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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Fingering: Pleasuring a Woman with Your Hand

orgasm-faceFingering is a term meaning the manual manipulation of the clitoris, vulva, vagina, or anus for the purpose of sexual arousal and stimulation. Fingering can be the entire sexual encounter, or it may be part of foreplay. To “finger yourself” is to masturbate with your hand. Fingering can be done outside the vagina only, inside the vagina, or around and inside the anus. Continue reading

My Lesbian Sex Ebook Has Been Published!

KissingDespite lesbians definitely being out of the closet, there are still not a lot of sex tip and sex advice for lesbians available. Apparently, women are supposed to automatically know how to make love to another woman, but that is just not the case. It’s true that a woman should be able to avoid some of the mistakes that men make. (You do know where the clitoris is and why it’s important.) You may have some tricks you’ve picked up from masturbation or previous lovers. That’s not enough, however, to satisfy your lover in bed night after night. Continue reading

How to Give a Vaginal Massage

Vaginal MassageFondling the vagina is often part of foreplay for many couples, but few men have ever given their partners a full vaginal massage. This is a mistake because vaginal massage is relaxing, pleasurable, and arousing for women. It is not only a perfect prelude to intercourse, but it also can be done by itself when intercourse is not desired. To give your partner an amazing experience, just try these ten vaginal massage techniques. Continue reading

5 Underrated Sex Acts

Funny Girl Sex Guide tackles five underrated sex acts that you should give another chance.

 

How to Rock Her World with Your Hand

Bringing a woman to climax takes more than jackhammering away at her. Most women need manual or oral stimulation to get off, AskMen presents Marni, founder of the Wing Girl Method, with these foreplay tips and techniques on how to properly finger a woman.

How to Finger a Woman: 6 Powerful Techniques

ForeplayIt goes without saying that in the bedroom, every man wants to be the best his partner has ever had. However, a lot of men have confided that bringing a woman to orgasm is one of the hardest thing they can ever think of doing. It is so bad that there are some men who have never brought their women to a climax. Actually, bringing a woman to orgasm isn’t difficult at all. It is definitely not as hard as it is portrayed. Continue reading

G-Spot Stimulation through Fingering

Da Kinky Kid talks about G-spot stimulation through fingering.

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