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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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10 Tips to Make Married Sex Feel Like a One-Night Stand

Has your sex life gone into hibernation after marriage? Use these ten easy tips on how to make married sex feel like a one-night stand.

A marriage is a happy beginning to many things.

But when it comes to sex, a marriage can do more damage than good.

Of course, the first few months of a marriage after dating each other for years can still be fun. Read more

Couple’s Sex Every Day for a Month Diary

Alex and Sara Lowndes set themselves the “challenge” of having sex every day for a month. I’m not sure having daily sex is really so remarkable, especially in a new relationship. However, the Lowndes have been together for eight years, so it may be more of a challenge for them. The Sun published excerpts from the diary they kept.

DAY 1– Sara says: Our sex life was wonderful for years but it has definitely suffered due to our hectic lives.

Although Alex always has the energy for sex, I find it difficult to get in the mood when I’m tired.

So tonight, instead of turning on the TV when we get into bed, we have sex for the first time in three weeks. It is great.

Alex says: I hate pestering Sara for sex, and never want to make her feel obliged to sleep with me. I know our sex life has suffered recently, and I am very excited about this month. For me it’s not a challenge – more like a gift from the gods!

DAY 2 – Sara: I arrive home at 10pm from my job as a party organiser to a bubble bath and candles. This is a first from Alex and I find it really romantic. After the bath I am raring to go.

Alex: Sara loved the bath. Who would have thought running hot water and lighting a candle would cause such a reaction? Read more

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