About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Female Orgasm

6 Surprising Beauty Benefits of Orgasm

Orgasms not only feel good, but also make you look good, according Suzannah Weiss.

Orgasms are worth pursuing for their own sake, but it doesn’t hurt to know about the mood, beauty, and health benefits of sex. Its improvements on physical appearance are numerous and even a little surprising. It’s almost as if a lot of the time we spend doing our makeup might as well be spent in the sack.

And while orgasms are awesome (had you heard?), sex researcher Nicole Prause, Ph.D., says they aren’t even required to get the added beauty bonuses of sex: Any level of sexual pleasure or even just arousal can have the same effects.

Here are a few beauty perks that come from an exciting sex life: Read more

If You’ve Never Tried Irrumatio You’re Missing SO Many Orgasms

Sex adviser Susan Bratton says that if you’ve never tried irrumatio, you’re missing so many orgasms.

Most men admit to me that the oral sex they receive from their woman is not as good as they’d hope, yet they won’t tell their partner this because they’re afraid doing so might demoralize her.

The same way women are afraid to hurt a guy’s ego by giving him direction in bed, men don’t want to make us feel bad, especially if there’s a chance we might take serious offense and refuse not only to work together to improve the situation, but we also may withhold oral favors (or sex of any kind) in response.

After all, even a crappy blowjob is better than NO blowjob. Read more

For more about irrumatio, see my article Irrumatio: Even Better Than Fellatio?

Can Orgasms Increase Fertility?

Reaching orgasm may increase chances of conception by 15 percent, according to a new study.

While male orgasms have a link to fertility, until now, female orgasms were considered to occur simply for pleasure.

But new research suggests female orgasms could play a key role in fertility.

The study suggests reaching climax could increase a woman’s chance of conceiving by as much as 15 per cent. Read more

Scientists Have Found These Powerful Points in the Vagina

Sexpert Adina Rivers says that activating these powerful points in the vagina may lead to full-body orgasm and emotional healing.

You may have heard the term ley lines used to describe alignments of ancient sites or holy places.  They are believed to carry spiritual and mystical energy from one point to another, but did you know that there are actually ley lines within your body and even crazier in your vagina?

In this article, I will show you how you can find, unlock, and activate them to empower yourself physically, mentally, and spiritually. Read more

5 Sex Positions for More Clitoral Stimulation

Not  fEnough clitoral stimulation is the most common reason for women not having orgasms from intercourse. These five sex positions help fix that problem.

Despite how every rom-com ever makes it look, no, just hopping on top during sex isn’t going to give you magical, spontaneous orgasms either.

So, if clitoral stimulation is your jam, there are some adjustments you can make to your go-to positions that will definitely increase your ~satisfaction factor~. An extra hand or a toy down there can do wonders… Read more

Here’s How Long Sex Should Last for Maximum Female Pleasure

Nothing should be written in stone when it comes to how long sex should last, but these are some guidelines.

Let’s talk about sex, baby! (Because, really, what else did you come to Cosmopolitan.com to talk about? Besides physics and the answer to world peace.)

Over at GQ, they’re trying to answer the question: How long should sex last? Especially for a woman’s enjoyment? (They’re doing the Lord’s work.) Read more

5 Tips for Better Fingeirng

The easiest way to bring a woman to orgasm is with your hands, but what’s the best way to do it?

Many, if not most women, have masturbated by fingering themselves. That’s probably why fingering another woman doesn’t seem as intimidating to first-time lesbian lovers as giving oral does. Been there, done that – sort of. Even so, fingering another woman is different than fingering yourself – thankfully – but it’s just as good a way to give your lover an orgasm as it is to give yourself one. These five easy fingering techniques will help you give your lover a hand when you are in bed together. Read more

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