About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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My First Anal Sex Experience

My posts about anal sex have always been among my most popular with readers, especially my post 10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex. However, my own first-time anal sex wasn’t planned (at least by me) and didn’t follow the ten steps.

My first anal experience happened during my senior year of high school. My mother was out of town on a business trip, so my boyfriend came over that afternoon after school. We drank my mother’s vodka while we watched a movie. It didn’t take long for both of us us to get pretty drunk (which helped a lot for what was about to come). Soon, we had forgotten about the movie and were in my bedroom, stripped down to our underwear, making out. Continue reading

3 Ways to Get Your Partner to Try Anal Sex

Many people believe that anal intercourse hurts and that it is always an uncomfortable experience. Bad Kitty at LoveHoney reveals three ways to get your partner to try anal sex, and if you follow these 10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex, you will ensure that your partner’s first anal sex experience is pleasurable rather than painful. My post Anal Sex from a Female Perspective describes what anal sex feel like for a woman.

Anal sex can be scary if you haven’t done it before, but even scarier for your partner if you have and they haven’t. Here’s some ways to encourage them to give anal play a go… Read more

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