About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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What Is the Right Time to Orgasm?

Women reveal when they want their partners to orgasm.

Orgasming is the obvious end goal to pretty much every sex act. But when it comes to how long it takes you to get there, what’s the ideal amount of time to last before giving yourself over to the big “O”?

Of course, the answer is going to vary from person to person. But if you’re taking too long or climaxing too early, it’s likely that your partner is going to try out a few tactics to either speed things up — or keep you from coming Read more

7 Sneaky Ways to Show a Man What You Like in Bed

Some women are afraid that their sex partners will be offended or think they’re sluts if they tell them what they want in bed, so Isis Nezbeth  reveals some alternative ways to make your point.

The only thing worse than not having sex is having bad sex, but how do you let him know he’s not getting you there? Should you even tell him? The answer is yes. Sometimes you gotta let him know what’s up! You don’t have to argue about the sex, you can simply show him what you really want. Here are seven sneaky ways to show him what you really want in bed. Let’s get into it! Read more

10 Things Men Wish Women Knew About Sex

Find out ten things men wish women knew about male sexuality.

Freud called female sexuality “the dark continent”; if that’s true, male sexuality could qualify as the dark planet. But when it comes to sex, guys are simple, right? Not true. The bedroom is one of the great stages of male performance, and as such, what you see and hear is typically the role, not the reality. It’s no wonder, in trying to please the actor, a woman loses sight of a guy’s true identity. Here are 10 “unmasking” facts you may want to know: Read more

4 Bad Boy Sex Tricks Nice Guys Can Use

Sexpert Gabrielle Moore reveals four bad boy sex tricks that nice guys can use to become the kind of lover women talk about to their friends.

Bad boys are legendary – a woman who’s been with one practically passes out from bliss when she talks about her experience. You might be thinking, “Who, me? Be bad boy?” But any man who wants to can wake up his hibernating alpha male… and have a good time doing it. See, bed-devil status is about a fearless attitude, not how much sexual experience you have or whether you wear leather. Women dig when guys are unbridled and uninhibited, push their own boundaries, break the rules, and ask for what they want. While you’re probably eager to meet the bad boy inside, you may not be exactly sure where to start. If you think you can handle the heat, try one of these no-holds-barred ways to get very dirty. Read more

5 (Totally Fixable) Mistakes Men Should STOP Making in Bed

If you’re unsatisfied with your sex life, see if you might be making these mistakes.

By now you may have perfected the missionary position and learned how to unhook a bra with one hand. But there’s still plenty you could be doing to get women more interested in having sex with you.

“If you’re being offered a template on how to titillate and stimulate your woman, take it!” says sex educator Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright. “She’s not suggesting that you’re bad in bed; she’s just letting you know what her preferences are.”

Women like having sex. A lot of them love it, and a few even think about it all the time. But their shortcoming is that they often want men to be mind readers. Many women aren’t confident enough to ask for what they want in bed, so instead, they accept a so-so sex life. Read more

7 Ways to Make Sex About SO Much More Than Straight Intercourse

Aly Walansky reveals seven ways to make sex about so much more than straight intercourse.

Intercourse-only sex is often not very good sex, and the way our culture has tended to define real sex as only intercourse doesn’t help matters.

“The things that can make sex most satisfying and arousing are often slighted as ‘foreplay,’ and we don’t actually teach enough about why these things are crucial to enjoyment for many women. Those activities might seem like kid stuff, but they are some of the most sophisticated sexual activities you can do — and they can be highly, highly pleasurable,” says Carol Queen, sexologist for Good Vibrations. Read more

The Secret Sexual Power of Her Belly Button

A womans belly button can be a highly erogenous zone. Find out four ways to pleasure it.

“When he sees me in heat he quickly comes to me, then he opens my thighs and kisses my belly.” 

The belly button has always stirred the imagination of lovers.

It is believed that men are instinctively attracted to body orifices and although the belly button is not exactly an orifice, it is still a great object of desire.

Located within teasing distance of the genitals, a woman’s belly button is a potent sexual trigger.Read more

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