About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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6 Underrated Sex Moves Women Should Try

These six underrated sex moves are ones that women should try, but usually don’t.

Nibble His Ear

The ears are an often-overlooked erogenous zone. Just a light nibble on this sensitive part can send shivers down a man’s spine. Start by whispering something sexy or lightly licking the edge of your guy’s ear. If he responds well, gently nibble on the outer edge or lobe a few times during your next make-out session to really get him in the mood for more. Read more

12 Days of Sexmas: Advanced Sex Tips From Women

These twelve days of Sexmas advanced sex tips from Nichi Hodgson will make your Christmas even merrier.

Christmas means a lot of things. It means you’ll probably get to see someone from the office throw up in the toilets before/during/after the office party, your uncle will definitely tell you something you don’t want to know about your mum and you will certainly be the recipient of an ill-advised Secret Santa gift that you’ve got to pretend is “just brilliant”. What it doesn’t have to mean? Average sex.  Read more

7 Ways to Be Good in Bed

Sexpert Tracey Cox says there are seven things you must master to be good in bed.

A great body? Being able to tie a cherry stalk into a knot with your tongue? Knowing every position in the Kama Sutra?

What ARE the qualities that separate an average lover from a brilliant one?

I’d say if you can tick all these boxes, you can award yourself a big gold star! Read more

What Is the Right Time to Orgasm?

Women reveal when they want their partners to orgasm.

Orgasming is the obvious end goal to pretty much every sex act. But when it comes to how long it takes you to get there, what’s the ideal amount of time to last before giving yourself over to the big “O”?

Of course, the answer is going to vary from person to person. But if you’re taking too long or climaxing too early, it’s likely that your partner is going to try out a few tactics to either speed things up — or keep you from coming Read more

7 Sneaky Ways to Show a Man What You Like in Bed

Some women are afraid that their sex partners will be offended or think they’re sluts if they tell them what they want in bed, so Isis Nezbeth  reveals some alternative ways to make your point.

The only thing worse than not having sex is having bad sex, but how do you let him know he’s not getting you there? Should you even tell him? The answer is yes. Sometimes you gotta let him know what’s up! You don’t have to argue about the sex, you can simply show him what you really want. Here are seven sneaky ways to show him what you really want in bed. Let’s get into it! Read more

10 Things Men Wish Women Knew About Sex

Find out ten things men wish women knew about male sexuality.

Freud called female sexuality “the dark continent”; if that’s true, male sexuality could qualify as the dark planet. But when it comes to sex, guys are simple, right? Not true. The bedroom is one of the great stages of male performance, and as such, what you see and hear is typically the role, not the reality. It’s no wonder, in trying to please the actor, a woman loses sight of a guy’s true identity. Here are 10 “unmasking” facts you may want to know: Read more

4 Bad Boy Sex Tricks Nice Guys Can Use

Sexpert Gabrielle Moore reveals four bad boy sex tricks that nice guys can use to become the kind of lover women talk about to their friends.

Bad boys are legendary – a woman who’s been with one practically passes out from bliss when she talks about her experience. You might be thinking, “Who, me? Be bad boy?” But any man who wants to can wake up his hibernating alpha male… and have a good time doing it. See, bed-devil status is about a fearless attitude, not how much sexual experience you have or whether you wear leather. Women dig when guys are unbridled and uninhibited, push their own boundaries, break the rules, and ask for what they want. While you’re probably eager to meet the bad boy inside, you may not be exactly sure where to start. If you think you can handle the heat, try one of these no-holds-barred ways to get very dirty. Read more

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