers reveals her ten personal secrets to make sex unforgettable.

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