About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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11 Signs a Man Is Very Experienced in the Bedroom

Krista McHarden reveals how to tell if a man is very experienced in the bedroom.

Reddit shared how to tell if the man you’re with is experienced in the ~sexual arts~, and it all checks out. Here’s how to tell if the dude you’re boning (or about to bone down with) knows how to please a lady. (Lady = you. Duh.) Read more

5 Sex Moves to Try When Thrusting Isn’t Getting Her Off

When your thrusting isn’t getting your partner off, sexpert Pam Babbitt suggests these five sexy moves.

I’m betting that your current sexual paradigm is a far cry from where you started … does get hard, get in, get off sound familiar? But have you considered your thrusting?

In sex , more thrusting does not necessarily mean more pleasure. With stillness, a man’s penis will begin to direct him how to make love, when to move, when to be still. For both partners, motionlessness has the psychological effect of quieting the mind, and it can also be used to moderate your arousal. Read more

15 Things All Women Who Are Good in Bed Do

Do men really want “a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets?” Sexpert Tracey Cox says yes.

What do men want from women in the bedroom?

We’ve all heard the one about ‘a lady in the street and a whore in the bedroom’, but how much truth is there in the saying?

After years of researching and writing about sex, I’d say quite a bit – in the second half at least. Read more

Ex-Dominatrix Reveals Sex and Relationship Tips

If there is anyone who knows everything there is to know about the sexual desires and needs of both men and women, it’s former dominatrix Nichi Hodgson.

n part one of this series with Nichi, the journalist, Ooh by Je Joue brand ambassador and former dominatrix has top tips for keeping the passion in any relationship – be it two months or 62 years down the line.  Read more

8 Sex Hacks for When You and Your Partner Are Way Different Sizes

If you and your partner are way different sizes, Hayley McMillen gives eight different sex hacks you can try.

If you and your boo are significantly different sizes, sex may present some logistical challenges — whether you’re attempting to align the body of a basketball player with that of a jockey or a linebacker’s figure with a ballerina’s. Fortunately, there are ways to deal short of finding another partner. Read on for size-difference tips, with insight from sex therapist Vanessa Marin, who happens to be five feet tall with a six-foot spouse, and sex educator Kelly Shibari, Penthouse’s first self-described plus-size model and collaborator on the instructional film Read more

Why You Should Never Chew Gum Before Sex and 5 Other Libido Torpedoes to Avoid

It turns out that chewing gum not only turns off the person watching you do it, but ruins your own libido as well. Science reveals why you should never chew gum before sex and five other libido torpedoes.

Think it’s a good idea to freshen up your breath with some gum before getting it on? Think twice. Science says that chewing gum prior to sex will affect your bedroom life in a negative way. Read more

How to Tell if a Man Is Good in Bed BEFORE You Get Between the Sheets

Here’s how to tell if a man is good in bed before you take off your clothes and get between the sheets with him.

You can’t tell how good in bed a man is by just his appearance. That would be ridiculous, right? Actually, wrong.

That shy gentleman who took you out to dinner the other night may actually be an animal in the sack. On the other hand, that boisterous dude who took you to a crazy rock concert may be a dud. While there is no way to truly tell until you both hit the sheets, there are a few signals.

Daily Mail writer Tracey Cox lists 13 ways to tell what he may be like in the bedroom.

He’s good in bed if… Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.