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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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5 Exciting Ways to Spice Up Missionary Position

The missionary sex position is so often used that it can begin to get boring. Here are five exciting ways to spice it up.

Missionary sex gets a bad rap because it’s the go-to position for most couples, but it’s also a favorite because it’s damn good: There’s lots of eye contact, you can feel his weight on you, and it’s incredibly intimate. And if you do want to spice things up, step up your game with some of these sexy tweaks. Read more

4 Tips for Being on the Bottom

Missionary position is the most popular sex position, so Tara Block gives four tips for enjoying it even more.

So I’ve given you some tips for being on the top, but good old missionary position (guy on top) is also a fan favorite! The guy being on top can give a man a real sense of control and dominance, which can be very arousing to a woman, but since you’re not doing much of the moving around, here are some tips to make being on the bottom more exciting. Read more

Two Ways to Make Missionary Position More Pleasurable

Missionary PositionThe missionary position is one of the most used sex positions. It’s not only the position a most couples use when they first have sex, but it’s usually the go-to position later in their relationship. Most women like missionary position for its face-to-face intimacy even though it doesn’t usually provide much clitoral stimulation. With a few adjustments, though, missionary can be as orgasmic as any sex position. Here are some missionary position tips that will increase sexual pleasure for your female partner. Continue reading

6 Moves for Better Sex

Tired of the standard man-on-top, woman-on-bottom? These creative sex moves will spice up missionary style

Missionary is the Jan Brady of sex positions—dismissed as plain and boring, never picked first, forever in the shadow of flashier poses such as girl on top, from behind, and reverse cowgirl.

But it shouldn’t be. “Most people don’t realize that because missionary allows for a lot of variation, it exposes your nerves to a wider range of sensations and is surprisingly orgasm-friendly,” says Lori Buckley, Psy.D., a licensed sex therapist in Pasadena, California. Which explains why 33 percent of women say missionary is their favorite position, according to a recent study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. (Guys dig it too—being on top typically lets them control the pace and prolong their orgasm.) Amp up the experience with these hot new twists to the carnal classic. Read more

6 HOT Sex Positions

If you’re bored with the standard man on top, woman on bottom, these creative sex moves will put a new twist on the missionary sex position.

Missionary is the Jan Brady of sex positions—dismissed as plain and boring, never picked first, forever in the shadow of flashier poses such as girl on top, from behind, and reverse cowgirl.

But it shouldn’t be. “Most people don’t realize that because missionary allows for a lot of variation, it exposes your nerves to a wider range of sensations and is surprisingly orgasm-friendly,” says Lori Buckley, Psy.D., a licensed sex therapist in Pasadena, California. Which explains why 33 percent of women say missionary is their favorite position, according to a recent study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. (Guys dig it too—being on top typically lets them control the pace and prolong their orgasm.) Amp up the experience with these hot new twists to the carnal classic. Read more

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