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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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3 Ways to Spice up the Missionary Position

Though a sex survey done by Savvy Miss revealed that 25% of women orgasm in woman-on-top compared to 12% in missionary position, missionary position was still chosen as the favorite of the readers surveyed. Since missionary position is a female favorite because it’s so emotionally satisfying, why not try these three ways to make it more physically satisfying as well?

Our sex survey produced a lot of fascinating results, but one in particular stuck with us: the fact that 37% of women chose the missionary position as their favorite, yet only 12% say it brings them to orgasm. Hmmm…

So why do we love missionary? It’s probably not because we’re lazy. For many, it’s associated with “making love” and we’ll sacrifice an orgasm to feel connected with our partners. That’s nice and all, but who says we can’t have both: the intimacy and the amazing orgasms? Below are three ways to step up the sensations during missionary, without sacrificing the connectivity. Read more

Instant Upgrade: Get New Thrills out of Old Sex Positions

Women’ Health asked sex experts and real women to share their proven strategies for getting new thrills out of five of the sex positions you know and love – missionary, woman on top, hands and knees, side by side, and standing up.

It’s so easy to get lazy in bed. When the mood strikes, why contort like a Cirque du Soleil acrobat when 1) the fact that you’re already having satisfying sex is more than most people accomplish and 2) a simple you’re-on-top-tonight position can get the job done fine? But like anything easy — an energy bar for lunch, the treadmill at the gym, shopping on Bluefly.com — before long, you feel like you’re missing out on the really fun stuff. So every once in a while (seriously, even just once a month) live it up a little. For the best way to do that naked, we asked experts and real women to share their proven strategies for getting new thrills out of those same old positions you know and love. Read more

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