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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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6 Movie Myths About Sex That Are Totally Wrong

People form a lot of their ideas about sex and relationships from movies, but some of what we see is just wrong.

We all know the movies don’t necessarily contain the most accurate depictions of actual life. Or do we?

Whether we realize it or not, we all pick up subtle things from movies that we expect to find in our actual lives. And while I’m willing to overlook some of the media’s follies (like the fact that people in any foreign country all speak English), some of their depictions of sex are just. so. wrong. Read more

The Top 10 Horror Movie Sex Scenes

Courtney Bee lists the ten most memorable sex scenes in horror movies, from Bordello of Blood to Re-Animator.

Bordello of Blood

Screw those brooding tween vampires in Twilight. This campy, so-bad-it’s-good flick features gratuitous nudity of the prostitute persuasion. When hapless victims climb inside a coffin, they’re whisked away to a basement—and an orgy featuring vampire women of loose morality.

Bride of Chucky

The famously homicidal doll gets a new playmate, and although he’s been asexual prior to this installment, he just can’t help but succumb to Tiffany’s plastic charm. After pointing out that he’s indeed anatomically correct, the dolls disrobe and get it on. But safe sex is paramount. “Wait—do you have a rubber?” Tiffany asks. “Look at me,” he replies incredulously. “I’m all rubber!” And in the end Chucky gets lucky. Read more

The 10 Weirdest Sex Scenes Ever

Zoo magazine tells us what it thinks are the ten weirdest sex scenes of all time, from weird werewolves to the woman with the toothy vagina.

Sex scenes – one of the best reasons to watch a film! But what happens when bonking scenes turn plain bonkers?

Seeing the very carnal scene in new DVD, Skinwalkers, gave us the idea to trawl through all the most oddball movies we could think of to bring you the definitive list of the 10 weirdest sex scenes.

How to Have Movie Sex

Sex in movies always seems to be totally hot. Can life imitate art? Take a look at these seven lessons you can learn from cinema’s hottest love scenes.

Why not try standing up?
Almost nothing makes you feel as overwhelmed by lust as a quickie against a wall (think The English Patient or Sea of Love). Pick a moment (don’t tell him) and pounce. “Give him a hot, wet kiss, rub your body against his and say, ‘How about right here?'” suggests Olivia St. Claire, author of Unleashing the Sex Goddess in Every Woman. If his reaction doesn’t make you feel like a sex symbol, nothing will.  Read more

The 5 Most Unintentionally Hilarious Movie Sex Acts

Cracked.com lists five of the worst, most unintentionally hilarious movie sex acts (with video).

Is there any film that can’t be improved with sex? Of course not. Imagine how great Citizen Kane would be if, instead of dropping a snow globe as he died, Charles Foster Kane had stolen a girl’s bikini, and she had to chase him around the house for a bit, and then they started fucking. Are you imagining? See, we’re usually right about this stuff.

But we’re also sometimes wrong. Here are five of the worst, most unintentionally hilarious sex acts ever to be shown on the silver screen. Read more

Sex in Movies: A History

Ambrose Diaz puts together of brief history of sex in moves from the first time that a couple kissed in film (1896) to Sharon Stone crossing her legs in Basic Instinct.

Every summer the movie-going public gets hit with the latest in CGI-filled special effects flicks. We get comic-based superheroes, action adventures, sequels, prequels and hopefully, a good sex romp gets thrown into the mix too. So in the spirit of the season, we thought we’d put together a timeline or brief history of sex on the silver screen. Read more

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