About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

Google Translator

    Translate from:

    Translate to:

MFM threesome

Why Women Are Fantasizing About This Type of Threesome

What does the Eiffel Tower have to do with threesomes?

“The Eiffel Tower is such a thing,” says Rachel* (names have been changed to protect sources’ privacy), a 25-year-old recent college graduate. To be clear, Rachel isn’t referring to the iconic Parisian landmark: she’s referring to a slang term for a sex position where a woman is on all fours and giving oral sex to one man, while another man has sex with her from behind. What makes it an Eiffel Tower is when the two men high-five each other, forming the point of what is basically a squirmy, sloppy triangle. “It’s one of the best parts,” she gushes. Read more

12 Tips for the Most MFM Threesome Pleasure

MFM (male-female-male) threesomes can be fun for all involved but like anything in life, there are rules and tips to fully enjoy them.

We all agree a threesome can be exciting. The MMF threesome is a particular treat for all those involved. For one, no girl refuses a serving of four caressing hands and an extra sausage. While the two guys get themselves a good taste of real life, interactive porn. One they both watch and participate in.

Rules and tips for the most MMF threesome pleasure Read more

How to Have a Satisfying Double Penetration

Have you decided to fulfill your fantasy of being with two men at once by arranging an MFM threesome? If you have, you are in for an amazing experience, but you still may have questions, especially about double penetration. First of all double penetration is not a requirement of an MFM threesome. The men can just take turns or you could just do oral along with vaginal or anal sex. However, double penetration is what makes an MFM threesome special, particularly for a woman. If you do want to try it, here are a few tips to have a satisfying double penetration. Continue reading

A Porn Star Explains Threesomes

Porn star Joanna Angel explains threesomes.

Porn stars: They’re just like us! Joanna Angel really is, though, and I’m not just saying that because she and I both identify as chosen people. Angel is more than a porn star — she’s a porn auteur who writes, directs, acts, and runs her own company, BurningAngel.com (NSFW, obviously).

When she’s not busy getting her brains banged out on camera or doling out advice for Vivid Radio, she’s doing what any sex-loving human does: Having tons of sex. Read more

Margaret Cho’s Guide for Having a Successful Threesome

Comedian Margaret Cho gives some serious advice to men for arranging a successful MFM thressome.

Margaret Cho wants you to have a great threesome.

But the comedian and host of TLC’s new show “All About Sex” cautioned viewers of HuffPost Live that while a three-way is often the first thing couples try when they want to open up their sex lives, it’s actually one of the more challenging types of intimate exploration. During a conversation with host Alyona Minkovski, Cho explained to an adventurous fan that threesomes offer the highest possibility for jealousy of any form of group sex, and it’s important to take careful steps to ensure a satisfactory experience. Read more

3 Tips for Having an MFM Threesome

Marni lays out a play-by-play guide to having a threesome with your wife, girlfriend, or girl you are dating.

How to Find a Man for an MFM Threesome

RachAndrew give some suggestions about how to find a man for an MFM threesome. I personally disagree that someone you don’t know is better, but read their explanation and decide for yourself.

So you’ve disclosed your desire for a Hotwife and perhaps, Cuckold, relationship to your partner. Now comes the more difficult part…finding a possible man to begin this journey. It seems easy. Men are, by nature, very easy to find. Looking at Craigslist or AdultFriendFinder or any number of other sites, you’ll find many, many men interested in being the “selected male”. But, it’s not so easy.

You want exactly the right person. I mean, this is a FIRST and a first only happens once. Further, you need to find that guy that will not turn you off from further developing what, you hope, will be a lifelong journey of learning and new sexual experiences. You need someone that understands and is respectful of your relationship. You want someone that isn’t at his first rodeo but not someone that has slept around and, god forbid, attracted some disease that could potentially be passed on. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.