About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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5 Cunnilingus Tips for Mind-Blowing Orgasms

Couple in BedCunnilingus has the potential to give women highly satisfying orgasms if performed well. Many women find that they can climax more easily from cunnilingus than sexual intercourse. To learn how to perform cunnilingus takes some practice, but anyone can become skilled in the art of oral satisfaction. Here are five oral sex techniques for mind-blowing orgasms.

1) Starting cunnilingus

To start cunnilingus, try the following: Lick your partner’s vaginal opening up to her clitoris. Then follow the outer edges of the vagina. Make sure you cover both sides. Going up and down each side this is a great way to start oral sex and get your partner relaxed for further pleasure. Continue reading

8 Signs You’re Good at Oral Sex

Are good at govomg oral sex? Amanda Chatel gives eight signs that you’re doing it “right.”

Giving oral sex can definitely be a daunting task. Everybody’s likes and dislikes are different when it comes to being on the receiving end, and sometimes the person giving and the person receiving aren’t on the same page. It can make for a “Wait, am I good at giving oral sex?” or an “OMG, am I doing this right?” situation. Of all the things that come with giving oral sex, the biggest concern is usually whether or not you’re doing it “right.” Read more

How to Perform Amazing Oral Sex on a Woman

Legendary porn star Nina Hartley gives men advice on how to give a woman amazing oral sex.


Oral Sex Tips for Men

Glamazon Tyomi gives men a few quick tips on how to become great at the performance of cunnilingus.

Intense Fellatio: How to Give Your Man TOTAL Satisfaction

If you are a woman who enjoys performing fellatio on your man, you’re probably also interested in ways to make it even better for him. Fellatio feels good all by itself, but if you make your man feel good about himself, too, you can give him an even more intense experience. Following the five steps below will leave your man completely satisfied in more ways than one.

1) Teasing
The first touches of your mouth can give your man the most incredible sensations. Give him some time to enjoy them and anticipate what is to “come.” If you get the chance to pull out his penis yourself, try gently pulling down his underwear so that you reveal only the head. Then guide his penis to your mouth, and tease him with a couple of kisses before you pull his underwear all the way down and move in for a closer lick. Ever so slowly, glide the tip of your tongue up over the head, down the shaft and back up again. Then take the whole head into your mouth for one full suck, and let it pop out with a loud, sexy “slurp.” All this attention communicates the idea to him that you’re really excited about seeing and handling his penis, which will please him to no end. Continue reading

Tantric Fellatio: Worshiping the Phallus

All men love fellatio, and many women love giving it, but most of us don’t think of it as a form of worship. It can be, though, says Jennifer Lawless.

In Tantra, the penis is called the lingam, which in Sanskrit can be translated as “Wand of Light.” Worship of the generative organs has been practiced throughout history. Evidence of phallic worship goes back 28,000 years – give or take a few years. One way for a woman to worship her man’s lingam is to create a lingam shrine. Another way is to perform Tantric fellatio.


Begin by slowly taking your man’s lingam into your mouth as deeply as you can. Hold it there for a moment while you appreciate its hardness and length. Then, go on to perform fellatio on his lingam as lovingly as you know how. Remember to maintain eye contact as much as possible. Read more

The Top 5 Foods You Don’t Want Your Man to Consume before You Give Him Fellatio

It’s not surprising that what you eat affects how you taste, including the taste of semen. Amanda Chatel gives her list of the five foods a man shouldn’t consume before getting oral sex. I can’t disagree with any of them, especially asparagus,. It’s enough to turn you from a swallower to a spitter.

Not too long ago I was performing the act of fellatio or, less eloquently, I was giving head. I had given oral to this particular person several times, and there had never been a problem. However, during this one particular incident there was a mild issue: his cum. Yes, his cum, his man juice, semen, ejaculation, whatever one wants to call it was absolutely foul and rancid. I was shocked; this had never ever been an issue. To quote Samantha from Sex and the City, “it’s never been a trip to Baskin Robbins,” but this particular, er, flavor was one for the record books. Having the type of relationship I have with this person, one of open communication and any chance to ridicule each other, I told him. When I did, a realization was made: asparagus. Specifically, he had eaten it at dinner. Needless to say, I teased him relentlessly and dubbed him “Asparagus Boy” for the next several days, then took my questions to friends and Google. Obviously, I was not alone in my predicament, but however, you can learn from my mistake – don’t let what befell me that evening, befall you too. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.