About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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What to Do if You’ve Run Out of Ideas for What to Do in Bed

The longer you’ve been together, the more likely this is to happen: what do you do when you’ve run out of ideas for what to do in bed? Sexpert Tracey Cox has some thoughts.

Lots of couples think the ‘new’ thing has to be something crazy kinky to work. It doesn’t.

The trick is to try one or two small things and build from there.

Here’s some ideas to get you started: Read more

5 Tips for Men to Give Her the Best Sex She’s Ever Had (From a Woman’s Perspective)

A woman gives men five tips for giving their partner the best sex she’s ever had.

Listen up guys: most lesbians love men. Sure, we might not fall in love with men, but we tend to love guys as friends and peers.

Some of us gay gals love playing sports with guys. Some queer women love geeking out on video games and technology with our nerdy brothers. Just like the affinity between straight women and gay men, there can be a lot of camaraderie between lesbians and straight men. We have so much in common, after all, including a passionate love for women and the desire to sexually satisfy our female lovers. Read more

11 Signs a Man Is Very Experienced in the Bedroom

Krista McHarden reveals how to tell if a man is very experienced in the bedroom.

Reddit shared how to tell if the man you’re with is experienced in the ~sexual arts~, and it all checks out. Here’s how to tell if the dude you’re boning (or about to bone down with) knows how to please a lady. (Lady = you. Duh.) Read more

5 Sex Moves to Try When Thrusting Isn’t Getting Her Off

When your thrusting isn’t getting your partner off, sexpert Pam Babbitt suggests these five sexy moves.

I’m betting that your current sexual paradigm is a far cry from where you started … does get hard, get in, get off sound familiar? But have you considered your thrusting?

In sex , more thrusting does not necessarily mean more pleasure. With stillness, a man’s penis will begin to direct him how to make love, when to move, when to be still. For both partners, motionlessness has the psychological effect of quieting the mind, and it can also be used to moderate your arousal. Read more

15 Things All Women Who Are Good in Bed Do

Do men really want “a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets?” Sexpert Tracey Cox says yes.

What do men want from women in the bedroom?

We’ve all heard the one about ‘a lady in the street and a whore in the bedroom’, but how much truth is there in the saying?

After years of researching and writing about sex, I’d say quite a bit – in the second half at least. Read more

Ex-Dominatrix Reveals Sex and Relationship Tips

If there is anyone who knows everything there is to know about the sexual desires and needs of both men and women, it’s former dominatrix Nichi Hodgson.

n part one of this series with Nichi, the journalist, Ooh by Je Joue brand ambassador and former dominatrix has top tips for keeping the passion in any relationship – be it two months or 62 years down the line.  Read more

8 Sex Hacks for When You and Your Partner Are Way Different Sizes

If you and your partner are way different sizes, Hayley McMillen gives eight different sex hacks you can try.

If you and your boo are significantly different sizes, sex may present some logistical challenges — whether you’re attempting to align the body of a basketball player with that of a jockey or a linebacker’s figure with a ballerina’s. Fortunately, there are ways to deal short of finding another partner. Read on for size-difference tips, with insight from sex therapist Vanessa Marin, who happens to be five feet tall with a six-foot spouse, and sex educator Kelly Shibari, Penthouse’s first self-described plus-size model and collaborator on the instructional film Read more

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