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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Two Fingering Techniques That Drive Women Crazy

These two fingering techniques are great for either foreplay or taking a woman to orgasm.

If there is one surefire way to give your lover sexual pleasure, it is by fingering her. Your fingers can give you complete control over how you stimulate her, and since you have five fingers and two hands, an almost infinite variety of ways to do it. Whether used as foreplay or the main event of your sex session, these two lesbian fingering techniques will drive your lover crazy with passion Read more

8 Foreplay Tips to Drive a Woman Wild With Desire

ForeplayForeplay is an essential ingredient of a satisfying sexual encounter. Women in particular like lots of foreplay to help them become aroused and achieve orgasm – and of course, men love it too! The build-up of sexual tension should be as much a part of the funas the main event. Here are eight tips to help you get more from foreplay and drive your partner wild with desire. Continue reading

10 Tips for Red Hot Foreplay

Want sheet-grabbing sex? Try these ten red hot foreplay tips from top sexperts.

Finding foreplay repetitive? When it comes to getting in the mood, foreplay is by far the most important aspect of sex. But don’t worry there’s always something for you and your partner to enjoy. We butted heads with top sexperts and rounded up the 10 best foreplay tips guaranteed to make you and your partner go wild. Here’s what you need to know Read more

What NOT to Do During Foreplay

Definitely don’t skip foreplay entirely because you think it doesn’t matter.

1. Please do not act like you’re doing her a favor. Girls can tell when you’re just doing a lot of foreplay because you feel like you want a damn medal, and when you’re doing it because you genuinely enjoy it and you genuinely want her to enjoy it. Please do not wait for that medal, as it will never come Read more

6 Foreplay Moves Women Love

Your wife or girlfriend will thank you for using these six foreplay moves, says Jasmine Leigh.

Obvious and standard foreplay moves that women respond to are a good bet for any lovemaking occasion, but foreplay is not just about giving oral sex or loving attention to her well-known erogenous zones. The really good stuff has a lot more to it. It involves her entire body, as well as her mind. Don’t get me wrong: Chances are there are tons of things you already do to her that she loves, and luckily for you, none of them require you to be a rocket scientist or Dirk Diggler to figure out. Read more

High Definition Foreplay

Men can maximize a woman’s arousal by overloading her senses

Wouldn’t life be easier if her default setting was ‘rampant’? “External cues have an enormous effect on women’s arousal,” says Jan Havlicek, sexual anthropologist. Use this sense-by-sense guide to set her heart racing: Read more Read more

How to Rock Her World with Your Hand

Bringing a woman to climax takes more than jackhammering away at her. Most women need manual or oral stimulation to get off, AskMen presents Marni, founder of the Wing Girl Method, with these foreplay tips and techniques on how to properly finger a woman.

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