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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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7 Ways Men Talk themselves OUT of Getting Laid

 

You can talk yourself into a woman’s bed – or you can talk yourself out of it. Here are seven ways men talks themselves out of getting laid.

Picture, for a moment, the perfect evening: Everything is going fantastic and the mood is just right. Whether you’re out on the town for dinner and drinks, or enjoying a relaxing evening at home watching a movie, you know what you want and you know you’re about to get it.

That is, until he opens his mouth and ruins everything.

There are many ways a man can manage to talk his way out of getting laid. From unreasonable sexual demands to killing the mood with talk of politics or religion, if there’s a way to put out flames of lust and passion, some guys are destined to find themselves going from the Love Shack to the Doghouse.

We talked to a number of women who were willing to share exactly what it is that men have done that set off red flags. Here’s seven that stood out from the pack: Read more

New Study Proves That "Beer Goggles" Are Real

“Beer goggles” are real, say scientists. People really do look better when you drink, and it’s not just the opposite sex that looks more attractive.

For the first time, scientists have proven that “beer goggles” are real – other people really do look more attractive to us if we have been drinking.

Surprisingly, the beer goggles effect was not limited to just the opposite sex among the ostensibly straight volunteers recruited for the study – they also rated people from their own sex as more attractive. Read more

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