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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Better Cunnilingus: How to Tongue Her Vagina

This is a technique that your partner may not have had done to her before, so big bonus points to you when you do it.

When giving their lovers oral sex, many women stick to licking the clitoris only. They know that licking the clitoris can produce an intense orgasm, so they stay with the tried and true. However, if you’re feeling a bit naughty and want your lover to have a really mind-blowing orgasm, tonguing her vagina can take oral sex to the next level. Tongue thrusting is an oral sex technique that your lover may never have had used on her, so that makes it exciting all by itself. Read more

6 Oral Sex Techniques That Deserve a Medal

Heather Jennings describes six oral sex techniques  that she says deserve some ind of medal.

This is kind of depressing, but we’re going to give it to you straight. According to a 2010 Esquire survey that the Internet will never let die, women may not be as excited about oral as we’ve been led to believe. To make matters worse, there really is such thing as an oral sex gap — women are twice as likely to go down on their partners and half as likely to receive pleasure when the favor is returned.

While oral sex sounds like a great appetizer to the main event in theory, 10 percent of the Esquire women said they didn’t like it at all. And a whopping 44 percent of women said it could be “nice” every once in a while. What gives? Well, you know, and we know, that many aren’t as proficient as they claim to be in the ways of the tongue beneath the sheets. And many of us women are shy about asking for what we want in bed, making even the best attempt at oral very awkward indeed. Read more

6 Oral Sex Techniques That Deserve Some Kind of Medal

These six oral techniques deserve some kind of medal, says Heather Jennings.

This is kind of depressing, but we’re going to give it to you straight. According to a 2010 Esquire survey that the Internet will never let die, women may not be as excited about oral as we’ve been led to believe. To make matters worse, there really is such thing as an oral sex gap — women are twice as likely to go down on their partners and half as likely to receive pleasure when the favor is returned.

While oral sex sounds like a great appetizer to the main event in theory, 10 percent of the Esquire women said they didn’t like it at all. And a whopping 44 percent of women said it could be “nice” every once in a while. What gives? Well, you know, and we know, that many aren’t as proficient as they claim to be in the ways of the tongue beneath the sheets. And many of us women are shy about asking for what we want in bed, making even the best attempt at oral very awkward indeed. Read more

5 Cunnilingus Techniques to Drive A Woman Wild

It’s no secret that many women love cunnilingus – a lot. A mouth and tongue kissing, sucking, and kissing their genitals is something that can make a woman crazy with pleasure. Here are five little-known cunnilingus techniques you can use to drive a woman wild.

1) Show that you are enjoying yourself. Many women aren’t comfortable receiving cunnilingus. Women can be very self-conscious about how they smell or taste and that it might be unpleasant for the man. The partner who is performing cunnilingus can help put a woman at ease by being complimentary and positive about her genitals. Use movements and make sounds to show that you are enjoying yourself. Show enthusiasm for what you are doing. This will help her relax and allow her to concentrate on her own pleasure, both keys to her enjoyment. Continue reading

Intense Fellatio: How to Give Your Man TOTAL Satisfaction

If you are a woman who enjoys performing fellatio on your man, you’re probably also interested in ways to make it even better for him. Fellatio feels good all by itself, but if you make your man feel good about himself, too, you can give him an even more intense experience. Following the five steps below will leave your man completely satisfied in more ways than one.

1) Teasing
The first touches of your mouth can give your man the most incredible sensations. Give him some time to enjoy them and anticipate what is to “come.” If you get the chance to pull out his penis yourself, try gently pulling down his underwear so that you reveal only the head. Then guide his penis to your mouth, and tease him with a couple of kisses before you pull his underwear all the way down and move in for a closer lick. Ever so slowly, glide the tip of your tongue up over the head, down the shaft and back up again. Then take the whole head into your mouth for one full suck, and let it pop out with a loud, sexy “slurp.” All this attention communicates the idea to him that you’re really excited about seeing and handling his penis, which will please him to no end. Continue reading

Oral Sex Enhancers: Do We Really Need Them?

Do we really need a product that makes your mouth wet so that you can perform better fellatio? Love Buzz tests Sixty Nine Wet Head.

I… n this Love Buzzer’s youth people said that if you put a lifesaver in your mouth while going down on a guy he’d feel a whole new sensation. Other version we’ve heard include an Altoid or a cough drop. All three were supposed to produce the same result: an added tingle created by the mint or active ingredient in the cough drop. One thing that no one ever mentioned, though, was that a sucking candy produces saliva, a necessary component of oral sex.

A new product is trying to take this idea and sell it. Sixty Nine Wet Head is basically Listerine PocketPaks redesigned for sex: translucent strips that at first seem like plastic, but dissolve when placed on your tongue. The Listerine version is supposed to kill germs. The sex version promises “one little strip on your tongue will turn your mouth into a juicy wet haven. With a mouth so moist you’ll have your partner spinning from your newfound talent.” We get the idea, but does it work? And do you really need it? Read more

8 Unique Fellatio Techniques

So you’ve mastered giving fellatio without gagging, but now what? Since sometimes you have to give something good in order to receive something better, pleasure Coach Dr. Sadie Allison, proclaimed the “Penis Genius,” shares her top eight oral sex tips and tricks to help our inner vixens spice things up.

I’m about to show you enticing oral sex techniques for you to take only as far as you please. You don’t have to “deep throat” him. You don’t have to taste his come. And you certainly don’t have to swallow – although you just might like it after all. Just pick and choose what tickles your fancy, and advance from there.

Start with the The Classic Blowjob then try one of these variations as your springboard to wild improvisations. Which of these will become your one Golden Technique to finish him off? Read more

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