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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Oral Sex

10 Cunnilingus Tips and Tricks

woman-having-orgasmSex surveys show that men receive fellatio more often than women receive cunnilingus. One reason for that could be is that some men are not that confident about their ability to please a woman orally. Cunnilingus isn’t rocket science, but it isn’t completely instinctive either. These ten cunnilingus tips and tricks will allow any man to go down on a woman like he’s been there before and knows what he’s doing. Continue reading

5 Steps to Better Cunnilingus

O FaceMany men enjoy receiving oral sex even more than having intercourse, so it shouldn’t surprise anyone that many women feel the same way. Cunnilingus is the most surefire way to bring a woman to orgasm, and giving a woman one orgasm is the best way to help her have multiple orgasms, such as during intercourse. Many men are unsure of themselves when it comes to oral sex, though. If that describes you, the following five steps will go a long way to improving your oral skills. Although techniques can help, all the techniques in the world won’t make much difference if you don’t master these basics first. Continue reading

Two Cunnilingus Techniques for More Pleasure

CunnilingusClitoral stimulation by itself can usually bring a woman to orgasm. Cunnilingus, oral sex on a female, is the most effective way to stimulate the clitoris. That explains why more women can climax through oral sex than through intercourse. In addition to clitoral stimulation, however, it is also worth trying these two unique cunnilingus techniques, which might be unusual, but are quite effective for giving a woman more pleasure during oral sex. Continue reading

5 Mistakes Men Make When Performing Cunnilingus

Unhappy womanCunnilingus is something almost every woman loves, but it isn’t something every man is good at. Bad oral sex is worse than none at all. Since men don’t have a vagina, it’s understandable that they are sometimes confused about what feels good and what doesn’t.  Cunnilingus is hard enough to get right as it is, so don’t ruin it by making one of these oral sex blunders. Are you making one of these crucial cunnilingus mistakes? Continue reading

Do Women Enjoy Teabagging?

Three women explain why they engage in teabagging with their men..

Teabagging always seems like more of a high school locker room joke than a sex act people actually do — but is it? In this week’s Sex Talk Realness, Cosmopolitan.com spoke with three anonymous women about why they love putting balls in their mouths, which sounds simple, but according to them, definitely involves a certain artistry. Read more

6 Positions to Spice Up Your Blow Jobs

Happy CoupleMen love fellatio, but giving a blow job the same way time after time can make even oral sex a little boring. The fact is, the more you vary your techniques, the more excited he will be each time you give him fellatio. Changing positions is one of the easiest ways to spice up your blow jobs. Different positions make oral sex feel different. A change of position will change the depth that the penis can slide into your mouth.  Also, some positions make it easier to use your hands or allow the man to thrust into your mouth.  It is to the benefit of both of you to change things up for variety.  Here are six positions you can use to spice up your blow jobs. Continue reading

Is Cunnilingus an Acquired Taste?

Three young men reveal what they really think about performing cunnilingus.

Curious how guys’ attitudes about cunnilingus change over time, Cosmopolitan.com asked 15 guys ages 19, 23, and 28 how they feel about going down on women.​ Here’s what they said.

1. What do you call going down on a girl? Eating her out? Cunnilingus? Read more

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