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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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How to Use Your Fingers to Blow Her Mind in Bed

Danielle Page reveals how to use your fingers to blow your woman’s mind in bed.

What’s the problem with those “try these 10 moves tonight, guaranteed to get her off every time” lists? For starters, their success rate is nil. Since every vagina is shaped slightly differently, the moves that get women off vary from lady to lady. Meaning, every woman needs something a little bit different in order to reach the big O. Also, that “something” might not expressly involve your dick — since only 12.9% of women consistently reach orgasm through penetration alone. Read more

6 Steps to Giving a Woman a Powerful Orgasm With Your Hands

If you follow these six steps, you can give your partner a powerful orgasm – with just your hands.

Manual stimulation of the vulva, and in particular the clitoris, is the most common way for a woman achieve an orgasm, so giving your lover an orgasm with your hands ought to be easy. After all, you’ve probably given yourself one, but what you like may not be the same as what another woman likes. However, there are several techniques that the majority of woman like. If you follow the six steps below, you will give your lover so much erotic pleasure that she is almost sure to have a powerful orgasm. Read more

Two Fingering Techniques That Drive Women Crazy

These two fingering techniques are great for either foreplay or taking a woman to orgasm.

If there is one surefire way to give your lover sexual pleasure, it is by fingering her. Your fingers can give you complete control over how you stimulate her, and since you have five fingers and two hands, an almost infinite variety of ways to do it. Whether used as foreplay or the main event of your sex session, these two lesbian fingering techniques will drive your lover crazy with passion Read more

5 Cunnilingus Finger Techniques

Even though cunnilingus is oral sex,  these five finger techniques can make it even better.

Oral sex is mainly about the mouth and tongue, but that doesn’t mean you should adopt a hands-off policy when going down on your lover. Skillful fingers work quite well to help build the sexual tension that will be released with orgasm. Adding these five finger techniques to your oral sex repertoire will add to your lover’s pleasure. Read more

8 Fingering Problems and How to Solve Them

Hayley MacMillen examines eight common fingering problems and dhow to solve them.

Fingering, IMO, is severely underrated, often seen as nothing more than a short stop on you and your partner’s way around the bases when — if done right — it can be a main attraction. Zoë Ligon, sex educator and founder of inclusive sex toy store Spectrum Boutique, is with me on this. “Hands are the most versatile sex toy there is!” she exclaims. “They’re often overlooked and just seen as tools for foreplay, but manual sex is sex.” In the interest of elevating the art of the fingerbang for giver and receiver alike, Cosmopolitan.com asked five sex experts for their takes on the biggest fingering problems and how to address them. Read more

Two Hot Foreplay Techniques to Turn On a Woman

These two hot foreplay techniques can help you smoothly transition to manual or oral sex.

One of the most fun aspects of sex is creating anticipation and building sexual tension. Spending plenty of time kissing, hugging, and caressing your lover helps do that, of course, but even when you are both ready to “head south,” it’s still a good idea to take your time getting there. The more turned on your lover is, the more responsive she will be to your desires. These two hot ways to warm up your lover will take the anticipation and sexual tension you’ve created to the next level. Read mo

How to Give Your Woman a Vaginal Massage

V-MassageA vaginal massage can be an extremely pleasurable experience. It releases emotional tensions and stress. While most couples fondle the vagina as a foreplay technique, few make it the main course. Paying special attention to her vagina is a way to spice up your sex life and strengthen your intimate relationship.

The Benefits of Vaginal Massage

So why is vaginal massage different from simply stimulating the clitoris with your hand? Tt actually has a lot more benefits for both of you because it: Continue reading

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