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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Top 5 Fellatio Tricks Men Wish Women Would Try

For many men, a blow job is the holy grail of sex. They usually appreciate almost any effort women make to satisfy them orally (except biting). Nevertheless, men will admit that there are some techniques that make fellatio better that not all women do. That’s too bad because the techniques they mention for the most part are  easy to do. It’s just that some women don’t know to do them. These are the top five fellatio tricks that men wish women would try. Continue reading

5 Ways to Make Your Partner Better at Going Down on You

If your partner is willing but unskilled at cunnilingus, here are five ways to make him better at going down on you.

Almost all women love receiving oral sex, but not every woman is good at giving it. Just being a woman doesn’t make you an expert at going down on another woman. If your lover is a bit below par in the oral department, here are five ways to make your lover better at going down on you. Remember that she is down there because she wants to please you, so help her to help you feel good.  Read more

6 Oral Sex Techniques That Deserve a Medal

Heather Jennings describes six oral sex techniques  that she says deserve some ind of medal.

This is kind of depressing, but we’re going to give it to you straight. According to a 2010 Esquire survey that the Internet will never let die, women may not be as excited about oral as we’ve been led to believe. To make matters worse, there really is such thing as an oral sex gap — women are twice as likely to go down on their partners and half as likely to receive pleasure when the favor is returned.

While oral sex sounds like a great appetizer to the main event in theory, 10 percent of the Esquire women said they didn’t like it at all. And a whopping 44 percent of women said it could be “nice” every once in a while. What gives? Well, you know, and we know, that many aren’t as proficient as they claim to be in the ways of the tongue beneath the sheets. And many of us women are shy about asking for what we want in bed, making even the best attempt at oral very awkward indeed. Read more

How to Lick Her Vagina to Make Her Orgasm Every Time

Sex coach Nick Hardwick reveals how to lick your woman’s vagina so that she orgasms every time.

You probably already know that eating pussy is the easiest way to make a woman orgasm. You might have also heard that guys who master this skill get much hotter sex, and a lot more often.

It’s one of the easiest ways to make her want sex as much as (if not more than) you.

The problem is most guys have no clue how to go down and perform oral sex on a woman. Read more

Porn Stars Reveal 3 Secrets to the Perfect Blow Job

Porn stars reveal how to give the perfect jobs.

If you’ve ever gone down on your significant other and found yourself wondering if you’re doing it right or whether or not if it’s the best they’ve ever had, you’re not alone. Maybe you’re just wondering or maybe you’re looking to better your head game.

Either way, if you want to learn how to give the perfect blow job, you’re going to have to learn from the very best in the business: porn stars.

WoodRocket recently released a video that gives us curious or dedicated Internet searchers all the nitty-gritty insight into tips for pleasing a man’s tip. I imagine that porn stars probably get asked about this all the time, at least enough to make them put out a video on the low down for going down. Read more

5 Sensational Fellatio Techniques He Will Love

Licking LipsWomen know that men love fellatio, but did you ever stop to think why? Yes, looking down at a woman pleasuring his most prized possession is a boost to the male ego, but the main reason is the variety of sensations a blow job provides.Why not takee advantage of that to spice up your blow jobs? These five fellatio techniques use your mouth, lips, tongue, and even your hands, to give your man the intense sensation he craves..

1) French kiss the head

When giving a blow job. instead of starting to suck right away, warm up his penis with your lips Give the head a slow, sensual, wet French Kiss You know how exciting a French kiss feels, so imagine your partner not only feeling you French kissing his penis, but also watching you do it. If you kiss his penis with the same passion that you would kiss his lips, it will definitely turn him on!

2) Use flat-tongue foreplay

Slowly lick his penis with a flat tongue from the base to the tip. Lick as if you’re trying to press every square inch of your tongue onto his penis. You’re not just tasting him; you’re trying to savor him.

3) Squeeze the base.

Two of the most sensitive areas on the penis are the head and the base. While you are sucking on the head, use your hand to squeeze the base. This not only provides stimulation to two parts of the penis at once, but also squeezes blood into the penis. This hardens it and also enhances sensation.

4) Catch and release.

Catch and release is a technique to use if your partner likes his testicles played with (and he probably does). As you’re sucking on his penis, pull his testicles down on your up stroke, and then release as you go down. Just before a man ejaculates, his testicles retract into his body slightly. The Catch and Release technique mimics that sensation..

5) Massage the perineum.

The pubococcygeus (PC) muscle is what “shoots” out a man’s semen when he ejaculates. This muscle begins behind his testicles at his perineum. What can make his orgasm much more powerful is massaging his perineum (the area between his testicles and anus) during a blow job.

First, cup his testicles in your palm. Then place your index and middle finger on to perineum and massage the area in a circular or back and forth motion. This will not only feel good to him, but also “clear the passage” and make these PC muscle pump harder during ejaculation. That will make orgasm more intense.

the surprise of something new and different will get your partner’s attention and make him wonder what else is on the agenda. Adding these techniques to your oral sex repertoire will make your blow jobs more fun and exciting.  That’s the point, after all.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here! .

10 Ways To Make Blow Jobs More Fun For EVERYONE

Even if oral sex is good, who wouldn’t want to make it even better? Em & Lo share ten ways to make blow jobs more fun for everyone.

Going down on someone is no easy task. And letting someone go down on you can be quite nerve-racking. Despite these potential oral sex setbacks, the experience can be awesome.

Both partners deserve to enjoy the journey down south. Rather than focusing solely on techniques to please the receiver, I’m going to share some secret tips that will benefit both partners — how to improve your overall experience without having to change those special techniques that already work for you and your partner. Read more

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