About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Seduction

6 Ways to Be the Kind of Man Women Want to Sleep With

Tom Miller says following these six dos and don’ts will make a man the kind of man women want to sleep with.

I’m not interested in financing the kind of person whose lifestyle actively promotes “peacocking.”

There’s a good chance that you’re reading this because you need a little help getting laid or you want to become really mad, and anything herein will be akin to gasoline on a hibachi. Getting laid isn’t especially hard. I’ve had intercourse with around a dozen women and if we’re including outercourse, the number probably goes up to a baker’s dozen. But it does take some amount of effort.

People have one-night stands all the time. Why not you? Here’s some advice on how to make it happen. Read more

10 Compliments That Will Get You Laid

Have you been striking out with, “Hey, baby, you so hot?” Then try one of these ten compliments instead. Even if they don’t get you laid, they will improve the relationship because they are the type of compliments that people really appreciate.

It’s been a really interesting week. I’ve spent time with some of the most amazing men and women,  and I’ve also had some of the most bizarre encounters with men and women. In both the best and worst social situations, I have started to realize the power of a fucking awesome compliment. The one thing I’ve learned is that when people are willing to open themselves up and give honest compliments with absolutely no expectation of getting anything in return, they often get exactly what they wanted.

What a concept, I know.

So as fall settles in and we start the hunt for someone to keep us warm on those long wintery Maine nights, consider using a great compliment at the end of an interesting conversation instead of a pick-up line. Or, if you are in a relationship that needs a little reboot, slide one of these compliments into conversation and reignite some Hugh-Grant-style passion. Even better, use this with a friend or a friend-of-a-friend and see how a great friendship can morph into something more. Read more

How to Find Someone to Have a Threesome With

A reeader asks porn star James Deen how she and her boyfriend can find someone to have a threesome with.

Do you have any advice on initiating a threesome? My boyfriend and I are interested in adding a third into the mix but we’re not really sure how to make it happen, other than posting on a dating site or a skeevy-sounding Craigslist ad. Help! Read more

The Best Way to Approach a Woman in a Bar

Ali Fedotowsky, the Men’s Health Girl Next Door, reveals the best way to approach a woman in a bar.

In theory, the bar is a fertile ground to find babes. On any given Friday night, you’ll spot a beautiful woman blowing off steam after a tough work week, or catching up with friends over a couple of strong cocktails. Read more

15 Sexy Questions That Will ll Get Any Woman “in the Mood”

Donna Begg gives men fifteen sexy question that will get her mind off her stressful day and “in the mood.”

Men can all agree that there is something incredibly sexy about making a girl feel aroused … simply by talking to her. Thanks to technical advances, guys can now dirty talk via text to get their girl in the mood.

Whether you are whispering face-to-face with her or sending her steamy digital messages, here are 15 suggestive questions sure to get her in a sexy mindset.

Disclaimer: While some guys might use these questions to flirt with a girl, that’s not always advisable. Women often feel offended (that’s a little too much, too soon, buddy!) instead of becoming aroused. It’s always best to save these arousing questions for the woman already solidly in your life. Read more

7 Signs a Woman Is Ready to Sleep with You

Some men try to get a woman to sleep with them before she’s ready and blow any chance they had. On the other hand, some men wait too long and blow their chances too.  Lindsay Tiger reveals seven signs that a woman is ready to sleep with you so that you can make your move at the right time.

You’ve been seeing each other a few times a week and you’re wildly attracted to her. She keeps giving you what you think are signals that she’s ready to seal the deal and go past third base, but are you sure she’s really ready? Before you make an assumption and push away what could be the greatest sex of your life, check out these signs — straight from experts and real women — that give you a clue into what she’s really thinking, and if she really wants you (now): Read more

How to Escalate Sex and Talk Dirty to Women

Marni reveals how men can escalate sex and talk dirty to women.

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