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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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6 Kama Sutra Techniques That Make Missionary Position Even Better

The Kama Sutra is famous for its sex positions, but it also has techniques that make everyday sex positions like missionary even better.

There’s only one problem with missionary sex: The vast majority of men thrust in the same conventional, in-and-out way.  Same speed, same depth, same hip motion, same everything. In other words, yawn and repeat. What these guys don’t know is that there are much more exciting ways for him to insert his penis. Ways that will create new, pleasurable sensations for both you and him. Take these six ideas from the Kama Sutra, for example. It may be an ancient Hindu text—which explains the strange names like “boar’s blow”—but these techniques certainly hold up in 2017. Read more

A New Twist on 3 Old Sex Positions

Laura Berman describes some new twists on three old sex positions.

If your sex life is starting to feel a little too choreographed or paint-by-numbers, you’ve got two choices. One, you can add some new positions to your sexual repertoire. Hey, we can think of 45 you haven’t tried yet.

Your other option is to breathe some new life into those old positions. Bored by the same-old-same-old routine of missionary, or her on top, or you from behind? Laura Berman, author of The Passion Prescription, has some suggestions for making small changes to these rusty classics. Try these, and you’ll feel like you reinvented the wheel. Read more

Why Men Should Love the Missionary Position

The missionary position is the most popular among women. Ben Kassoy explains why men should love it too.

Ok, I’ll say it: I hate missionary.

Most people rarely think about it, which is weird, considering it’s the most common position.

I’m not one to be too particular about sex—honestly, I’m just glad to be having it. Nor do I require acrobatic bedroom maneuvers like we’re performing in a show called Sex Du Soleil. Nonetheless, missionary is something I really can’t get behind—er, on top of.

Think about it. You’re forced to hold yourself up, which strains the triceps and occupies the hands. There can be trouble controlling the rhythm and pace. It’s clumsy. And, it conjures up memories of the first time. Not that mine was traumatic or anything—awkward, sure—but missionary feels regressive, like I’m still that ungraceful 18-year-old. Read more

How to Give a Woman New Sensations During Sex

sex-positions-missionary Thrusting in and out is the go-to move for most men during sexual intercourse. While that feels good to women, it can become boring after awhile. If that’s your only move, you are cheating your woman (and yourself) out of a great deal of sexual pleasure. There are many other ways for the penis to stimulate the vagina. Here are three ways to give a woman new sensations during sex. Continue reading

5 Ways to Make Missionary Position More Orgasmic

Missionary PositionThe missionary or man-on-top position is one of the most widely-used sex positions. In this position, the woman lies on her back, and her partner lies on top of her, generally with his knees on the bed. The man supporta himself with his arms, and his partner’s hips support his hips. The man does the thrusting and most of the movement in this position. Continue reading

How to Ramp Up Missionary Position Orgasms

Kate Gilbert reveals how a slight modification can boost the orgasmic potential of the missionary position. You may think you know this trick, but notice what the man has to do as well.

Sexperts are always slamming the missionary position as boring, but we think it’s about time this classic move got a bit of slack. So we’ve given the sex position an orgasm-boosting makeover to put it back on your favourites list. Read more

Missionary Position Sex Tips

Though the missionary position is pretty straightforward, there are a lot of variables. Different couples like having sex in different ways. Arms, legs, pelvis, and head positioning all play a part. How do these panelists at Cherry TV like it? Watch video

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