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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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10 Cunnilingus Tips for Pleasuring a Woman

female-pleasureNobody knows what to do. You just close your eyes, you hope for the best. I really think they’re happy if you just make an effort. – Jerry Seinfeld

We all want to give women orgasms when we have sex with them, and cunnilingus is the best and fastest way to do that. However, just making an effort is not enough. It also takes a little knowledge. Here are ten cunnilingus tips to give a woman the best, most intense orgasms she ever had: Continue reading

A Cougar’s Best Advice on Oral Sex

In this video, a cougar gives men her best advice about oral sex.

8 Signs You’re Good at Oral Sex

Are good at govomg oral sex? Amanda Chatel gives eight signs that you’re doing it “right.”

Giving oral sex can definitely be a daunting task. Everybody’s likes and dislikes are different when it comes to being on the receiving end, and sometimes the person giving and the person receiving aren’t on the same page. It can make for a “Wait, am I good at giving oral sex?” or an “OMG, am I doing this right?” situation. Of all the things that come with giving oral sex, the biggest concern is usually whether or not you’re doing it “right.” Read more

6 Fellatio Tips and Tricks

sexy-couplehMost men love fellatio. Some men even prefer a blow job to sexual intercourse. Since oral sex is such a big deal for men, women ought to know how to do it well.  When you are able to give your man a great blow job, you will gain a power over him that you never thought possible.  He will be constantly thinking of you and begging for that pleasure again. These six fellatio tips and tricks will help make your blow jobs unforgettable. Continue reading

5 Oral Sex Moves You’ve Never Tried

If you’ve mastered Oral 101, these five moves will take you to the next level

Overview

For her, oral could mean the difference between orgasmic bliss and a ho-hum time in the sack. In fact, most women need a variety of stimulation, including oral, in order to orgasm, research from the Kinsey Institute shows. If you’ve already mastered the basics—taking your time, varying your pressure and speed, and resisting the urge to go straight for her lady parts with a little teasing—then add these five advanced moves to your repertoire. Who knows? She might be impressed enough to return the favor. Read more

4 Fellatio Techniques You Need to Try

Funny Girl Sex Guide demonstrates four fellatio techniques you need to try.

7 Easy Steps to the Best Oral Sex of Her Life

Want to drive her crazy down below? Men’s Fitness provides a detailed guide to going south will turn any man into an orgasm-inducing machine.

Ask any woman how she feels about receiving oral and she’ll probably tell you it feels good—but you should never settle for “good” when you could make her feel amazing. Would you go to a football game and only stay until half time? Would you fill up a pint of beer only mid-way? Of course not. So the same rule applies to going down on a woman: never half-ass it. Now truth be told, every chick has a different set of preferences, but if you stick to our step-by-step guide, you’ll likely give her the best oral of her life. Read on to find out how. Read more

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