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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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The Art of the Hand Job

Tantric sex practitioner Shakti Amarantha describes how to give a hand job the Tantric way.

I’m continuing to collect things I wrote in other places that are relevant here. In this case, I was asked to explain what I mean by “giving a great handjob.” (I’m going to describe giving one to a man, but the setup is similar and there’s a link at the end to more detailed instructions for women.)

For starters, I strongly recommend three things: Read more

How to Give a Man the BEST Hand Job of All Time

The Booty Doctors reveal how to give a man a better hand job than he could ever give himself.

.I love a good hand job, if done right it’s the best kind of foreplay around.

Yeah, yeah, oral sex is where it’s at, I know, dudes love a blowjob. But let’s be real, blowjobs aren’t everything when it comes to bangarang foreplay.

The hand job doesn’t have a great reputation, and that’s probably because guys can do it themselves, and DIY isn’t something we tend to associate with foreplay. I believe that half the allure of the blowjob is the fact that (unless he plans on getting a rib removed) no dude can do it to himself. Read more

4 Hand Job Moves to Give Him the Best Erection of His Life!

These four hand job moves are guaranteed to get a man bigger and harder.

We live in a world where the size of a man’s member can generate intrigue, admiration, exaggeration, derision, and comedic relief.

Despite the fact that everybody knows the size of a flaccid penis is an unreliable measure of the size Mr. Happy will be when he’s feeling perky, most men can’t help but compare their equipment with the guy standing nearby in the locker room.

And women?

Let’s face it. Women gossip. Read more

Basic Tips for Giving Great Hand Jobs

Here are a few tips to spicing up the average, and sometimes boring hand job. All it takes is a little imagination, combined with these tricks of the hand!

Hand jobs can be one of the simplest forms of foreplay, besides kissing and general touching. Some people consider them boring, but there are ways to jazz the average hand job up to rock your partners world. All a great hand job really takes is a little bit of lube, a partner, and some imagination! Read more

How to Give a Man the Hand Job of His Life

Once couples begin having sex, hand jobs are sometimes forgotten about. They must feel pretty good, though, because that’s how most men get themselves off. Serena Paige says a hand job can be a great form of foreplay and tell how to give a man the hand job of his life.

A handjob is probably going to take you back to the days of middle school behind the bleachers or in your parent’s basement. While a handjob is not the most erotic act that you can perform on your guy, it can easily keep them interested in your sex life. This sex act is nostalgic and can be a great form of foreplay right before sex.

If you have never been that great at giving this kind of pleasure, there a few things that you can do in order to increase his amount of pleasure. Here are a few ways that you can easily give your guy the best handjob of his life. Read more

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