About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Penis Size

Girth vs. Length and How to Touch a Clitoris

KarenLee Poter interviews a sexologist about the topics of s penis girth vs. length and how to touch a clitoris.

8 Sex Positions That Make a Small Penis Feel Bigger

It’s a fact of life that some men are under-endowed. The good news is that changing positions can make a small penis feel longer and thicker. Two of the favorite sex positions for most couples are missionary (man on top and doggy-style (rear entry). Fortunately, these are two of the easiest to adjust to make your partner’s penis feel bigger inside you. Try these eight missionary and doggy variations and see what a difference they can make. Continue reading

How to Give Fellatio to a Big Penis

How do you give felltio to a big penis? Although the overwhelming majority of penises are average or small, about one out of six men have a big one, so this is a question that affects a lot of women. The short answer is that you vary your fellatio techniques to compensate for the fact that your mouth is only so big. Just how you do that depends on whether your partner’s penis is long, thick, or long and thick. Continue reading

How Big Is Too Big?

This is a great tutorial on the topic of penis size. It’s more or less what I’ve been saying since I started this blog..

10 Sex Positions That Will Make You Forget He Has a Small Penis

A small penis doesn’t have to mean unsatisfying intercourse. Here are ten sex positions that will make you forget that your partner is under-endowed.

Last week we told you about 15 Ways to Make the Most of Your Small Penis in Bed. We basically covered everything except plain old intercourse, because sex involves so much more than in-out penetration. In fact, for many women, the old in-out is the least likely route to their orgasm.

That all said, intercourse can be pretty fun, too! So here are 10 positions (for male-female intercourse) that are well-suited for a smaller than average penis. More than just well-suited, actually: many of these positions feel better with a smaller than average penis.

Take note, ladies! Read more

5 Sex Positions That Get You Off When He Has a BIG Penis

Rebecca Janes Stokes five of the bes t sex positions to use when the man has a big penis

I may be writing a list of the best sex positions for coping with a big penis, but let’s be clear: Every sex position is the best sex position for having sex with a big penis if you take the proper steps first.

Just because a guy has a big penis that doesn’t mean he has no ability to communicate with words (I mean, sometimes it does, but let’s be kind here). The sex position you pick doesn’t mean diddly if you can’t communicate with your partner.

His big penis will be a big let down if you can’t tell him what works, what doesn’t work, and what is not possible because of physics.  Read more

Is Bigger REALLY Better? 7 Very Honest Women Weigh In On Penis Size

Seven really honest women weigh in on whether bigger is really better.

It’s the age-old question: Is bigger better? Well, is it? It seems that when it comes to penis size, men are far more concerned than women. You often hear women say that it’s all about how you use it, but still, size has to come into play at some point, doesn’t it?

We asked a few women their thoughts on penis size. We asked them to be as honest as possible, because we really want to know — we ALL want to know. Hopefully, with their insight, we’re one step closer to figuring out if bigger truly is better or if technique is the biggest winner of all. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.