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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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How to Initiate Morning Sex

According to a research from Queen’s University in Belfast, a good morning session at least three times a week, decreases the risk of heart attack or stroke by half and a regular session improves circulation, thereby reducing blood pressure. Unlike late night sex – which is not only expected but rather ordinary – getting it on in the morning is exciting and exhilarating.  Morning sex could mean the difference between a good day and a great day.

However, your wife or girlfriend,  who typically does not peak sexually in the morning hours like you do, may not feel very sexy when she first wakes up. Sarah Stefanson gives some tips on how to get her in the mood.

One of the many differences between the sexuality of men and women is that men tend to enjoy morning sex, while women mostly prefer to keep bedroom activity reserved for nighttime. This probably has a lot to do with what is referred to as nocturnal penile tumescence (NPT), which causes a man without erectile dysfunction to have three to five erections as he sleeps. NPT is more commonly referred to as “morning wood” or “morning glory.” Whatever you call it, waking up with an erection is as good a reason as any to initiate a little early action. Unfortunately, your girl may not be in the mood the minute she opens her eyes, but if you approach it properly she will very quickly be just as into morning sex as you are.

Prepare the night before

In order to avoid having to get out of bed in the morning before initiating your early lovin’ you should do some preparation the night before. Read more

Tricks to Arouse Any Woman's Passion, Anytime, Anywhere

Is it best to avoid turning a woman off, or to work on turning her on? Not surprisingly, doing both is best. Lauren Murrow at Men’s Health tells how to turn a woman on and avoid turning her off.

You may think that as long as you don’t do anything to turn her off, you’ll be fine.Or maybe you take the approach of doing everything possible to try to turn her on.

Turns out your best strategy is to do both. New research on female arousal says avoiding her turnoffs is just as important as hitting her hot spots.

It sounds like a lot of work, but the payoff is worth it. Read up on how to play both sides. Then reap the rewards. Read more

Intelligence Boosts Likelihood of One-Night Stands

Though most women will probably say, “Duh!” to the results of this study, it’s another clue for men that displaying their wit and intelligence is more likely to get them laid than telling women that they’re “hung like a horse.”

According to a new study, women prefer brainy, creative men to jock types when looking for long-term relationships and one-night stands.

Unlike previous research on the topic, the study didn’t simply ask women to rate qualities they found attractive in the opposite sex. Instead, the University of California at Davis’s Psychology Department had 204 female university students watch videos of men performing various tasks of mental and physical dexterity, before having them rate each man on long- and short-term desirability. Read more

Say This, Have Sex Tonight

Men’s Health gives men six phrases to get their wives or girlfriends in the mood. The first one is my favorite.

These simple linguistic cues tell her you’re the right man for this evening.

1. “I screwed up, and want to hear your thoughts.”
Whether you blabbed a good friend’s secret or ran over the neighbor’s limited-edition bike, admit it. Confessing an error in judgment leaves you exposed and vulnerable, which makes a woman want to wrap you in her arms. Read more

9 Tricks to Attract More Women

Find out what makes a woman want to hop into bed with you. Men’s Health gives men nine tricks to confidently pick up any woman. Here’s my favorite tip:

Be Direct

If you’d like to go into her apartment, tell her at the doorand skip the excuse about needing to use her bathroom. Want to kiss her goodnight? Go for it. “Kissing someone is an emotional thing, and asking [permission] diverts it into a cognitive realm instead,” says [Kate] Wachs. “Women hate that.” Read more

How to Get Her into Bed … with Humor

There is nothing more seductive and sexy than a man with a sense of humor. A man who makes me laugh is a man I want to spend more time with, and who knows where that might lead? Men’s Fitness gives men five tips for breaking the ice and getting women into bed … with humor.

Few people are truly great joke tellers; it requires a perfect balance of dryness, timing, and execution. Unless you’re a seasoned pro, keep it simple and arrive at the punch line in less than one minute. Rope in your target audience by asking her to tell a joke. While it may sound forward, the competitive streak in your lady will really respond to this challenge. Once she tells it, don’t lavish her with too much praise, but say “OK, OK, I’ve got one for you,” and give it your best shot. Again, keep it short and witty. This one never fails: “Guy walks into a bar . . . says ouch.” It’s easy, clever, and is guaranteed to make her laugh, unless she’s a tight-ass . . . or incredibly dumb. Read more

Researchers Scientifically Link Dancing Ability to Mate Quality

Women are instinctively attracted to men who can dance, but why? Is it just because women enjoy dancing themselves? Actually, It’s more basic and important than that. A scientific study says that women use dancing ability to evaluate mate quality.

Dance has long been recognized as a signal of courtship in many animal species, including humans. Better dancers presumably attract more mates, or a more desirable mate.

What’s seemingly obvious in everyday life, however, has not always been rigorously verified by science. Now, a study by scientists at Rutgers, The State University of New Jersey, for the first time links dancing ability to established measures of mate quality in humans. Read more

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