About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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The Truth about Breast Orgasms

My post How to Give Your Woman a Nipple Orgasm has long been one of my most popular. Now “sexpert” Jill Di Donato has discovered breast orgasms.

One of the perks of writing about sex is that when you disclose this information at cocktail parties, people tend to confess scandalous tidbits, and in this case, very useful information. Still, this one was a show-stopper.

“The other day, I had my first breast orgasm.”

I looked at the gorgeous attorney standing before me, sipping from her beer. She was glowing as she awaited my response. It was clear she’d been dying to share her, er, achievement with me. Read more

3 Breast Play Techniques That Turn Women On

It’s no secret that when it comes to foreplay techniques that men enjoy doing, playing with a woman’s breasts is extremely high on that list. The fact is that men love breasts, but when it comes to sex, breasts often get neglected. Many women long for more breast play as part of their sex lives, but if you don’t have a variety of different techniques to stimulate her breasts, you may discover that she would prefer if you don’t play with them as much as you would like. However, if you follow my 10 Tips for Better Breast Play and use the following three breast play techniques, she will be begging you to fondle and play with her breasts whenever and as much you want. Continue reading

How to Give Your Woman a Nipple Orgasm

Many people see nipples and breasts as the second most erogenous area of the body next to the genitals. For women, having our breasts caressed and nipples sucked releases oxytocin, the chemical that makes us feel like we’re in love. The nipples, in particular, are filled with nerve endings, making them especially tuned in to touch. Men enjoy stimulating the breasts during foreplay, but relatively few women have ever had an orgasms strictly form breast stimulation. Given that there is very little information on breast or nipple orgasm, most people discover nipple orgasm purely by accident. Continue reading

The Story of Ohhhhh!

Follow this Men’s Health pleasure map to find a woman’s five orgasmic hot spots.

Make her orgasm in 3 minutes
You may know where to find this sexual silver bullet, but it goes much deeper than you realised. “The clitoris is like the tip of an iceberg,” says Dr Hilda Hutcherson, professor of Obstetrics and Gynaecology at Columbia University and author of What Your Mother Never Told You about Sex (Penguin). “Like the penis it has a glans and shaft as well as ‘legs’ – erectile tissue that runs down either side of the vagina and towards the back of her thighs in a wishbone shape.” If you are just rubbing her on top you are missing out on stimulating these sensitive areas around and underneath.

How: “The Kivin method of oral sex gives 60% of women a faster and more intense orgasm because it stimulates more of the clitoris,” says registered sex therapist Dr Patti Britton, (www.askthesexcoach.com). “Most women climax after three minutes and all in under 12.” Ask her to lie on her back while you position yourself side-on between her legs. Put two fingers either side of her clitoris to raise and steady it and slowly sweep your tongue back and forth feeling for two tiny bumps on each side of the hood. Slowly increase your speed then using a finger from your free hand press into her perineum. As you feel her nearing orgasm, transfer your tongue from the side to the head of her clitoris. Read more

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