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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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9 Steps to Giving Your Man a Crazy-Hot Lap Dance

You know, men pay for lap dances.  This nine-step guide tells you how to give your man a crazy-hot lap dance.

If you’ve ever fantasized about mesmerizing your man with a slow striptease before sex, rest assured you’re not the alone. Wanting to tap into your inner diva and mastering the art of seduction is totally natural (not to mention incredibly sexy).

We know a thing or two about how couples can improve their sex lives and become better lovers. One of the most common questions is how you can give your man the best lap dance of his life without seeming like an amateur.

Here’s your guide to mastering the basics of lap dancing for your lover. Read more

Be a Tease: Give a Lap Dance

Strap on your stilettos because it’s time for class – lap dance class.

Have you ever fantasized about transfixing your guy with a slow striptease? Do you want to tap into your inner diva and master the art of seduction?

As the sex experts at PleasureMechanics.com, we hear from men and women all over the world who want to improve their sex lives and become better lovers. One of the most common questions is how to initiate sex. Women especially want to know how to make the leap from everyday life into the erotic realm of pleasure.

Lap dancing is one way to grab your lover’s attention and slip into a sexy zone where you can connect, get intimate and savor one another’s touch. Here’s your guide to mastering the basics of lap dancing for your lover. Prepare to become an irresistible vixen! Read more

How to Give a Man a Lap Dance

Treating your man to a lap dance should be hot, but actually giving him one can be a bit awkward. Cosmopolitan magazine asked Kimberly Smith, owner of StripXpertease, a studio offering striptease classes in New York City, to give women some simple moves that will make his jaw come unhinged.

Before You Start…
Choose your song — something slow but sexy (think anything by Kings of Leon) will do the trick. And don’t feel obligated to make your lap dance last an entire song. Usually 60-90 seconds is all you need (and all he can take before he bursts through his pants). Then put a chair against the wall — you’ll need to use the wall for support — and have your guy sit in it so that his legs are spread open. You’ll want to stay within that triangle-shaped space between his thighs as you try these moves: Read more

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