About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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10 Things That Turn Men on in the Bedroom

Mark Rosenfeld reveals the top ten thing turn men on in the bedroom.

5 Things Women Can Do to Be Better in Bed

Nikolao Montaya, shares five things women can do to be better in bed.

Men are often given advice about how to perform sexually, while women are left to themselves to figure it out on their own. The only information they are ever given come from women’s magazines and talk shows that don’t care about telling them the truth. They would rather repeat the same old things that make everyone nod instead of educating girls and make them better in bed. So for those women who want their men to stick around, here’s how you do it. Read more

5 Good Girl Turned Bad Girl Sex Tricks

Discover the hidden vixen waiting to come out and play with these five sex tricks every bad girl uses!

Have you ever secretly wished you were a bad girl in disguise? Most guy’s secret fantasy is knowing that while their woman is respectable, they can also get down and dirty in the bedroom. Not sure how to release the vixen within? It’s not as difficult as you may think! You don’t need tons of sexual experience, leather get-ups (although they don’t hurt!) or a demanding attitude. What you do need is a willingness to explore being more confident in your sexual life. To help you out, we’ve compiled the best Bad Girl Tricks that will turn you into a bedroom vixen almost overnight. Your partner won’t know what hit him, but he sure won’t be complaining! Read more

What to Do if You’ve Run Out of Ideas for What to Do in Bed

The longer you’ve been together, the more likely this is to happen: what do you do when you’ve run out of ideas for what to do in bed? Sexpert Tracey Cox has some thoughts.

Lots of couples think the ‘new’ thing has to be something crazy kinky to work. It doesn’t.

The trick is to try one or two small things and build from there.

Here’s some ideas to get you started: Read more

5 Tips for Men to Give Her the Best Sex She’s Ever Had (From a Woman’s Perspective)

A woman gives men five tips for giving their partner the best sex she’s ever had.

Listen up guys: most lesbians love men. Sure, we might not fall in love with men, but we tend to love guys as friends and peers.

Some of us gay gals love playing sports with guys. Some queer women love geeking out on video games and technology with our nerdy brothers. Just like the affinity between straight women and gay men, there can be a lot of camaraderie between lesbians and straight men. We have so much in common, after all, including a passionate love for women and the desire to sexually satisfy our female lovers. Read more

11 Signs a Man Is Very Experienced in the Bedroom

Krista McHarden reveals how to tell if a man is very experienced in the bedroom.

Reddit shared how to tell if the man you’re with is experienced in the ~sexual arts~, and it all checks out. Here’s how to tell if the dude you’re boning (or about to bone down with) knows how to please a lady. (Lady = you. Duh.) Read more

5 Sex Moves to Try When Thrusting Isn’t Getting Her Off

When your thrusting isn’t getting your partner off, sexpert Pam Babbitt suggests these five sexy moves.

I’m betting that your current sexual paradigm is a far cry from where you started … does get hard, get in, get off sound familiar? But have you considered your thrusting?

In sex , more thrusting does not necessarily mean more pleasure. With stillness, a man’s penis will begin to direct him how to make love, when to move, when to be still. For both partners, motionlessness has the psychological effect of quieting the mind, and it can also be used to moderate your arousal. Read more

Recent Comments

  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.
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