Sex adviser Susan Bratton says that if you’ve never tried irrumatio, you’re missing so many orgasms.
Most men admit to me that the oral sex they receive from their woman is not as good as they’d hope, yet they won’t tell their partner this because they’re afraid doing so might demoralize her.
The same way women are afraid to hurt a guy’s ego by giving him direction in bed, men don’t want to make us feel bad, especially if there’s a chance we might take serious offense and refuse not only to work together to improve the situation, but we also may withhold oral favors (or sex of any kind) in response.
After all, even a crappy blowjob is better than NO blowjob. Read more
For more about irrumatio, see my article Irrumatio: Even Better Than Fellatio?
Irrumatio is actively thrusting the penis into the mouth of a partner. A distinction was once made between irrumatio and fellatio based on who is actively moving. Irrumatio meant to thrust the penis into the partner’s mouth; fellatio meant to move the head and mouth up-and-down around the penis, but this distinction has almost completely vanished in modern English. Continue reading